I'm a 20 years old girl and a student in one of the tertiary institutions. Earlier this year, I met this guy online. He kept disturbing me that he wanted to see me that I ended up deciding to meet him. When I saw him, I could tell from every inch that he was married.

After the meeting, he called me later. I then used that opportunity to ask him whether he was married. He denied it outrightly. We still kept in touch but I never wanted to meet him again because he looked a lot more older than me.

So, there was this time I had an accommodation problem in school and he decided to help me out. Initially, I turned down the help but after much deliberation, I decided to send him my account details. He later paid money into my account. It got to a point that I was having this strong instinct that he is really married that I decided to search for him on Facebook although I didn't know his surname.

Luckily, I found him and guess what, I found out that not only is he married, but he has two kids. I sent the pictures I saw to him and warned him never to call me. He has since refused to stop and the worst part of it is that he now pays money into my account on regular basis.

I know the money goes a long way in helping me in school but I want him to stop because I know it's not right. He has also refused to stop calling me even after I have threatened him. I don't know what else to do because this situation is really troubling me.

Cc Lalasticlala Ishilove

SOURCE: http://nairanaijanews..com/2015/08/a-married-man-keeps-paying-money-into.html

God is using him to bless u.

Another Cynthia Osokogu in making, wait e go soon go wypo for your eyes like sey u take hypo wash eyes..

Hian!! The man just won't listen. But as you said the money helps abi?

u wanna try to justify ur aristo - cracy

why u give am ur account?

nawah

nawa

You have to refund him his money back not just threaten him and try to use your head. Not later, you create another thread "How he tried to r.ape me"

Hmmm... u av to report him to an elder or police, bfor in future, he will start claiming he paid u for this or that. Men are rly tricky.
they can't be trusted at all.

auntysimbiat:
I'm a 20 years old girl and a student in one of the tertiary institutions. Earlier this year, I met this guy online. He kept disturbing me that he wanted to see me that I ended up deciding to meet him. When I saw him, I could tell from every inch that he was married.

After the meeting, he called me later. I then used that opportunity to ask him whether he was married. He denied it outrightly. We still kept in touch but I never wanted to meet him again because he looked a lot more older than me.

So, there was this time I had an accommodation problem in school and he decided to help me out. Initially, I turned down the help but after much deliberation, I decided to send him my account details. He later paid money into my account. It got to a point that I was having this strong instinct that he is really married that I decided to search for him on Facebook although I didn't know his surname.

Luckily, I found him and guess what, I found out that not only is he married, but he has two kids. I sent the pictures I saw to him and warned him never to call me. He has since refused to stop and the worst part of it is that he now pays money into my account on regular basis.

I know the money goes a long way in helping me in school but I want him to stop because I know it's not right. He has also refused to stop calling me even after I have threatened him. I don't know what else to do because this situation is really troubling me.

Cc Lalasticlala Ishilove

Hehehehe!

Hmm...

since you don't want the money, i don't mind if you send it to me
you know gtb dey do mobile transfer, so as he transfer, you also transfer to me.
god bless u for me

Hehehe

Loool... Its just like a gurl telln a guy he should stop smoochin her and at d same time allowin him to touch her.


Well keep collecting my dear. Its not ur fault u hav a maga

ephemm:
u wanna try to justify ur aristo - cracy

why u give am ur account?

.. No mind the Useless fool!.. I'm sure the man wont back down easily if she didnt gv in to his advances at last.. Who will gv smone money without any benefit.. Fool!.. Shes in for a long thing... Buh the guy too sounds like a mumu to me tho..

Ok, I don't think you're as innocent as you're trying to portray yourself here. I have a feeling you must be manipulating this guy into sending you money. How did he find out about your residential problems? He didn't use an Ouija board to find that out, YOU told him even after saying your instincts told you he was married. So what exactly are you looking for? Just change your number & give him back all the money he sends to you if you really want nothing to do with him. I don't see what the issue is, except that you must be encouraging him somehow with your behaviour. So deal.

ladyF:
God is using him to bless u.

A typical naija babe

ladyF:
God is using him to bless u.

Thanks dear.. But am just wondering if ....

EroticAngelina:
Hmmm... u av to report him to an elder or police, bfor in future, he will start claiming he paid u for this or that. Men are rly tricky.
they can't be trusted at all.

.. See them.. Wah will U say b4.. Birds of a feather.. .. That girl should swear she isnt enjoyin that money.. If she doesnt want any trouble later on.. She should keep savin that money.. When the man stop sending it.. She should withdraw everythin and send it bk into his account... Or better stl give in to his advances.. She shouldnt be here spewin thrash... She should only count the one he paid for his house rent as a favour.. Period!..

na manner from above but be sure not to go see him

You're enjoying the money so it's difficult for you to sincerely put a stop to it.
Save the money he keeps sending to you.Change your phone no and cut off every contact with him.
You can try and search for his wife as you did on facebook and contact her about it if you find her.

PunkyVeer:
Ok, I don't think you're as innocent as you're trying to portray yourself here. I have a feeling you must be manipulating this guy into sending you money. How did he find out about your residential problems? He didn't use an Ouija board to find that out, YOU told him even after saying your instincts told you he was married. So what exactly are you looking for? Just change your number & give him back all the money he sends to you if you really want nothing to do with him. I don't see what the issue is, except that you must be encouraging him somehow with your behaviour. So deal.

Your head they dere jarey.
You just proved me wrong of my perception on ladies and hypocrisy.... Your boifriend won't dump you like a used pampers by God's grace #gbayi!

If I talk them go come for my head.

I see love in ur eyes. D money helps a lot. Ladies knw how to chase Men away bt in ur case i tink d money is playin it roles in d game of love. U go consider later jor. No be money?

demmy0325:
.. See them.. Wah will U say b4.. Birds of a feather.. .. That girl should swear she isnt enjoyin that money.. If she doesnt want any trouble later on.. She should keep savin that money.. When the man stop sending it.. She should withdraw everythin and send it bk into his account... Or better stl give in to his advances.. She shouldnt be here spewin thrash... She should only count the one he paid for his house rent as a favour.. Period!..

u must rly be a stoopid fool. are u her shadow? or are u the man? how do u know she's lying instead of u to give advice based on wat she posted here( cos u dnt know if its true or nt), u are busy condemning her as if ur God. I'm sure it's men lyk u dat abuse and assault any woman u see. rubbish.

EroticAngelina:



u must rly be a stoopid fool. are u her shadow? or are u the man? how do u know she's lying instead of u to give advice based on wat she posted here( cos u dnt know if its true or nt), u are busy condemning her as if ur God. I'm sure it's men lyk u dat abuse and assault any woman u see. rubbish.

.. And u must b an Uncircumsisd biatch for quotin me to spew thrash!.. I quoted u with facts and opinion and Ur here spewin rubbish.. This is her story.. This is what she told Us.. Why will she come here with lies then if she knows she truly need advice... Obviously.. Ur sick in the head coz i knw if U are her.. Thats what u will obviously do... Fool!..

Hmmmm... Some guys can hurt one's feeling so much... Well understand, must of u are not enjoying ur relationship and thereby transfering aggression

auntysimbiat:
I'm a 20 years old girl and a student in one of the tertiary institutions. Earlier this year, I met this guy online. He kept disturbing me that he wanted to see me that I ended up deciding to meet him. When I saw him, I could tell from every inch that he was married.

After the meeting, he called me later. I then used that opportunity to ask him whether he was married. He denied it outrightly. We still kept in touch but I never wanted to meet him again because he looked a lot more older than me.

So, there was this time I had an accommodation problem in school and he decided to help me out. Initially, I turned down the help but after much deliberation, I decided to send him my account details. He later paid money into my account. It got to a point that I was having this strong instinct that he is really married that I decided to search for him on Facebook although I didn't know his surname.

Luckily, I found him and guess what, I found out that not only is he married, but he has two kids. I sent the pictures I saw to him and warned him never to call me. He has since refused to stop and the worst part of it is that he now pays money into my account on regular basis.

I know the money goes a long way in helping me in school but I want him to stop because I know it's not right. He has also refused to stop calling me even after I have threatened him. I don't know what else to do because this situation is really troubling me.

Cc Lalasticlala Ishilove

SOURCE: http://nairanaijanews..com/2015/08/a-married-man-keeps-paying-money-into.html

Two things:

1. Close that account
2. Change your number.

You do those two if you are truly tired of him

I no pity your life at all

You better contact his wife asap.