That ladies suffer the most in a relationship is not a new thing, it has always been happening and truth is some of us bring these problems upon ourselves, am not a relationship expert but i think there are somethings that shouldn't be  overlooked.  Here are basic rules from me to you to follow in and out of a relationship: 

1. Don't destroy your value by always proving to a guy how much you mean to him, if he can't reciprocate that.

2. If he is ashamed to introduce you to his friends/world , you might as well consider yourself not part of his agenda.

3. When he claims to love you and can't give you enough proof then you should think about why you are getting together with him.

4. Don't give all yourself to a guy who is so difficult to predict his next step..... you might get disappointed.

5. Don't show a guy how much you really love him..... he is going take that for granted.

6. Always trust your instincts/intuition, they have our best interests at heart .

7. Don't chase him...... he should be the one chasing you.

8. You shouldn't always remind a man his role in a relationship, he already knows them and if he can't act on them then he is not worth the headache.

9. The more chances you give to him the less respect he begins to have for you.

10. Always use your brain and sometimes follow your heart.

11. Before you get into a relationship be sure of why  you are getting into one.

12. Never shed a tear for a man who wouldn't acknowledge or cherish you, your mascara Is damn expensive for that..... you deserve better.

13. Never let men be mean to you.

14. If you can't find true love........ find money. 

15. Don't get into a relationship because you are lonely or your friends are having fun in theirs or looking for refuge in the next guy because of previous bad break up.

16. Don't make him a priority if he hasn't given you enough reason to.

17. Sex in a relationship is an emotional and intimate issue, you wouldn't want to be with someone who sees it as fun and games..... be careful.

18. No matter how much he loves you, if that relationship is an abusive one? Run for your life........your life is more important than love.

19. Relationship is not all about sex and fun....... what you learn and impact on each other physically, morally and spiritually is really important and shows how much you mean to each other.

20. Relationship is a serious thing.... don't play with people's heart all in the name of having fun, its better you tell the person from the beginning what you really want instead of painting it as one.

21. Friendship, trust and communication are what makes a healthy relationship. 

22. Never stoop too low by becoming a man's play toy all in the name of love...... your value is worth more than that.

23. Never settle for less, you deserve to be treated like a queen that you are.

24. You are beautiful both in and out don't let anyone tell you otherwise. 

25. Nobody is perfect, try not to change your physical appearance and if he doesn't love you that way then he is not the one because he also is not perfect.

26. If you have a bad side that needs to be dealt with...... change it, no one wants to be with someone with an ugly character.

Ladies please take care of your self esteem and always try to make yourself happy. It might look like we are always lashing out on the guys so, dear males the next post is going to be for you, it might interest you to know that the guys sometimes get thier own share of encounter in a relationship. Relationship is a beautiful experience please don't take anyone for granted. 

I hope this was helpful........  

http://phloxiesblog..com/2015/06/the-basic-rules-1.html

Nice write up

waiting for the BASIC RULES FOR MEN

MOB pls

True.

abbeycial:
waiting for the BASIC RULES FOR MEN

MOB pls

Sorry i don't have the basic rules for men but here a post you might like

http://phloxiesblog..com/2015/06/things-you-should-never-do-to-your-man.html

"Things you should never do to your man"