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My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by ConfessionsNgr: 8:40pm On Apr 15, 2015
I am really in six and sevens concerning this issue. I have been happily married to my husband for twenty years. Yes! Twenty years and happily married. Our first born just gained admission into the university and the last is writing common entrance this year. My husband doesn't cheat, or maybe I can't say. Just last week, he woke me up in the middle of the night and told me he wanted to discuss something very important with me. He said he wants to marry a second wife. I couldn't believe my ears. It seemed as if it's a dream. Even right now It still feels like I am yet to wake up from a nightmare. I don't know why all of a sudden somebody who just celebrated his fifty years old birthday wants a second wife. Is it that he has impregnated a girl outside? And he wants to marry her. My husband isn't the type that loves too much intimacy. He doesn't look like an adulterer. I would have sworn that this idea will never cross his mind. I am really confused as I don't just know what to do. Am I actually dreaming? Is there anything I can do to help the issue?


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Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by Nobody: 8:43pm On Apr 15, 2015
undecided
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by izuch(m): 8:45pm On Apr 15, 2015
and so?
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by jascon1(m): 8:46pm On Apr 15, 2015
Cut the left part of him blorkhorse comot. Put am inside ogogoro then let am soak for 30 mins. Then add salt put n then throway am inside dustbin after 45 mins. Then wait for 2 days and then come back to tell us what happened. That will solve the problem
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by ELTON123(m): 8:48pm On Apr 15, 2015
Story for the gods in olamide's voice
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by prettyjo(f): 8:50pm On Apr 15, 2015
men are soooooo unpredictable...





#short of words#
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by ritababe(f): 8:51pm On Apr 15, 2015
Pinch urself to confirm u are not dreaming, then if its true
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Tel him to build another house for the second wife bcus if he bring anoda girl after 20 years then he should be ready for world war111
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by pinkycute(f): 8:54pm On Apr 15, 2015
undecided undecided undecided
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by ronald4lif(m): 8:57pm On Apr 15, 2015
Her decision making should first start by involving their kids and they all should have a family meeting concerning this issue. He has to give credible reasons why he want to marry a second wife and humiliate them in the eyes of the general public and relatives.

I'm quite sure the man can't come up with anything tangible and the mum and kids must insist the woman mustn't live with them. He should get her a new place where he can always go to deceive himself and his old age. They should disassociate themselves with whatever decision he makes regarding the so called second wife.

Although divorce or separation isn't a good thing, I would advise she explore ways to kick out the old fool ass. But that should only be if she has a stable source of income of her own. It's even possible that the man is jobless and broke, only lazy broke men can conjure up such idea and depravity.

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Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by modskiller(m): 8:59pm On Apr 15, 2015
Let her go and read Kama Sutra, test it on her husband, and then come back to give us the results.
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by SlimBrawnie(f): 9:00pm On Apr 15, 2015
There are many reasons why..but one prayer I keep praying is "may my husband never be married twice.. for whatever reason". Hard Luck
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by Nobody: 9:02pm On Apr 15, 2015
Epistle of saint paul long writ up
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Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by ITbomb(m): 9:21pm On Apr 15, 2015
My husband isn't the type that loves too much intimacy.

I'm curious about this cos many men do not like to try certain things with their wives mainly because they assume their wife would look dem one kind but get them with some sweet 16 and watch the acrobatic display.
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by goodmorning40: 9:29pm On Apr 15, 2015
The man wan die of poverty ni, to start child rearing allover again at 50 I pity him. Wife plan legal divorce (I hope he's rich) get a good cut and face ur children because I see no happiness in a home with second wife

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Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by pwerrymansion(f): 10:05pm On Apr 15, 2015
Hmmmm....na wah oh! Some men are just so unpredictable. Why does he want to bring in her mistress legally into their home? Maybe she has used vjay-jay water to cook for him! Its good to watch him sign his death warrant by himself! Madam first wife pls ignore the bloated mule and face your children.
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by Nobody: 10:10pm On Apr 15, 2015
some men are just so stwwwpid!!wetin he stil dey find,he wan born monkey nii undecided#op file for divorce straight!!#gat no time for shitss
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by Nobody: 12:22am On Apr 16, 2015
prettythicksme:
some men are just so stwwwpid!!wetin he stil dey find,he wan born monkey nii undecided#op file for divorce straight!!#gat no time for shitss
LMAO.. File for divorce Because of another woman that is not yet home? Can this matter be solve amicably like husband and wife? Bad advice my dear. undecided
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by Nobody: 12:31am On Apr 16, 2015
@ops, since you can testify good things about your husband, it really show how gentleman he is. I will like u to ask him why he wants to marry a second wife because we can't really judge him for now until we know why. Cheers!
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by bronzemannuels(f): 12:48am On Apr 16, 2015
sameer1212:
LMAO.. File for divorce Because of another woman that is not yet home? Can this matter be solve amicably like husband and wife? Bad advice my dear. undecided
Am sorry but marriage is supposed to be between a man and a woman ( no third party) when someone else is involved it is no longer marriage it is something else , it is bad enough dat he cheated not to talk of marrying another woman. ( Even the Bible says that d condition on which a man can divorce is unfaithfulness; this is beyond unfaithfulness.) I STRONGLY so support divorce , so long she can cope being a single parent, emotionally and financially and in all aspect of parenthood. people usually say that it is not good for d kids but I put it u , wat of situations where men abandon their wives, won't the woman still raise the kids . Divorce, I support so long she can cope being a single parent. and if she can't it should resolved in such a manner dat d d second wife should not move into d same house with d first wife.
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by Nobody: 9:37am On Apr 16, 2015
sameer1212:
LMAO.. File for divorce Because of another woman that is not yet home? Can this matter be solve amicably like husband and wife? Bad advice my dear. undecided
really?ok advice her then undecided
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by Nobody: 11:14am On Apr 16, 2015
prettythicksme:
really?ok advice her then undecided
Hey, why u dey do your face like,na quarrel we dey quarel? grin
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by Akynzodeighbour(m): 11:27am On Apr 16, 2015
Am coming
Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by manuelpepper: 11:53am On Apr 16, 2015
all these selfish women sef.


Cant u see we are muslims?

Twenty years or not, allow him marry another woman. Our religion permits that.

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