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Child sexual abuse (CSA) is when a child becomes a sexual partner for an adult and/or is being engaged by an adult in some explicit activities. The Nigeria media in recent times have reported an increased number of child abuse and those are the once that are able to get to the media.

Most parents get so busy or at random decide to leave their kid(s) in care of house helps, neighbor, relatives, friends, or even teachers who may abuse them. Older kids may not report the abuse, because they are scared of or want to protect their abuser and/or they simply do not believe they will be taken seriously.

As a parent, you have to always look out for signs of your child being abused especially when s/he enjoys being around a particular adult. Keep in mind that, though, depending on the abuse type, some kids might be enjoying it thereby having a bond with the abuser.

This should trigger you to always check your child for signs of abuse immediately such adults comes around your child.


Signs that your child is being sexually abused

1. Your child suddenly finding it difficult to walk or sit, maybe due to genital or anal pain.
Be quick to examine why a child who was perfectly okay, all of a sudden is finding it difficult to walk or sit. Do this by checking his/her privates.

2. The person you left your child with gives you unconvincing/conflicting explanations for bruises/injuries on your child.

3. That neighbor, friend or relative that likes spending time alone with your child.

4. Be wary of someone who buys your child expensive gifts for no special reason.

5. Someone your child afraid of and/or do not want to be alone with.


These and many others should raise your suspicion that your child is being abused sexually. If you have any additional signs, drop them below for the benefit of all.

Source: http://www.abdoolwahab.com/2015/07/signs-that-your-child-is-being-sxually.html

So on point

Although everything stated is not always a case of abuse............... but them follow.

Modified:
Abeg what's the big deal with FTC?
Because for every topic on front page ftc will be celebrated.

Well here, am too fly for such Secondary/Jambites/Jobless peeps attitude.

Yamuna

If Yerima of Zamfara is close to your new born baby girl.......be very afraid
Thighing is allowed in his field.

*FEEL FREE TO GOOGLE ..... THIGHING*


OP, very true.

Op on point.

Also, uncle, aunt or relation that your child likes to stay or play with in secrecy, not just the one he fears.

Child abuser! Equals 6 feet deep tins 4 my side!

Don't forget to buy gun...to shoot d person once discovered

delishpot:
If Yerima of Zamfara is close to your new born baby girl.......be very afraid
Thighing is allowed in his field.

*Google Thighing*


OP, very true.

Mehn.....we learn everyday o. Never heard of this until now.....Islam is one "interesting" religion.

MsPat:


Mehn.....we learn everyday o. Never heard of this until now.....Islam is one "interesting" religion.

You are welcome.

I didn't know space booking could be so fun.......ready to throw tantrum too ......




check out if ur child suddenly become aggressive,secretive and seperative*

Pedophiles!
With this points now I go turn "area pedophile investigator"

what if a child abuse an adult

Parents should learn to pay more attention to their kids

to all parents

please do ensure DAT u have gun at home for emergency purpose

thanks

Check out those uncles that always call your lil daughter"my wife"

Seriously, I don't trust any of them, even if their intentions are genuine, I still feel this thingy with that word "my wife" for a lil babe.

Gud

when person call your child idiot, it's still child abuse

Thanks for the tips

NL and their signs sha.

Well written op and lastly a guy dat always carry ur baby girl often,kissing&touching her**dat type of guy can rape her**

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thnks op

There are nice people who just love kids without any intent to abuse them. There are horrible people too with terribly sick brains that kids are not safe with.

True.

eemm,, I don't have a child in fact I am still a child,,,
Hope this thread will still be in existence when I have one..

K

TRUE...