Marriage - 8 years
Kids - 2

Below are scenarios a Husband has notices in his wife over a period of time, this spans before and after the marriage.
Sorry it's kind of long, but it will surely benefit us one way or the other, a simple YES or NO for each scenario will be appreciated.

Scenarios Before Wedding ( Dating).
1.Entertained her Ex during her NYSC, during the period she was doing her ICAN lessons. Husband visited the venue of the ICAN lesson on the day the EX came into town, She was not at the lesson and her phone was switched off, she claimed she was in class.

2. On Valentine day, Husband Surprises the wife in her house, they arrived together and asked the hubby to leave( after 10 mins) the Husband had to literally beg for a Kiss on a Vals day.She came back unusually late that night she owed it to the ICAN lesson.

Scenario After Wedding.

1. Two weeks into the marriage, Husband and wife were on the bed together, the EX called the wife,she claimed it was her cousin, the Husband found out it was the Ex as he checked her last received call.

2. During the first child's Naming ceremony, wife asked her husband to leave the ceremony and go and pick up her former Course Mate( A Guy) and bring him to the House, Husband said he cannot leave the ceremony and go and pick anybody.Wife took offence and kept malice with Husband for a week.

3. Three months after the Child's ceremony, the Ex bf of the wife was always calling and send sms to the wife threaten to expose their relationship before her marriage, wife never mentioned it to her husband, but will call her friend to warn the bf to stop harassing her.

4. Husband lost his Job, Husband and wife visited Wife's father's house. Each time the Husband does not see the wife, he will call her line, even if she is in the House she will claim she is out of the house, meanwhile she is answering the phone from another room.

5. Husband Gets a New Job, trying to stabilize and settle down - Husband sees his wife with cloths and shoes which of course he did not buy and the wife also does not work. He asked the wife “when did you buy this cloths that you never showed me”, the wife's response was " You never gave me money to Buy them so never ask me how I bought it"

6.Husband and wife are currently leaving in one of the Wife's fathers house, whenever there is a small misunderstanding, or whenever the wife brings up issue of the [husband's past deeds]**** she will keep malice for days or weeks or even months.


[husband's past deeds]**** - 1.5 years into the marriage the husband use to chat with ladies online (Facebook etc) the wife found out and was angry , the husband apologized and promised never to do it again. 3 years later the husband started chatting online again and stopped almost immediately, the wife never found out, till 2 years after he stopped, she saw the history of the chat of over 2 years. The husband confessed yes he did it but stopped immediately, the date stamp of the chat was there to prove. Since then the husband has not repeated that act, yet the Wife brings up the issue every time, which will lead to malice of over a month.

SIGH!!!

No.....she is the best spouse for him afterall she is not pregnant for the ex













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ajuju

Questions like this makes me bomb people...

She's cheating on you and wants you to know she's cheating on you... The last girl that did this same thing to me is still in coma as we speak. ..

One bottle of orijin on her head and she would come back to her senses... Nonsense!


EricRichie

hmmmmmmm all of the above

ticking timebomb.......as soon as dude gets a good job, she'll be relegated to the back scenes.....

lol

EricRichie:
Questions like this makes me bomb people...

She's cheating on you and wants you to know she's cheating on you... The last girl that did this same thing to me is still in coma as we speak. ..

One bottle of orijin on her head and she would come back to her senses... Nonsense!




EricRichie

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