What is Important in Love and Relationships?
By BANKOLE OLUSEGU
Level: Platinum

As a person that read business administrationand management, it was my dream job as I love helping people and talking to people about relationships. I hope my articles , ,

All of us love to be loved. Love and relationship can last longer if both the persons involved, work on them. There are different ways of expressing love and emotions. A warm hug can make a lot of difference if offered at the right time. Many people fail in their relationship because they don't work on their relationship after they get engaged.

Know the needs

When you are involved in love and relationship, you should know the needs. You should understand what you need from your partner and what the partner needs from you. It is foolish to fall in love and get into a relationship when you don't know the needs. The couple involved in the relationship should talk about their expectations and then start the relationship.

Care and affection

For any relationship to succeed, care and affection is the major requirement. Only when you express your affection to your love, the other person will be happy. In any relationship, both the persons must play dual role of giver and receiver. 'Show your love and be loved' strategy can strengthen even weakest of relationships.

Know your limits

Many love and relationships break because the couples do not know their limits. Just because you love a person, you should not be over possessive. The persons involved in the relationship are human beings and they need their breathing space. People who try to dominate the other person cannot last long in any relationship.

Communication

Communication between the partners is essential in love and relationship. In the initial stages of relationships, both the persons will work on their relationship and communicate a lot. But as days pass by and when they know that they are into the relationship, the interest for communication is reduced. This is where the relationship beings to get a crack in it.

Honesty

Both the persons involved in love and relationship expects the other to be honest. Take some time and share your feelings with your partner everyday. You may be right or wrong, but sharing your feelings with your partner builds trust. When honesty prevails in a relationship, its very difficult for anyone to break that relationship.

Discussions and arguments

Many times the discussions turn into arguments and this leads to the failure of love and relationship. A relationship between two conflicting individuals will not last long if both of them adjust with each other. Both the persons involved in the relationship should be adjustable and work to stop the discussion before it becomes an argument. When you are able to achieve this, then you can be sure that your love and relationship will last long.