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| My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by waley007(m): 10:54am On Aug 25, 2015 |
Everytim i have problem with my girlfriend concerning her exes.she just wont let them go.we both love each other bt we ar in a distant relationship.she introduced me to her parent and my parent luv her too,moreso we plan to get married. Anytime we have issues,she talks to her ex,somtime last year,i got her voice notes with one of her ex in another town and they were both romantic on phone,we fought over this and i forgave her,we had issues last week and i paid her a suprise visit bt to my dismay,she talked to another ex of hers for about 30mins the night before my visit and she also called him about 1hr before we met the second day,remember she didnt know i was coming,the guy kept calling her numba,i pressurised her to call her ex in my presense and end any conversation that may happen again but she refused. Her family loves me and even her dad calls me,they see me as their inlaw,am thinking of quiting the relationship,what do i do..her exes has always bin our problem and yet she loves me.am just tired |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by naijaboiy: 10:55am On Aug 25, 2015 |
Thank God it's not that serious yet. How long have you been dating? What I would have advised you is to put a strong stance about her and her Exes but you have already done that but it seems she's not forth coming. I'll advise you let her know point blank that you will not be able to continue the relationship if she keeps having conversations with her ex. If she refuses to change,,oga please walk away. Don't look back. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by jimohibrahim(m): 10:55am On Aug 25, 2015 |
Your gurl is playing an away match and you're busy complaining about fone calls.. Don't feel like your hands are tied up because her parents likes you bruh. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by vizkiz: 10:55am On Aug 25, 2015 |
she is not your girlfriend bro. Sorry to break the bad news, you have been in a rebound relationship  2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by agarawu23(m): 10:57am On Aug 25, 2015 |
they are some questions you don't need to ask us. let her go and marry her ex since she can't stay without them. don't be surprise after marriage, she will still continue calling and 'probably' visit em. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by SeverusSnape(m): 10:57am On Aug 25, 2015 |
Bros. Your own don finish. Run for your life. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by Nobody: 10:58am On Aug 25, 2015 |
Find an armed robber, if u cant find any, am at ur service Sir send me an email later so dat her ex wud be found nd butchered |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by Nobody: 11:00am On Aug 25, 2015 |
Na this kind threads guys dey like. I sight Naijaboiy |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by tcalc: 11:01am On Aug 25, 2015 |
she prolly here giving u advises like "The girl get serious problem... If her ex is better why not just go back to him. Op, you sef need Deliverance.!"
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| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by naijaboiy: 11:02am On Aug 25, 2015 |
Oyind17:Na advise we dey give na. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by Omotayor123(f): 11:04am On Aug 25, 2015 |
The girl get serious problem... If her ex is better why not just go back to him. Op, you sef need Deliverance.! |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by Trinxie(f): 11:04am On Aug 25, 2015 |
Bro, if she can't let go of her Ex(es), let her go... |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by Ariani: 11:05am On Aug 25, 2015 |
THIS BITCHES AIN'T LOYAL 1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by Peachess(f): 11:07am On Aug 25, 2015 |
I see no reason why anyone should communicate with their ex like that. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by Nobody: 11:07am On Aug 25, 2015 |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by waley007(m): 11:09am On Aug 25, 2015 |
naijaboiy:I believe shes taking me for granted because she knows i love her,and i know she loves me too..bt i just cant continue having issues with her exes..shes a wife material and everymans dream but am already tinking about quiting it..the funniest part is that shes so proud of me and would post my pictures on social media,all her friends know me bt shes making me a bit exhausted..av already call it quit bt she kept disturbing me,the problem is she still wouldnt change |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by Nobody: 11:14am On Aug 25, 2015 |
Op, are you sure you're really in a relationship  That a particular girl spends more time with you......does'nt necessarily mean she's your "GIRL FRIEND"  2 Likes |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by naijaboiy: 11:14am On Aug 25, 2015 |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by Nobody: 11:15am On Aug 25, 2015 |
waley007: Lol@ wife material |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by agarawu23(m): 11:16am On Aug 25, 2015 |
waley007:fine and good so how do you wanna deal with the issue of her ex? wife material abi? but she kept calling her ex what for? |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by Nobody: 11:17am On Aug 25, 2015 |
waley007:what nonsensical love, her toto no be da same as oda gals toto Abi she add flavour inside, Bros forget dat babe go after anoda .. toto na toto! |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by skyface00(m): 11:20am On Aug 25, 2015 |
Bros she's not your girl, seems d so ex are broke, and u have enough 2 spend on her, she still have unfinished job with her ex, even if u ended up marrying her, just pray she never see d ex again, she will gladly bang him both left n right without any regret, u are just a ceremonial husband to be while the heart is somewhere else Try and find out.... D so called Ex are broke |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by naijaboiy: 11:22am On Aug 25, 2015 |
waley007:[b]Yes,,she's definitely taking you for granted. I'm sure she loves you but it seems as if she still has some sort of connection with her ex and there are so many factors that could have led to it. Maybe he was the one who took her virginity,,or the way in which their relationship ended was not a really bad one which could give space for reconciliation. It could also be that she decided to be with you to quickly get over her break up with her ex. To pass time. Sometimes it's really dangerous to follow up a lady immediately after her break up. You many not be the one she truly loves,,but since you are the one available she will use you to help heal quickly and when the heart ache begins to heal everything may start fading. It gets worse if the ex begins to rear his ugly head. Now i'm sure she's really confused. You have to really talk to her this time so you can know her mind. Let her be very honest with you and please don't use force or anger in asking her for her opinion. If at the end of the day you both decide to reconcile put your stance about her ex and set a distance. Let her know that you want to take her seriously but you won't be able to condone such behaviours from her,,if she truly loves you then she should make amends. My brother if she still remains stubborn and goes back to her acts please leave quietly. It will be better to walk away before you walk her down the aisle to avoid trouble. *wipes sweat*[/b] 8 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by Nobody: 11:22am On Aug 25, 2015 |
Is she really your girlfriend if she won't let her ex's go or are you feeling insecure about just friendly conversations. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by holocron: 11:24am On Aug 25, 2015 |
waley007: Then be a man and stop whining! Next time you catch those calls, fly into a rage and smash that phone! Later give her another with a new sim card. Insist the offending numbers are never found found on the new phone. Any further infractions, walk away. If for any reason you cant do this, then bear your burden like a man and be prepared for actual cuckolding in the future. Emotional infidelity in a woman can be worse and deadlier than its physical counterpart. Your innermost secrets, strengths and weaknesses will be exposed to strangers who are not your friends!  |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by donholy28(m): 12:29pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Is it just me or is op plain stupiid? she has already shown who she likes most so leave her and go ur way |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by TheGeneral1(m): 12:35pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Pls end it now!!! |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by waley007(m): 4:56pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
We have been to different churches,and we av always bin told that we ar meant for each other..even when her mum went to pray,d pastor told her mum hes expecting our wedding invitation card,as well as my mum too,more than 3 pastors told my mum,i wanted to travel recently and went to a pastor to pray,witout mentioning her,d pastor talked about her and kept giving me assurances...but attimes i feel like maybe shes possess,because upon all dis i dont know why she wont let her ex go...i asked her to block al her ex on facebook but she felt so bad about it telling me she wants them to keep seeing how good shes doing in her relationship..what if i had not paid her a suprise visit,maybe she would av deleted all stuffs |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by waley007(m): 5:03pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
we av been confirmed good by pastors,to us,her mum and my own mum too,i dont know what she wants again. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by waley007(m): 5:08pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
agarawu23:The funniest part is that the exes "wont" even b bold to post her picture of mere facebook when they were 2geda and they wont stop cheating on her too..she has neva see a woman call my number anyhow before and i dont cheat on her |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by waley007(m): 5:12pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Tomfrench:I agree with you cos i dont even believe in love anymore,how will i be so loyal to a woman and she would take me for granted..somtimes being a bad guy pays,av come to realise that girls lyk bad guys more |
| Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Her Ex's Go by waley007(m): 5:14pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Oyind17:Yes shes a good girl to the core,but these days she doesnt even respect me anymore |
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