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| How Should I Do It by bolod(m): 2:04pm On May 10, 2015 |
pls I need honest advice, and no insult pls. I am currently in a relationship with a girl I love so much and are both ripe for marriage. But the prob is her dad called me not quite long on how our preps are for our marriage cos she and her family wants us to marry this year,but the prob is I want to have a good paying job first b4 marriage cos I have responsibilties I have to carry in my family. I am a salary earner and earns less than 25k in a month. I don't know how to tell the father that am not ready for marriage now so it won't seem as if I wanna run away. Pls I need advice pls. |
| Re: How Should I Do It by Nobody: 2:07pm On May 10, 2015 |
Igbo man^^^  |
| Re: How Should I Do It by Nobody: 2:08pm On May 10, 2015 |
Just use the same words as you used here. He seems to have good intentions, maybe he can advice you on what to do. |
| Re: How Should I Do It by Emperoradrian(m): 2:10pm On May 10, 2015 |
Y u go d put hand 4 woman matter in d 1st place wen u knw u r nt financially ready 4 it......simply b a man and tell d gal papa,him no go kill u,and even if he kills u,come bak to nairaland and tell us,we'll tell u wat nxt to do......team #moni over b!tches......moni bring b!tches and b!tches bring life#.........nxt topic pls!!! |
| Re: How Should I Do It by ronald4lif(m): 2:10pm On May 10, 2015 |
No two ways about it apart from letting her dad know you're not financially buoyant and ready for marriage at the moment. A man has to get married when he's ready, not when he's expected to or when someone else want him to. |
| Re: How Should I Do It by delishpot: 2:14pm On May 10, 2015 |
Tell him the truth. Sir, If I have the funds, I will marry your daughter today. I cant financialy take care of her 100% . But OP, does this mean the girl is marryable, whenable? |
| Re: How Should I Do It by obiak4(m): 2:22pm On May 10, 2015 |
op if you are emotionally, spirituality mature to marry her please just explain to her dad that you would love to marry her but you are not financially buoyant to take care of the marriage expenses the man would understand if he does not COMEBACK HERE FOR THE NEXT LINE OF ACTION MY 2CENTS |
| Re: How Should I Do It by Young03(m): 2:23pm On May 10, 2015 |
simple and short...tell d papa to assist u |
| Re: How Should I Do It by Nobody: 2:33pm On May 10, 2015 |
bolod: Bro Do not rush to marriage if you aint prepare, wedding is just a day party, marriage is life time. |
| Re: How Should I Do It by stan241(m): 2:55pm On May 10, 2015 |
Explain to the man same way you have done here, marriage aint something to rush into just like that biko |
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