"hi Justin,u have every reason 2 be angry with me,am sorry it has 2 end dis way,but believe me its definitely not you, its all me,i really dont want anybody 2 get hurt so d earlier d better b4 it gets too deep and involving, lets just contiue as friends no string attached"

dat was d text message she sent 2 me.

1. she's older
2. she's richer, but i ain't doing bad either,

we were starting up the most outstanding romance ever,
she was enjoying every bit of it, so i'm i,

my problem: - d reason she had 2 quit like dat.
may be advise from friends, family or anything,i dont really care,
i just want 2 know, irrelevant of where the fault is lying.

i'm a promising young man that has a soft spot for the female gender,
my head and mind is filled with thoughts of the fact dat i'm engaged in this.
can't really do much in d office, at home i'm staright on top of my bed,
can't seem 2 get things right with myself,
just for me 2 know y she had 2 do dis, nothing more, just her sincere reasons.

thanks

yes, it could be advice from friend. but there could be other options. perhaps she's aleady got a relationship and even though she has feelings for u, she gats move on with her life. perhaps she not comfortable with the age thing. perhaps you have not given her a reason to want to stick with ou.

but the bottom line is: whatever the reason is, if she really does not want to continue, let her be. there are plenty fishes in the river

i believe the fact that she seniors u is judging her conscious. You know its rare for babes in our culture to marry guys when they senior them. Look on the positive side. At least you can remain good friends  

She could be a PRANKSTER trying to pull your legs. Play along with her and see where the ROAD LEADS. Just tell her that you'll take whatever so far she's HAPPY. If she GENUINELY WALKS, leave her. You dont av much of a choice anyway

My dear, I know how you feel; but if she says it’s over then don’t go any further. She must have reasonable reasons for her action; just move on with your life, and nature would lead you to someone would love you for who you are.

thanks for your response.
as for the age, she CATEGORICALLY told me she doesn't have issues with dat.
and as for her friends, i've not met dem b4, i've only seen d Mum and youngest brother.

she instigates most of our romance except for the first day we kissed.

she just called now for us 2 meet 2moro at Shoprite.
after enuf calls and text from me 2 ask her why.


what should i expect and where do u think my discussion with her should be directed?

thanks

let it go!

Life is too simple.
Let it go.
If she's yours, she's coming right back.

The more reason why love should be balanced. . .sometimes,it pains me when the opposite sex does not know metabolic and chemical unbalances that they create in our body whenever they say 'its over" so painful and NOT easy to let go . . .

better luck next tym

On of the effects of the economic crunch. . .

Bleep shitty topic!

tonye-t:


passed level 1 so to the next

when i date my chics i really try to know her friends and create good impression to them, once pleased they become your oracle of good will to her, you no try for that side sha

why wont she instigate most of your romance life, the biggest mistakes dudes make is to play love with your chic b4 her parents, they look looked down, and see you as probably a gold digger who wants to come, hit and run

what you should have done, is play friendly but act as though you are far away from her daughter, when she sees that and if she likes you, she may want to actually do the proposal for her daughter, ever heard of "my son do you like my daughter?"


she still loves you,yes she does i cant tell, but you have to get your game rite now, how you may ask


when you meet, keep cool as though u aint interested in her meeting:- "ladies craves for attention, starve them they will crave more"

when you are cool, she will start the discussion and will probably tell you every reason for her sissy act, at this point, :gaze straight into her eyes strongly but romantically, wish you could understand this act

note: never you ask her reasons for her fall-outs, you may be seen a weakling, just let her do the talking and you do the listening

after she finishes, then if you have intentions to keep her then, compliment her of some of her gr8 stuffs and personalities, ladies love flatters, top ur game there, but also tell her stuffs like,"yeah rite even if we dont end up, i will still have you in my heart, and all that" act lovely but in an unlovely way


if you dont want her, tell her. . .simple!


wish you the best of luck

Ur a genius.

You no go go find your mate? na u go still post another topic like "Help, after 2 kids, my woman looks like my mother!!'' in future if she gree marry you. She don dey block you now you still dey form fool   Shebi na Nairaland, I dey wait you

ol' boy i was really feelin the smooth scoper @eyonigger and was actually contemplatin but the biuty bout nairaland is pple@kamber hav a way of nudging yu ryt bak to yur senses with dia jabs

ol' boy kaber
na true yu talk jare

ol' boy i was really feelin the smooth scoper @eyonigger and was actually contemplatin but the biuty bout nairaland is pple@kamber hav a way of nudging yu ryt bak to yur senses with dia jabs

ol' boy kaber
   na true yu talk jare- we dey wait am for hia

see cool down and tell ur self the truth of what you want from her,am a lady and i know how a woman feel if she is older than the man.she might be feeling inscured or scared of her age not to be wasted by a man who is not ready to settle down soonest.again ur level of commitment matters alot.and ur carriage,the way u handle things and ur reasoning.don't be offended for this question,{ARE YOU WORKING?}if not know it that she is scared of gold diggers.but if u are working and you know really deep inside your mind that you love her not her money,be the man,don't look at her money show her that u are not after her money.woman likes when a man is a man.but Nigerian guys this day sell their rights as a man because of a woman`s money many of them have turn to be the woman not the man again.and woman we have come to understand so many things this days.men feels that marriage is a woman`s problem not now again.so my dear take u time with her and search ur self very well.and go to her ask her what the problem is,hear from her reasons and act accordingly.her answer to ur question will determine ur next step.just take your time.