Hi RealPeeps,
This topic is an eye opener to this current generation (i-Nigeria) that which would reveal a very sacred truth to why most ladies in the country with the age range of 27years and above start struggling to get married. After an in-depth and intuitive thinking I was able to come up with a very logical explanation for this notion.
You all would bear me witness that in your very own locality there is a large number of ladies desperately hustling to get married to virtually anyone who will take them In just to run avoid the shame/stigma of been unmarried within the age range of 27 & above.

This has resulted in:
°Ladies suffering a lot of heart breaks.
°Ladies get marital disappointments
°Ladies get to be ‘used’ with hopes of marriage
°Ladies get exposed to fetish acts(juju/voodoo)
°Ladies suffer from depression, HBP etc..
°And lots more
HOW DID THEY END UP IN THIS TRAGEDY?

My FINDINGS: A girl starts showing maturity features at the very tender ages as young as 13years.

By the time she gets to 19-20years old she becomes an icon beaming beauty, attractiveness, maturity, fertility and other masculinity attractive features. Thus, the ages of say 17-21years of a lady’s life is a very vital point that should announce her been ripe for marriage and suitors can come into her house to make the proper procedures. Even if the girl is still young considering her age and possibly academic status, the suitor can be advised to give the girl a little time to come of ripen age {which according to our constitution is 18years of age} or and archive desired academic targets. Don’t forget at this age range, ladies are still in their pure form(virgins) and quite naïve (thus, can be taught and sensitized of a lot she is to know)

The GLITCH: Is that no African/Nigerian mum wants to see her own Daughter (17-21years) anywhere close to a man. In fact they tell them things to scare them off men(e.g. once a guy touches you, you get pregnant. etc), and sometimes even beat/torture them. Thus ladies within this range try a lot to stay away from men till they get out of the house (i.e. tertiary level). Say due to the issue of getting a tertiary admission, she stays home until 20-21years old. Due to naivety she started hanging out @23(200l) and due to the spree of fun and pleasure she just tasted #forbiddenfriut, she cant help but keep yearning and lusting for more guys. In turn, she gradually becomes less attractive which is noticed by the wearing of lots of makeup, extreme body exposures, poor academic grades and lots of internet activities (FB,Twitter,BBM,Whatsapp,2go,Instagram,Badoo,Eskimi,We chat,Pinterest and lots more with so many male friends). She finishes school say 26-27years(with nysc) plus the whole academic/flexing/sexing load, she wouldn’t be as hot as before. The ‘happening’ bachelors would have lots of their focus on the blooming young nymphets and reaching out to them for a quick catch, leaving out the worn out ones.

The CURE: 1st I don’t blame the ladies suffering such, what do you expect? A young girl not betrothed in a university full of all classes of men.. It takes a lot not to be tempted.
I think our parents have a lot to play here:
Allow suitors when they come to your daughter.
Give her all the sensitization she needs along side her Faith.
Rapport/Meet with suitors(and their) very well from which you can sense their aim.
A lot of sex education is required. #realtalk
Maintain continuous bonding with the child.
Respect their privacy but also psychologically break into it. #wisdom
Always pray for them
With this little parental guide tips, your daughters can enjoy early healthy marriages which you also would always smile when those little grand kids rush and hug around you( who would defintely still be young and vibrant) especially when you also had your children at a cute age range.

Your views and contributions are most welcomed.

Disclaimer: article is not a fact, it’s a carefully analyzed finding as other factors exist that wasn't listed.

Source: /p4AIqC-3k RealZone

Well written.

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GraceInUSA:
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I think it has more to do with family, even though you can't have a family without Romance