Things always go wrong. I got in a relationship where my boyfriend beat me. I still like him but I've got to keep my pride. Are there still good guys out there who are single and not taken. When you think you're so careful, you find out you can never be too careful.

alley mcbeal:

I got in a relationship where my boyfriend beat me.

You better run get your ass out of that relationship before he kills you..

alley mcbeal:

Are there still good guys out there who are single and not taken.

I'm a good guy, single and available

i am single

thanx a lot for all the nice words, got my ass out sometime ago but the memory still lingers on and on and on and i keep thinking what REALLY went wrong in the first place. but like oprah said u can't make a man stay if he doesn't want u and if he wants u- nothing can keep him away, but it all happens that the ones that just won't go are the ones u ain't attracted to at all- irony of life 



      alley mcbeal

run for you life girl, what love got to do with it,
he is killing you and you saying I love him. please save you life.

I'm glad you're out of that relationship hale and sound too. you should be more concerned about your health now, don't worry abt them guyz. love will find you and most times, it's when you're not searching. at least you are alive to talk about it, some aren't, so be happy k.

Do Do Do As i say... Don't Worry. That is to say... Saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa! RUNNNN!!!

@ alley, go and get rid of him and get hooked up with mamba

[color=#006600][/color][i][/i] thanx sooooo sooooo much for all the concern that's been shown, really wasn't planning on searching for somone but i sure do need one, just keeping the attitude of when u least expect it, it just comes knocking so hard u'ld wonder what really hit u- something like that. but for now, i'm having the greatest FUN of my life and i'm sure i can be happier than this but this is just sooooo fulfilling, later guys.

@Kay...r ya talkin to me? no quarrels tho, just confused

i am so glad you got out of it.
men who beat up women need to be CAGED..not locked up but CAGED.like the animals that they are.
some of these men its deeply rooted in their childhoods.an e.g.my kid sister was dating this guy like 5 years ago...this guy comes from one of the FAMILIES in naija..(u know the type where you cant open citypeople or ovation without seeing them??)well he always beat my sister like 5 times a day at least..and i mean so bad that she started haviing more sunglasses than clothes in fact to cover her black eyes.everyone told her to leave the egbere alone..but no..my sister was in love.(so she thought)one day he came into our house in london to pick her up,and she wasnt ready..lets just say he got RAVING MENTAL..becos he told her 8pm.and she was still looking for which shoes to wear by the time he came.he rushed to her room,picked her up and threw her down the stairs.all the while screaming..b*&&h..when i say 8..i effing mean 8.trust oyinbo neighbours they called police...the guy was taken away...my sister was rushed to hospital..by the time i got home the house was a mess..glass everywhere etc..i was filled in on what happened...and when i saw the omo ale...i asked him WHY?guess what the didirin said?MY FATHER HAS BEEN BEATING MY MOTHER FOR THE PAST 35 YEARS AND SHE HASNT DIED..SO YOUR SISTER TOO CANT DIE...can you all imagine??so it was NORMAL to this looney..lets just say..no one told my sister again before she carried her two left legs and left him....GUESS what?just last week someone brought a copy of city people to my place in london...and who was there smiling like a prized goat?MR.IJAKUMO HIMSELF..yess people..his wedding featured on one of the top weddings of 2005...and i felt so sorry for the poor girl standing by his side smiling like YESS...this is my man...if only she knew...and dont tell me he has changed 6 girls he dated after my sister all RAN away for the same reason....and there in the magazine i saw his parents smiling....and something told me..mummy might have chopped some beating from daddy just before leaving home for the church.....VIOLENCE should not be condonned in any form.....

[b][/b]What are still waiting for?You are not yet married to him and he beats u up.Whats happens when u get married to him....Na u sabi..I no follow ;DCheck out this pic ohh.na soo life suppose be

@Kay..yea, i get that..so who were u askin for a pic?

alley mcbeal:

Things always go wrong. I got in a relationship where my boyfriend beat me. I still like him but I've got to keep my pride. Are there still good guys out there who are single and not taken. When you think you're so careful, you find out you can never be too careful.

fire for fire. get him drunk, tie him up, beat him silly and bail...

gurl get ur a**e out of the deal. i watch Maury and the Montell show. it is horrible when u hear stories of women who were in abusive relationships

BTW wat kind of guy hits a woman. dats so crazy if a guy hits u then he's not worthy of ur love.

dejiolowe:

fire for fire. get him drunk, tie him up, beat him silly and bail...

dejiolowe u never fail to amze me with u input needless 2 say u are a clown u got me laughin though this is a serious topic weldone =D>
@ ally mcbeal i beg of u take a long walk and dont look back
@papermoon i wish u had given that punk ass a taste of his own pill, u suppose beat 2morrow comot 4 im body

he never halla... havent u heard of rat poison? .. ok jokes apart, u need to be oudie out of that relationship BECAUSE if u dont, he will OUDIE u.. all the best!!

ABIMBOLA77:

he never halla... havent u heard of rat poison? .. ok jokes apart, u need to be oudie out of that relationship BECAUSE if u don't, he will OUDIE u.. all the best!!

if u watched Diagnosis Unknown on DSTV enuff, then u know rat poison is real. and in naija where police don't know jack, u can send the guy to hell ASAP. but the cost of burying will ruin u.

truthhurts:

dejiolowe u never fail to amze me with u input needless 2 say u are a clown u got me laughin though this is a serious topic weldone =D>

me clown? duh!

@dejiolowe no disrespect but ur opinion always get me laughin

truthhurts:

@dejiolowe no disrespect but your opinion always get me laughin

lafta is the best medicine.

please left that man alone,

Am happy you are out of that relationship cuz no responsible guy will beat a lady.

how ironic! and am here looking for a gurl that i will never raise my hand to strike while a girl is making life so difficult for me. few days ago, i posted a thread here about a delta girl. she is alright but her attitude is some thing else. we quarreled for over a week now and she did not call neither did i call her. just yesterday she text me and guest wat she said in her text? i will read it to you all.

"Austin how is everything? hope fine. it is good when good friends say goodbye but is bad ones don't say good bye. have a nice day."

When i looked at the text, i just laugh aloud. here comes my reply to her.

"Listen, i feel u wanted a time off by ur self dat why i let u be. i told u b4 we started this relationship. i love u and want to marry u. we are not yet married and we have started quarreling like children wat if we get married? wat would we be doing? just to romance u b4 sex is a problem how den do we enjoy sex? i really do love u. i never wish one day both of us would be quarreling wen we both have to think about the future and the family we would both raise and u are now distracting my attention. tell me, are u been fair to the both of us"?


I then send her another text this morning,

"peace, gud morning. hp all is well with u. so am now a bad person. i never knew. all this while we were together trying to please u and in return it's insult from u am good but wen i let u be am now a bad person. tanx. i will pray and ask god to change me back so dat u will be insulting and taking me for granted. have a nice day."

she is yet to reply this text and frankly speaking, her attitude has really changed my feelings towards her. i never have that desire feeling that i once have when i met her at first.

this is the person i call my girlfriend. you see sometimes i really don't get upset when a man beat his wife or a guy beats his girlfriend. some girls deserve to be treated like dogs. am really sorry to say that and a thousand apologies to all girls in the house either good or bad.

cheers.

Women beaters are always smooth talkers and jealous bastards. babes somehow prefer guys that beat them cos of what they would get in cash. i don't weep for any babe that gets beaten by any guy. I don't beat women i rather walk out till another day.

I'm sorry but ur man is a creep! He is still ur boyfriend and he beats u! Honey he wont stop! If u go on with d relationship he'l continue beating u! Can u handle that? Honey it aint worth it! Dont throw ur future away for/on this jerk! I beg of u

abeg call me on this number 08056867079.i know i'm the right guy for u!i'm serious o!i cant even hurt a mosquitoe talkless of a naturally-endowed creature like u!a trial wil decieve u!

I'm married but searching*

well if you think u are fed up u can come to me cos i am still single

I put up with beatings b4 real bad from my former moroccan fiance. One day just came when I could not take it I was terrified. When it forst happened I thought it would not happen again (as he promised) I was not even allowed to possess a mobile phone. I ran away and I'm glad I did.