A friend of mine got married traditionally three months ago and he's planning his white wedding this December.

Until now the so called wife,he dated for two years with no sex before marriage things has not allowed him to touch her (mind u not sex oooo,not even a kiss) because her pastor told her that it is a sin,until the man has done the normal thing (white wedding) before she will be free to act as a wife.

The pastor even advised the lady not to go to his house,not to wash his clothes,cook etc. That if my friend wants to see the woman he paid her bride price and married traditionally they should come to church,a fast food joint or public places.

According to my friend,he said he provides and takes care of this lady like any man would take care of his wife but not even a single hug in appreciation.

My follow nairalanders please,what's your best advice on this matter? because my friend is thinking maybe she's hiding something.

Seriously, i don't like seeing things like dis! A lady who refuses her husband just because they are yet wed in the church is SICk and should be checked !

sonnel:
A friend of mine got married traditionally three months ago and he's planning his white wedding this December.

Until now the so called wife,he dated for two years with no sex before marriage things has not allowed him to touch her (mind u not sex oooo,not even a kiss) because her pastor told her that it is a sin,until the man has done the normal thing (white wedding) before she will be free to act as a wife.

The pastor even advised the lady not to go to his house,not to wash his clothes,cook etc. That if my friend wants to see the woman he paid her bride price and married traditionally they should come to church,a fast food joint or public places.

According to my friend,he said he provides and takes care of this lady like any man would take care of his wife but not even a single hug in appreciation.

My follow nairalanders please,what's your best advice on this matter? because my friend is thinking maybe she's hiding something.

these are all lies from the pit of hell, where is white wedding written in the bible. What the bible recongnise is the bride price paying . And so every other things is jst man doctrine.

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