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| Pls Advice Me by dukeduke: 2:16pm On May 10, 2015 |
I'm 30 years ....I live outside Nig and planing to relocate in 3 years to find something to do. I am building a house (upstirs 4 flats for rent) I just roof the house though i don't know when to finish the house. My issue is that my girl friend of 1 year wants me to come see her parents and pay her pride price. I love her so much no doubt. But I am a bit confused weather to finish up my house first before that though i don't know when exactly to finish it. She is 26 years old... Pls house I need your advice. |
| Re: Pls Advice Me by jamex93(m): 2:30pm On May 10, 2015 |
tell her wat u have in mind na make she calm down |
| Re: Pls Advice Me by passionate88: 2:30pm On May 10, 2015 |
Finish your house, move in (if you want to) stay alone for like 2 years b4 u think of marrying.... Don't let any girl rush you... Marriage no b by hurry |
| Re: Pls Advice Me by Brugo(m): 2:30pm On May 10, 2015 |
Finish your house first so that you will come back home and move into your own house straight. Marriage can wait. |
| Re: Pls Advice Me by ronald4lif(m): 2:43pm On May 10, 2015 |
You don't sound as one who's ready for marriage yet. It appears you're just considering it because your girlfriend is mounting up pressure on you. If that's the case then don't do her bidding, you only get married when you're ready to. But let's assume you also feel it's safe and about time you get married, and you see her as the right one, with or without the pressure. You mentioned you don't know when the property will be completed. This means it could be anytime running to the next 5years, although not likely to take that long though. Are you ready to stay unmarried till such time because of the incompletion of the property?. Will she also be willing to wait for you till then?. Can you afford to lose her to someone else?. Depending on your answers to these posers then a better decision can be arrived at. Marriage can be a set back for some, it can be the extra push some men need to improve on their finances. Getting married to her now could lead to further shortage of funds and savings to complete the building as you'll take up more new responsibilities. However, most married-women would ensure and put all effort to see to the completion of their hubby property. You should be able to tell if she's such type from her reasoning towards life and her show of concern towards your general well-being. 1 Like |
| Re: Pls Advice Me by MrCork: 2:44pm On May 10, 2015 |
dukeduke: . .ok...so u want her parent to giv u a house before marry her?...r u a golddigggger?....... YOU HOMEBASE PEOPLE MENNNN!!! (no ofeeensse)  1 Like |
| Re: Pls Advice Me by stan241(m): 2:52pm On May 10, 2015 |
MrCork:Mr Cork won't kill person with laughter, the dude says he's abroad and you calling him home based 3 Likes |
| Re: Pls Advice Me by dukeduke: 3:08pm On May 10, 2015 |
Ronald, Many thanks for your comprehensive advise noted. Regarding to your advice, I feel is safe and about time for me to get married and I see her as the right one though there is no much pressure but I know she is expecting that considering she is a woman. I don't really know if she will be willing to wait for more 2 years probably considering her age and insecurity that i may live her or something and i can't afford to lose her for someone else. From all indication i feel she understands that we need the building to be completed, she is not really materialistic. I am very sure of that. Beside I don't think anything can ever stop me from completing the house when the money comes in. Meanwhile I don't intend to live in the house after completion.. its 4 flats just for rent. I have other financial securities such lands. Is it wise to do introduction to let her know i will not live her. Will humbly request for further advice... |
| Re: Pls Advice Me by dukeduke: 3:11pm On May 10, 2015 |
Ronald, Many thanks for your comprehensive advise noted. Regarding to your advice, I feel is safe and about time for me to get married and I see her as the right one though there is no much pressure but I know she is expecting that considering she is a woman. I don't really know if she will be willing to wait for more 2 years probably considering her age and insecurity that i may leave her or something and i can't afford to lose her for someone else. From all indication i feel she understands that we need the building to be completed, she is not really materialistic. I am very sure of that. Beside I don't think anything can ever stop me from completing the house when the money comes in. Meanwhile I don't intend to live in the house after completion.. its 4 flats just for rent. I have other financial securities such as lands. Is it wise to do introduction to let her know i will not live her. Will humbly request for further advice... |
| Re: Pls Advice Me by CecyAdrian(f): 3:29pm On May 10, 2015 |
dukeduke:Having an introduction done, wont stop her 4rm leaving you if you take so much time (2years like you said) b4 marrying her proper. I suggest you talk to her and know what she thinks. Her comments will give you an insight into what she thinks is priority. |
| Re: Pls Advice Me by Welepamilayo: 5:05am On May 11, 2015 |
If you are truly confused between finishing your house and getting married, oh boy you are not ready oo. Make u no create situation wey you go come hate the girl because you no sabi finish your house. Your house be your baby sef. Abeg, be honest with the girl say you no fit marry now |
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