my friend is in a dilema and dont knw wht to tell her. she's bn dating a guy for 6 months now and all roads seem to be leading to the altar until they had a challenge with the girl's parents that kicked against the union for reason best knw to them. now the guy is willing to wait anothet year to get a resolve to the issue on ground. she recently met a colleague at a party a month ago and they seem to be attracted to eachother. they talk every day and now it seems that she happier with the colleague frm work.

she loves the first guy so much and doesnt want to leave him yet she's attracted to her colleague.

do you think its wise for her to ditch the first guy. she's 29  and so is her colleague. the first guy is 36.

serious advice only!!!!!!!!

If she loves her first guy so much that she doesn't want to leave him; then why should she see someone else? Incase she doesn't know, she's already 29, and at that age she should be sensible enough to make a wish choice in life.

Tell her to cling unto her first lover if at all she doesn't want to have any regrets.

difficult situation. . . .
but i'd rather go with guy i love

we will alway see someone we are attracted to but not necessarily compactable with,i will advice her to go for the person she loves and compactable with ,attraction will come and go,the first guy seens to love her cos he his willing to wait not every guy is ready to do that.my sister open your inner eyes

She should choose the guy that complements her and hopefully loves her.

I tink she shuld stick 2 d 1st guy.but u nid 2 know dat 4 her 2 b in luv she must b attracted 2 d person

CrazyMan:

If she loves her first guy so much that she doesn't want to leave him; then why should she see someone else? Incase she doesn't know, she's already 29, and at that age she should be sensible enough to make a wish choice in life.

Tell her to cling unto her first lover if at all she doesn't want to have any regrets.

^^^^ completely agree.