“…Understanding will GUARD you…” Proverbs 2:11b[/b]

[b]The Power of Understanding

In all your getting…GET UNDERSTANDING!

Understanding gives you insight into hidden mysteries, knowledge and wisdom.
Understanding makes you to be vigilant, alert and watchful.
Understanding gives you light, direction and positive destination.

Many people have fell, and are falling into the prey of sexual immorality because of lack of this all important treasure called UNDERSTANDING.

William Shakespeare once said “the world is a theatre”.
Well, he might not be far from the truth, even the great deceptions, lies, masquerades, drams, paintings, art, seduction and mind games that has crippled our world today.

The art of seduction has become one of the most potent weapons of success in this generation.
People use it to achieve success in business, marketing, job, family, marriage, relationship, academy, sex…I mean virtually everything!

Truth, sincerity, righteousness and integrity have become an ancient house that nobody is willing to live in.
“Oh! How the people have been destroyed.
For they have all left the ancient house”.

Remember SAMSON…

Samson in the bible was a man of great power and influence. He was, in his time, a Judge and Leader of God’s holy people Israel.
Samson had everything, but he lacked one valuable…and that is, UNDERSTANDING.
This was what brought his total destruction.

You see; lack of understanding is really tragic.
In the school of seduction, if your opponent lacks understanding of what you are up to, you are sure to capture him/her.
If you have understanding of sexual seduction, you are 80% sure you can achieve sexual purity and overcome sexual immorality.

Delilah, the woman who Samson fell in love with, was a master in the art of sexual seduction. She carouse Samson into revealing the secrets of his power, which eventually brought his downfall and destruction. (Read the full story in Judges 16, 17).

What is Sexual Seduction?

Sexual seduction in a simple term is “the art or ability of driving, persuading and inducing a person (s) into having sexual intercourse or pleasure with you.
It has to do with some cleverly constructed enticements, inducement, manipulations or control when practicing seduction.

Let me show you some few ways that will impart in you understanding and equip you to become more alert, aware and watchful against sexual seduction.

1. The power of dressing: Every dressing has a hidden or expressing purpose. So also a seducer and her dressing. If you understand the way a seducer dresses you will know his/her intent towards you. This is the first signal you must flee or guard against. You can almost tell when or if a person wants to have sex with you through his/her dressing. Be wise. (Read Prov. 7:10).

2. The power of Kissing: Don’t play with this at all. When a lady or a guy kisses you, it’s a signal that he/she is ready to have sex with you. There is a great seducing power in kissing. If you want to overcome sexual immorality… please don’t flirt with kissing! I’m sorry but I have to tell you the truth. (Read Prov. 7:13).

3. The power of free gifts: Free gifts can always lead to sexual favor or compensation. It is truly said that “gift blinds the eyes of a man”. Too many gifts from the opposite sex may have a sexual intent behind it. But the pain is that, before you may realize yourself, you might have become another sexual casualty! Free gifts have great seducing power and it can make you submit easily to sexual pressure from the opposite sex who gives the gifts. Be cautious and sensitive. Remember the old saying, “There is no free launch!” (Read Prov. 7:14-17).

4. The power of flattery words: Words are the most powerful weapon in the human community. Flattery words are like arrows that pierce into your human Will, mind and emotion and make you vulnerable to sexual perversion, immorality and filthiness. When you are getting too many praises from a particular opposite sex, watch it! Understand that not every word you hear is genuine heart-felt expression. Flattery words can lead you sexually astray. Be smart. (Read Prov. 7:21).

Understanding the powers behind sexual seduction is a major key to achieving success in this our sexually infested environment.
Take this four powers I have exposed to you seriously and let them guard you in your relationships and daily living.

You can achieve it
Live the sexual morality world.

NOTE: (for counseling/prayer or free materials to help you overcome sexual struggle, email me at rufusyamoah@yahoo.com)

Rufus Yamoah
Sexual Morality Counselor.

Okay

Its almost impossible wen everybody has a porn video in their phones.
Even my cousin who is a pastor has porn videos
So?

Ok na...

God is Understanding. His food is Prayer. Even when the devil is face to face with you, don't stop praying that you might be saved.

PapaOyoyo:
Its almost impossible wen everybody has a porn video in their phones.

Even my cousin who is a pastor has porn videos

So?

FROM RUFUS YAMOAH: It is not impossible. I do not have porn video in my phone. Every body is doing it does not make it right or acceptable. Being a pastor does not stop one from struggling. Everyone must fight for their own salvation. The beginning of freedom from any bondage is to first of all believe that you can be free.