We see it every day, man gets caught cheating, wifey attacks the side chick!

I’ve always wondered why women target the other woman when their boyfriend/fiancé/husband is caught cheating? I’ve heard of many instances where the wife and her friends roll up on the side chick to “warn” her or bless her with some hot slaps. But what about the man? They often get forgiven while the community of wives pray against this Jezebel and others likes her.


Shouldn’t the offended woman direct her anger at her husband? You know the one who took those vows with her? Wetin consine sidechick for this matter? She’s not the one that is betraying her family.

I’ve heard firstahand stories of side chicks who got bolder after being confronted by wifey!

One happened in Lagos recently, the wife went to a popular hair salon where she confronted the side chick and gave her like three hot slaps in front of everyone. Before anyone could start recording the embarrassing event on their phones for Twitter, the side chick said to the wife, “Up until now I only had his d*ck, from now own I’m going after his heart”

Shortly after like magic the man moved out of his matrimonial home o & set up shop with the side chick! Lobatan!

Walahi the fear of Lagos side chicks is real!

So when all this is said & done is it worth confronting the side chick? Have you ever confronted your man’s side hoe? Sidechicks have you ever been confronted by wifey?

LET’S TALK!!!

SOURCE: http://www.that1960chick.com/2015/08/17/should-a-wife-ever-confront-her-hubbys-side-chick-lets-talk

No, it's bad enough that she's on the side.

All the wife needs to do is to pray that all the good things that should have been the lady's should stay at her side and not locate her.

Stupid girls go after married men. I know some of them will quote me.

Improve yourself and not the chick

Damn!!


Its too bad shez just by the 'side'

He gets to openly take me around without shame or fear of being caught coz am his main chick

Am wey to bigger than any side LovePeddler

Approaching her iz just like belittling myself

I will confront my wife first..... Secondly, I wil confront the man nxt.....

No!

That's a silly act.
Why would I attack the side chick when I can easily sit him down and ask him reasons he's into her and amend ways

Nope. I can't stoop so low to attack my spouse's partner. That alone is a sign of insecurity. What assurance have you that he's going to put an end to his ugly character if you pilot an assault? Certainly not.
Use your brain.

Aisha95:

naijaboiy:

How far?

You all remember that topic about a sidechick that added the wife of the man and started threatening her?do u all expect the wife to be mute in such case?.

If it was me,i would confront my partner buh if the sidechick threatens or show her face,i will surely put her in her place.....if she doesnt,i will simply allow her to take her place....sideplace

naijaboiy:

Very far!

Hmm. I saw your thread. . . You try sha. For starters. But why does it have to be related to cultism?
Pray tell, let it not be what I'm thinking. . .

It's painful to the wives. They just want to chase the foreign body away from their homes. Besides most women often feel the side chicks try to "snatch" their men. Not considering that the men may have made the first move.

But it's not bad to face the side chick.

naijaboiy:

Please can you just shift?!

My boy.

She can have him. Ain't nobody got time to be fretting over a two-timing love rat.

Lols, thats funny but we need to say the truth, though such person follow one adage that says "je ki a le eleyoro jina na, ka to wa fi abo fun aladire" but i wunt advise people to look at that in this situation, your boyfriend/fiance/husband was the cheater and not the side chick though the other party is at fault o but the wife should hit at her husband and not the side chick

confront your hubbyy not the side chick, you have no business with her

ANYTHING FOR YOUR MAN SUGAR.

Do ur best to b better dan her but dnt go overboard. If u fail to capture his attention, confront him. He went askin her out.

I give my future wife the authority to confront, bash ), batter and bully anybody dats happens to be my side chick. How can a lady who tolerated me during my struggling days be cheated on by a mere money hungry tiny legs girl. God forbid it.
BTW, am not planning to cheat on my future wife. May God help me.

IF THE SIDE CHICK IS OLOSHO, THEN THE WIFE SHOULD ACCEPT WHATEVER HAPPENS

Oya... Make i learn..

No

A side chick is a nothing more than a replaceable sextoy. She's just there for the excitement and only gets promoted to main chic in the rarest of occasions.

Thus the side chic is always at a disadvantage. She is aware that she is second choice, and that the man she likes does not want to be associated with her in public. She knows that no matter what she does, her man's heart belongs to someone else, and she can be discarded anytime with no legal protection.

A wife who confronts the side chic surrenders the psychological advantage to the side chic. Suddenly the side chic knows that the main chic is just as insecure as she is, and realizes a chance for promotion no matter how slight.
The side chic could be violent.

The husband is then put on the defensive, and may decide that he doesn't want the wife anyway. The issues of broken trust from the wife's confrontation may prove insurmountable and wreck the marriage.

It's never a good idea to confront the side chic. Instead the wife can deal with the fact that her husband has wanderlust,accept her status as the number 1 woman and use it to her advantage. Or she pushes for a divorce immediately.

It's not the side chic's fault anyway. The side chic is not the one that has a marriage contract with the wife.

And say what?

Many of these wives have been the side chick.

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