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Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by jephito(m): 11:11am On Jun 20, 2015
I met Anita dis April via a hook up show on radio. She will be 30 by February(4months younger than I), doing fine for herself, has OND, beautiful and friendly. I'm a teacher, earn 35k/month on the average and less than this lady. She possesses 7/10 of the kind of woman i want. She calls a lot and neva ask for my money though she told me money is key to this rltnshp whch i knew. Her deeds is makin fall in love. Here are my reservations:
1. Can this be genuine love?
2. Is she doing all that she is doing cos of her age - 29+?
3. Is she puttin her self under pressure that her friends are married?
4. She once said I should impregnate her so she would be guaranteed i wont leave her. Will she still remain resolute should i dont marry her or see her parents later dis year or next year?
5. Is it advisable to test her love?
6. I ve asked her for umpteen times what she doesn't like abt me. She said I should upgrade my income and sex life. [color=#550000][/color]
Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by sexylogan(m): 11:13am On Jun 20, 2015
She appears to love you for who u are, yet u are complaining.

If she refused u because u earn N35k per month for someone who earns more, you would come here to complain more.

My opinion is that she appears genuine.

So give her the benefit of a doubt.

Assume she is sincere as long as she doesn't give u reason to think otherwise.

Don't create a problem where none exists.

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Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by agarawu23(m): 11:14am On Jun 20, 2015
question 1 :- there is a 50/50 chance the love is real. because I can't trust ladies you meet on hook up show. So no guys within their vicinity?

question 2: what else do you expect from a Lady running out of age ? that's how ladies waste their time with guys that are not serious and at the end of the day, they will be searching desperately.

question 3 is similar to question 2 : what else do u expect when her mates are now having babies?

question 4 : that's another tactics ladies use to hang their self on guys after they will start blaming us with the word "baby mama" factory. Don't try it if you know you don't trust her and you aren't ready to father a child

question 5, there is nothing to test about her again because she will definitely pass your test. this set of ladies have seen it all and they are ready to give it all.

question 6. no Lady wants to date a broke nigga and of cus sex is thier food after den go say na guys like sex pass.

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Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by elantraceey(f): 11:16am On Jun 20, 2015
Please stop having the mindset that just because she's not getting younger then she's desperate , date her if you want to and don't if you don't want to , don't allow her age be something you should worry about.

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Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by Basildvalour(m): 11:17am On Jun 20, 2015
Upgrading your sex life is something you have to do yourself maybe with a little help from her. About your income, since she earns more than you do, both of you can set out a portion of your salaries for sometime and open up something with it as an alternative means of income.


Discuss this with her and see how she takes it. It might provide answers to the other questions you have raise provided on how she reacts to these suggestions.

Good luck

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Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by Nobody: 11:28am On Jun 20, 2015
Lover boi !!!!!
Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by swimcash(m): 11:33am On Jun 20, 2015
test her love n see if she wil b able 2 stand it
Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by Adeoba10(m): 11:54am On Jun 20, 2015
Check my signature
Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by Starships4u(m): 12:39pm On Jun 20, 2015
Make I ask you these questions.........
1. Do you love her??
2. What do you need outta this relationship??
3. Are you ready to settle down??
4. Does she buy into ur future life pattern??
5. Do you feel she's too old for you to get married to her??
6. Do you have any intention to get married to her??
7. Would your parents accept her with her age??
8. Do you love her as much as she loves you??
9. Are you proud of her??
10. What does GOD say about the relationship?? Answer these....

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Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by jephito(m): 2:51pm On Jun 20, 2015
Starships4u:
Make I ask you these questions.........
1. Do you love her?? YES
2. What do you need outta this relationship?? COMPANIONSHIP
3. Are you ready to settle down?? NOT NOW
4. Does she buy into ur future life pattern?? SHE DOES
5. Do you feel she's too old for you to get married to her?? A PART OF ME FEELS SO
6. Do you have any intention to get married to her?? YES
7. Would your parents accept her with her age?? THEY WON'T KNW HER AGE EXCEPT I TELL THEM. HOWEVER, THEY'LL ACCEPT HER.
8. Do you love her as much as she loves you?? SINCERELY, SHE LOVES ME MORE
9. Are you proud of her?? VERY WELL
10. What does GOD say about the relationship?? ONE MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION.
Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jun 20, 2015
Adeoba10:
Check my signature
wat did u say ur problem is again?
Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by Charles4075(m): 3:17pm On Jun 20, 2015
Op, you should be old enough to recognise what you want in a lady and what you need from a lady. You should decide for yourself what you really want and stop asking about opinions. No romancelanders will be with you when you're going tru some shit in the long run or when you've tapped out and feeling shitty about letting go of a priceless jewel. So act like a man and do the needful

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Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by Youngpo413: 3:23pm On Jun 20, 2015
agarawu23:
question 1 :- there is a 50/50 chance the love is real. because I can't trust ladies you meet on hook up show. So no guys within their vicinity?

question 2: what else do you expect from a Lady running out of age ? that's how ladies waste their time with guys that are not serious and at the end of the day, they will be searching desperately.

question 3 is similar to question 2 : what else do u expect when her mates are now having babies?

question 4 : that's another tactics ladies use to hang their self on guys after they will start blaming us with the word "baby mama" factory. Don't try it if you know you don't trust her and you aren't ready to father a child

question 5, there is nothing to test about her again because she will definitely pass your test. this set of ladies have seen it all and they are ready to give it all.

question 6. no Lady wants to date a broke nigga and of cus sex is thier food after den go say na guys like sex pass.

you have said it all.

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Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by Adeoba10(m): 3:59pm On Jun 20, 2015
Jollyjoy:
wat did u say ur problem is again?
U v 4goten wat i told u just nw, den u must b suffering of amnesia.
I said how can i vote for Agarawu
Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by agarawu23(m): 4:13pm On Jun 20, 2015
Adeoba10:

U v 4goten wat i told u just nw, den u must b suffering of amnesia.
I said how can i vote for Agarawu
you can vote me as from Monday.
thanks
Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jun 20, 2015
Adeoba10:

U v 4goten wat i told u just nw, den u must b suffering of amnesia.
I said how can i vote for Agarawu
ok cool voting starting on monday, i wil mention you and direct u on wat to do.
Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by Adeoba10(m): 4:33pm On Jun 20, 2015
Jollyjoy:
ok cool voting starting on monday, i wil mention you and direct u on wat to do.
Aiit
Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Jun 20, 2015
jephito:
I met Anita dis April via a hook up show on radio. She will be 30 by February(4months younger than I), doing fine for herself, has OND, beautiful and friendly. I'm a teacher, earn 35k/month on the average and less than this lady. She possesses 7/10 of the kind of woman i want. She calls a lot and neva ask for my money though she told me money is key to this rltnshp whch i knew. Her deeds is makin fall in love. Here are my reservations:
1. Can this be genuine love?
2. Is she doing all that she is doing cos of her age - 29+?
3. Is she puttin her self under pressure that her friends are married?
4. She once said I should impregnate her so she would be guaranteed i wont leave her. Will she still remain resolute should i dont marry her or see her parents later dis year or next year?
5. Is it advisable to test her love?
6. I ve asked her for umpteen times what she doesn't like abt me. She said I should upgrade my income and sex life. [color=#550000][/color]
Hmm MEN the insatiable creatures!
Go on Bro, be prayful as wel.
May God bless the future union

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Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Jun 20, 2015
Op marry that girl. You will never see any girl like her again

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Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by Nobody: 4:55pm On Jun 20, 2015
Charles4075:
Op, you should be old enough to recognise what you want in a lady and what you need from a lady. You should decide for yourself what you really want and stop asking about opinions. No romancelanders will be with you when you're going tru some shit in the long run or when you've tapped out and feeling shitty about letting go of a priceless jewel. So act like a man and do the needful


Word!
Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jun 20, 2015
op at 29, she would do anything to make u marry her....she is probably doing those things cos she is desperate

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Re: Is she real or pretending or under pressure? by Charles4075(m): 11:11pm On Jun 20, 2015
andromida:



Word!
That's the honest truth madam. I hate it when matured guys or ladies post shit like this on a public forum seeking opinions or pitiable comments. If you're not man enough to handle your -ish, then stay single and keep your trousers and lips sealed. Because most comments you'll get are from teens within the range of 18-23 who know nothing about life, though few are intelligent but doesn't guarantee you sharing such details publicly. It piss me off.

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