1. When you keep calm as a lady, you drive
him crazy, keeping him thinking that there is
some thing peculiar about you.

2. When he sends you abusive message, do
not reply back with abusive word, if you must
reply. Write "I'm sorry". Or thank you.

3. No man likes to be talked back to. If you
must be a wife material, just shut up. When
he is calm, talk things over.

4. Don't be arrogant, be humble .

5. Don't be carried away by your beauty.. Have
you not seen beautiful ladies that are still
single till date? Your character keep him.

6. Do not compare him with your EX. there
are thousand of other ladies out there. Forget
about the past, old things have passed away.

7 . Don't always be at the receiving end, buy
him some thing, no matter how little it is,
whether he has thousands of it, just buy it,
yours is unique.

8. Be industrious, men like ladies with
industrious mind.

9. Respect him and his family members.

10. Be a good cook, learn how to cook
something. Some ladies can only cook
noodles.

11. Call him when you have credit, don't be a
chronic flasher'. don't always wait for him to
call.

12. Value yourself, and he will value you.

13. Because he doesn't have today does not
make him poor, look at what drives Him.

14. Look out, if he is a time waster or he is
for real.

15. Can he "fight" both physically and
spiritually for you?

16. Where is He? In God's presence or on the
other side.

17. If he stammers, when he is introducing
you to friends and family member. Run!

18. What you can't change in HiM, now that
you are dating, am sorry in marriage you
won't be able to change it either, or you will
spend the rest of your life trying to change
him.

19. You are dating and he punches you at
every slightest misunderstandin gg. Sorry,
when you marry him, your bed room will be a
"changing room" and your sitting-room a
"boxing ring"

20. Every little time, he threatens to break up
with you. You start crying, if you leave me i
will die"... who told you? A better person who
will value you is coming. Relax.

21. Above all. Ask yourself! What is GOD
saying about the Relationship? May God open
your eyes if you are already into
one, and if you are still searching May God
lead you through amen
LOVE YOU ALL!!!

for those ladies who know why they are
into a relationship abi

because so many ladies are into
a confused relationship