10 TIPS TO BUILDING
INTIMACY IN
MARRIAGE
The word intimacy can be defined as a deep
affection between two or more people. And
intimacy in marriage can as well be defined as
deep affection between husband and wife.
Intimacy in marriage is one of the greatest
ingredients that sustain a blissful home. The
strength of any marriage is directly
proportional to the bond that exists between
the couple. Intimacy should be a priority to
any married couple if they ever wish to make
their home an interesting one.
As important as intimacy is to any marriage,
let’s take a look at some tips that can help us
build and sustain intimacy in our marriage/
relationship.
1. KEEP PROFESSING YOUR LOVE: Constant
professing of your love was no doubt one of
the factors that kept the feelings alive until
the relationship grew up to become marriage.
Don’t ever get tired of using those beautiful
lines, keep confessing your undying love for
your spouse, and try to be very sincere with
yourself as pretense has a way of hitting back
at negatively.
2. THE POWER OF SHORT ROMANTIC NOTES:
Surprise your spouse with romantic love notes.
Some people might just see this to be old
fashioned, but trust me, the magic is still
amazing. Make it a naughty surprise, you can
leave the short love notes on their hand bags,
suit case, reading desk, make up table/box,
car seats/dash board, bed side drawers, etc.
do it with true sincerity and passion, and you’ll
be amazed at the magic.
3. SCHEDULE SEX: This might sound funny to
some people, but trust me, the joy and fun of
sex isn’t lost when its scheduled, but rather it
builds anxiety and fantasies. This will leave
your spouse painting interesting pictures on
his/her head ahead of the act, especially
when they know you’re good in the act.
4. CREATE TIME FOR HEALTHY
CONVERSATION: Communication is no doubt a
strong tool in maintaining a healthy
relationship/marriage. Make out time from
your busy work schedule to engage in healthy
conversation with your spouse. Speak from
your inner man, and be a very good listener as
well.
5. PLAN ROMANTIC DATE: Taking time out for
romantic date night is another sure wind that
en kindles the fire of love in your union. There
should be no tradition for this, alternate scripts
and locations. I.e. it shouldn’t be the duty of
one person in planning the date. If the man
does it this time, the woman should be
allowed to exhibit her strength and wisdom in
deciding and planning the next outing, not
withstanding who’s funding the outing. A stroll
in the park as well as fishing and beach view
should intermittently be used to replace the
regular bar/candle light dinners. Remember,
“variety is the spice of life”
6. LEARN/KEEP BEING NAUGHTY: Crazy little
things matters, seduce and surprise your
spouse with a quickie when the kids are away,
doing it in odd places (kitchen, bath, leaving
room, staircase, balcony, car park etc.) will
make it even much more interesting.
7. PURSUE COMMON INTEREST: It is true
that you both are two different people, but the
ability to adjust and pursue common interest
will put your marriage on a smooth path.
Adjusting to support and share your partner’s
dream will go a long way in boosting trust and
confidence in the union. If your spouse comes
up with a “a not so good idea” , don’t just
dismiss it with a wave of the hand, as this can
make them feel unimportant, and this might
not go down well with the union, but rather
employ a more diplomatic way of letting your
partner see reasons why their idea might not
be the best path to follow on the subject.
8. STOP NAGGING: The truth is that nagging
will only make your partner see you as an
intimate stranger. No peace loving individual
will be comfortable coexisting with a nagging
partner. No matter how your spouse may
pretend to be happy, he/she will definitely be a
much happier person when you’re not around.
Give your spouse a million reasons to always
need you around.
9. GIVE WONDERFUL GIFT: Gifts have a way
of interpreting feelings, surprise your spouse
with wonderful gifts, it might not really be a
very expensive gift, but a unique gift that can
speak to his/her feelings.
10. FORM THE HABIT OF PRAYING
TOGETHER: Above all, cultivating the habit of
praying and sharing God’s word with your
spouse regularly will go a long way in sealing
the bond between the two of you. Make
prayer a lifestyle.

source: https://siomkpo./2015/08/13/10-tips-to-building-intimacy-in-marriage/

cc @ishilove. [s] correct this is wat helps and yeah that or reminds me adequate exercise for the woman so as to prevent her from having a protruding belly[/s]

I shud find someone to practice all of these...

KashyBaby:
I shud find someone to practice all of these...

you rili need that my dear, just look around and open ya eyes.

I did buh most men r either in a relationship or they r married

osina1414:


you rili need that my dear, just look around and open ya eyes.

KashyBaby:
I did buh most men r either in a relationship or they r married

my dear i understand ur point, bt d truth is that every body can not be married. it is abt ur ability to identify who u r, detectect what u truely need(not what u want), and put urself @ the right position, and b very sensitive to spot out grt moves. If u're avin any issue u call or whatsapp me on; zero eight one three eight eight two seven four three nine.

#GOODLUCK

KashyBaby:
I did buh most men r either in a relationship or they r married

lots of single guys on NL. . .jez pick one

@kashybaby, pls always try to very careful with most of the guyz u meet on social media.

osina1414:
@kashybaby, pls always try to very careful with most of the guyz u meet on social media.

Aaaawww.tnxxx for reminding me
Appreciated

pbs4real:
lots of single guys on NL. . .jez pick one

How I wish it wud be as easy as tat buh tats cool tho

osina1414:


my dear i understand ur point, bt d truth is that every body can not be married. it is abt ur ability to identify who u r, detectect what u truely need(not what u want), and put urself @ the right position, and b very sensitive to spot out grt moves. If u're avin any issue u call or whatsapp me on; zero eight one three eight eight two seven four three nine.

#GOODLUCK

Hahahahha... someone juz drop his number here..

KashyBaby:


How I wish it wud be as easy as tat buh tats cool tho

are u in philipine or nig? Is dat u on ur dp,guyz would wna knw

pbs4real:
are u in philipine or nig? Is dat u on ur dp,guyz would wna knw

Well...tats ME and I am soon coming to NIGERIA

KashyBaby:


Well...tats ME and I am soon coming to NIGERIA

i have a friend in phillipine,op u dnt mind?

KashyBaby:


Well...tats ME and I am soon coming to NIGERIA

lemme knw whenever u around.

pbs4real:
i have a friend in phillipine,op u dnt mind?

sorry Sir, am happily married.

KashyBaby:

Hahahahha... someone juz drop his number here..

strictly official ma'am, I legally belong to another woman. no offence plz.

pbs4real:
i have a friend in phillipine,op u dnt mind?

oohhh tats great

KashyBaby:


oohhh tats great

his name is terry,he's mixed bt lived all his life in nigeria. . .pm me if u wna meet him. .