Why do majority of black men prefer yellow/light skinned women to dark skinned ones thereby leading some ignorant women into bleaching their skin?. What is wrong with you guys especially Nigerian men?.

A conversation ensued between a Nigerian guy looking for a wife and his aunt:

Aunt: Dapo, I've found a beautiful wife for you

Dapo: Really?. Is she MTN(yellow) or small stout(black)

aunt: wetin be MTN again

Dapo: you go soon know auntie

Shut up. where is your source ?

My source is from the way you act towards dark skinned women.

If i was sure i'd say u.were a female blond.this is a dumb thread

me i like white love . . . it's clean and pure . . .

I find d fair skinned tins quite attraktif but I jst don't gbadun them. . . It's blark 4 me.

Czarskit:

I find d fair skinned tins quite attraktif but I jst don't gbadun them. . . It's blark 4 me.

they haven't seen a dead gorgeous black woman

I feel its different strokes for different folks.

ThoniaSlim:

I feel its different strokes for different folks.

Right On Point!
Am a light skinned Young Man and anyday anytime, Black Beauties make me go gaga.
I hope to Find An Ebony Angel to marry
Black Is Beauty

Ok no beef me ooo BUT I have asked my housemates (just incase if you dont know, they are Naija boys) on why are they dating Oyinbo's instead of black ladies.

The Igbo's usually say this:- just to taste how they taste like but in the end of the day, I always go back to my African Queen. Of course Ill marry all this Oyinbos cause I want their money and also to have fun with them but I will surely go back to my roots. Nobody can beat the African gene! NOBODY!

The rest says that: OH SHAIT! African girls? Chinike! All they ever cares about this days is money money money. If you are not rich, forget about dating one cause they will treat you like shait! They are blinded by the money and thats all. Thats why I love Asian and White so much cause they show real love and they mostly are always by your side in good and rough times. Especially Asians.

And some commented that African girls all mostly have smelly toto (I dont know ooo) cause they are freakin lazy (maybe only the girls they met sha) and too high maintenance especially on their hair!!!


Yeah. Thats what I got

But my bf says No comment! Different people have different characters. One mans food is another mans poison

I know the topic say "Yellow" but don't let it get to you. This too shall past. Basically what i am saying "no need to talk about African girls smelly cats.

1love

gabrywyl:

Ok no beef me ooo BUT I have asked my housemates (just incase if you dont know, they are Naija boys) on why are they dating Oyinbo's instead of black ladies.

The Igbo's usually say this:- just to taste how they taste like but in the end of the day, I always go back to my African Queen. Of course Ill marry all this Oyinbos cause I want their money and also to have fun with them but I will surely go back to my roots. Nobody can beat the African gene! NOBODY!

The rest says that: OH SHAIT! African girls? Chinike! All they ever cares about this days is money money money. If you are not rich, forget about dating one cause they will treat you like shait! They are blinded by the money and thats all. Thats why I love Asian and White so much cause they show real love and they mostly are always by your side in good and rough times. Especially Asians.

And some commented that African girls all mostly have smelly toto (I dont know ooo) cause they are freakin lazy (maybe only the girls they met sha) and too high maintenance especially on their hair!!!


Yeah. Thats what I got

But my bf says No comment! Different people have different characters. One mans food is another mans poison

This too shall pass (modify button)

Anyway, here is an email (see below) I received and my response was "To each his own so no need but you are out of line by putting down black women.

By freemind2000

I have decided to get into the fray with this petty bickering which is going on and offer some insight into why I will never date black women again.
I date white women exclusively. Well, I should say "non-African American women" exclusively. I have dated women of Hispanic-American women, Asian-American woman, and am currently in a serious relationship with a woman of Middle Eastern descent. I can't say whether or not that relationship will work out.
But, I can say that I have no plans and foresee no plans of EVER dating African-American women again. So, I guess I'm what you call a sell out.
Basically, I just got tired of the black woman drama. And, when black men who date white women say that they choose to do so because of "black woman drama" - I know exactly what they are talking about.
Women who could not disagree without getting loud. Women who "got their nerve", or "who does she think that is", or "no, she didn't".
I got tired of all that "black" mentality. I got tired of disagreements having to always end up with a loud argument.
I got tired of taking sisters to a nice restaurant and, if the food
isn't prepared right, watch her get an attitude with the waiter.
I got tired of planning a romantic weekend, then have it
ruined because she had an attitude because something didn't go her way at work on Friday. I got tired of planning social events, then not having my woman want to go because she didn't like the "attitude" of someone who was going to be there. I got tired of sisters who didn't try to work out or take care of their bodies but had nothing but nastiness to say about those who chose to have enough self respect to take care of themselves. I got tired of taking sisters to elegant affairs and then watch them have nothing better to do but to comment on what was wrong with the affair. "That music gots to go", "The salad don't taste right", "That woman over there needs a breast reduction".
It's amazing, but when we went to "black" movie like "Friday" or some
Master P garbage - nothing was ever wrong. I got tired of sisters who could never find or make time to go to the gym.
Tired of dealing with "successful" black women who were just all into keeping up with the Jones's. Women with bad credit. Shopping at Sak's when they have a K-Mart budget. Buying stuff they can't afford to show off. Sick of it. I got tired of women who never have time to read a decent book, but never miss a soap opera. I got tired of planning adventurous sex and then having it blown off
with "I don't do that" or "Ugh huh". I got tired of hot love making sessions come to a shattering end because her nail broke. I got tired of that funky attitude, that nasty ass confrontation demeanor, that "me first" mentality, that low level of thinking. I got tired of black women and the drama that always comes with dating one. I got tired of women who don't let a man be a man and make the critical decisions but instead butt him on every turn and them call him
trifling or weak if he just gives up. Now, I know the first thing some of you women are saying is "I bet he date women that even white men don't want". Nope, every white woman I date is fine. Ultra fine. Bodies like Jennifer Lopez. Faces like Vanessa Williams.
I have high standards in everything from cologne, to clothes (which I
have fitted), to food (I don't eat red meat, fried food, or artificially preserved fruits/vegetables), to women (I don't date women who don't take care of their bodies, minds, or souls). The women I date are up to my standards (which are high), can wear 2 piece swimsuits with no embarrassment, can tell you the difference between a Modernist, postimpressionist, postmodern, or Contemporary painting, and can explain what a diversified portfolio is.
To make it short - I got tired of the black woman mentality. I'm just putting it out there. A lot of black men who date white won't say it -but a lot of them know it is true. While I am trying to not generalize, my experience is that most black women got an
"attitude". They like to call it being "real", or being "straightforward", or "speaking their mind". But, the attitude is just really a nastiness that says "I can't disagree without being disagreeable. I can't let others be different without belittling them for their difference. What others think of me is more important than
what I think of myself. All money is meant to be spent ASAP without
thought for tomorrow.
Critics expose themselves. Not too long ago, my girlfriend and I stopped at a restaurant and were eating. Across the way were some black females who gave my girlfriend that up-and-down look and then cut their eyes to each other in a look of disgust. Now these women were all at least 200 lbs, sloppy fat, black women. And, they kept looking to us and letting their voices raise so we could hear "jungle fever", "sell out", "weak nigga", etc. Next, it went to "she probably went down on him to get him to leave his wife", "you know she lets him cum in her mouth", "you know he must have a small penis",
"she's nothing but white trailer trash" , "loser", "slut", "hoe", "punk". And, that
is what I found about nearly all black women who have a problem with a black man dating only white. They have serious issues with their own esteem and try to cover up these issues by attacking black men who date only white women.
So, that's why!! Have a good day.

Oh dear Epi. That email is really sumthin oooo

In my own opinion;
just like a negative charge will attract a positive charge,a fair lady will attract a dark guy and vice-versa.
Everyone is looking for what he or she doesn't have,a fair guy is fair so wants a dark girl and vice-versa.
But better still; different strokes for different folks.

iReport:

My source is from the way you act towards dark skinned women.

You are so predictable!

I have no problem with skin complexion. But I naturally prefer a chocolate skinned beauty. If shes comes as 'yellow love', I am still OK with it. So far as the love is there.

Black girls with inferiority complex are at it again.

@ MoneyRule:

you are right opposites attract. dark guys want a fair lady, but i am afraid it is mostly NOT true the other way around. Dark men want fair women. Fair men, black or not, stick with fair women. I feel like dark skinned black women have limited options when it comes to men, because even many black men, especially the ones who are dark as hell, want a fair woman. In India, it is the same for dark skinned indian women. The men want a fair bride.

I really don't care, to each his own. And WOW to that email epi got. Some people are so closed minded.

black or white, we all people. all we need do is look good, neat and beautiful, and try work on your attitude, then u can attract anybody.

Black girls with inferiority complex are at it again

You dey mind them.

Hilarious Topic!!
Yellow Fever Love!

stillwater:

Black girls with inferiority complex are at it again.

rofl. . .

There will always be the good, the bad, and the ugly, and, complexion ain't got nothing to do with it.

biina:

There will always be the good, the bad, and the ugly, and, complexion ain't got nothing to do with it.

Exactomo!!

Akinagirl:

I really don't care, to each his own. And WOW to that email epi got. Some people are so closed minded.

I have part deux of that email, should i post?

epi:

Exactomo!! I have part deux of that email, should i post?

Pls post the email all here

by freemind2000

Isn't it obvious that black women the majority of the time have an attitude problem? I have noticed this for years, with relationships I used to have and even now, just look at the hostility and anger which comes raging through over the last day since I made my original comment.

I think that clearly this "black woman drama" is so obvious, just look at it. Attitude all over the place.
I remember when I was a young adult I used to think that any Black man who was dating white women was a "sell out". Said it, practiced it, everything. In fact, I would have been on here saying most of the same things people are writing in here.
Once, I was considering whether I had made a mistake in dating nonwhite women so I talked to my mom. Now, my mom is pure pro-black. As a college student, she marched with MLK and even was at the march on Washington. She was arrested at a sit-in down in Alabama during the early 1960's. She worked with voter registration drives and is now retired. And, I asked mom if I was wrong in refusing to consider dating a black woman.

This is what my mom told me, My moms told me "Black women today are not what they were when I was your age. We had pride, we would never be caught dead in a movie theater paying to see a movie that denigrates blacks such as "Friday" or "Booty Call". I have nice material things now, but I accumulated those through a life of hard work and wise choices - not by making money the #1 thing. I had no problem taking off your dad's shoes and massaging his feet. I had no problem when he spent a night out with his male friends. I had no problem disagreeing with him on issues. I had no problem letting your father be a man and making the decisions that ran our household.

But, the black women today do not allow black men to be men. They want to wrest the mantle of leadership from the man and get an attitude when he tries to be a man then call him "trifling" if he gives up." She added "I can't blame a young successful black man for not dating black women today. It is hard enough to achieve success if you are a black man and it is stressful enough to deal with the rigors of being a black man in today's world. A black man does not need the stress of a woman who constantly keeps drama going and just can't enjoy life even when it doesn't go her way. From the way our women have went, I just can't blame a man today for dating white."

The sad reality is that most people will just write-off my comments and not take this as a warning that they are running off their husbands, and fathers of their children with the nasty ass attitudes.

Good night all and pleasant dreams