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Would You Date A Guy Whose Best Friend Is A Woman? by blackberry101: 7:53am On Jun 10, 2015
"Would you be OK with your man having close female friends?" A fcbuk frnd did ask this question the other day...

So what's ur take on this ladies...

And the guys how about dating dis girl who's close frnd happens to be a guy?
Re: Would You Date A Guy Whose Best Friend Is A Woman? by ideyhere(f): 7:58am On Jun 10, 2015
Yes I can...depending on the guy's approach to the whole thing anyway
Re: Would You Date A Guy Whose Best Friend Is A Woman? by sweettease(f): 8:03am On Jun 10, 2015
Not that I won't, but it's a turn off and I'll prefer the one who doesn't have a female as his best friend. I don't believe a girl and a guy can be besties and share no feelings, the romantic type.
Re: Would You Date A Guy Whose Best Friend Is A Woman? by Vivly(f): 8:27am On Jun 10, 2015
Only if she's not fine.
Re: Would You Date A Guy Whose Best Friend Is A Woman? by Nobody: 8:28am On Jun 10, 2015
I won't. You want to know why?
This is why.
~A key factor for relationship sustenance is friendship and companionship. That friendship between the two of us cannot grow if he already has another lady with whom it he shares a strong bond of friendship with. He already sees her as his best companion so it would be impossible to ever see me as a better companion.

A guy who has a female as a best friend would share a lot of things in common and would have developed closeness with her so he would have to divide his time between the both of us.
She would be the first person he would like to talk to in matters that interest him. She would be the person he would want to share how he feels with.

He must have already told her a lot of secrets, some which I may never know. And since he has developed that trust for her, she would still be the person he would tell his secrets to in the future.
If we have relationship issues, she would be the first person he would like to talk to about it.
All these elements doesn't aid the growth of budding relationships.

And before you know it, comparison sets in. He starts to compare the friendship we share with that of with best friend. Then a loss of interest in our relationship follows.
Then a collapse in our relationship becomes eminent.

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Re: Would You Date A Guy Whose Best Friend Is A Woman? by Rowlandjude(m): 8:48am On Jun 10, 2015
Re: Would You Date A Guy Whose Best Friend Is A Woman? by Enockia(m): 12:02pm On Jun 10, 2015
misssclassy:
I won't. You want to know why?
This is why.
~A key factor for relationship sustenance is friendship and companionship. That friendship between the two of us cannot grow if he already has another lady with whom it he shares a strong bond of friendship with. He already sees her as his best companion so it would be impossible to ever see me as a better companion.

A guy who has a female as a best friend would share a lot of things in common and would have developed closeness with her so he would have to divide his time between the both of us.
She would be the first person he would like to talk to in matters that interest him. She would be the person he would want to share how he feels with.

He must have already told her a lot of secrets, some which I may never know. And since he has developed that trust for her, she would still be the person he would tell his secrets to in the future.
If we have relationship issues, she would be the first person he would like to talk to about it.
All these elements doesn't aid the growth of budding relationships.

And before you know it, comparison sets in. He starts to compare the friendship we share with that of with best friend. Then a loss of interest in our relationship follows.
Then a collapse in our relationship becomes eminent.


nicely said it happened to me a while back and seriously ive not recovered cos both my best friend and girlfriend had a fall out and i was left alone........
Re: Would You Date A Guy Whose Best Friend Is A Woman? by Chiefia(m): 12:11pm On Jun 10, 2015
sweettease:
Not that I won't, but it's a turn off and I'll prefer the one who doesn't have a female as his best friend. I don't believe a girl and a guy can be besties and share no feelings, the romantic type.
Re: Would You Date A Guy Whose Best Friend Is A Woman? by beautycrush24(f): 12:36pm On Jun 10, 2015
I wont. Why? There was a time when my best friend was a guy. We were both in a relationship. Guess what happened. We broke up with our respective partners and started dating grin

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