midehi2:

nice write-up girl

thanks dear its an old thread tho

Mzdivacious:
thanks dear its an old thread tho

yea, just stumble on it now

Lol going by this list I am never getting married Ni wahala

Mzdivacious:
The way some guys act clearly indicate that they
will end up as chronic headache for their wives in
the nearest future if care is not taken.
I can’t really blame guys who are involved in the
act of humiliating ladies in public and online
because these ladies in question must have
torment their heart but going to the extent of
destroying their intrinsic values is the major
concern here.
Therefore let’s take a look at signs that indicate
a guy will become an irresponsible husband.

1. Extremely stingy
Some guys are so stingy to the extent that they
can’t call their girlfriends for just 1minute in a
day. The only time they call for long period is
during free night calls or bonus awarded from
telecom providers. If they call for 30secs, they will
hang up and later explain through whatsapp/BBM
that it was network failure.

2. Highly promiscuous
This issue is common to perverts who has never
zipped up for once in their life by chasing every
tom and harry in skirt. These are the kinds that
will eventually become sugar daddy, chasing
ladies who are young enough to be their daughter
in future.

3. Very lazy
Some guys are so idle to the extent that they
have no goal, vision and purpose in life. They are
just too lazy to seize opportunities around them
as they are only seen in betting shops like
nairabet, etc. to make money.

4. Ridicule ladies
I hate when a guy beat or disgrace his girlfriend
in public just because she hangs out with a guy. I
consider this as a dysfunctional act because a
man in making will not stoop so low to involve
himself in this thrash. Meanwhile on nairaland
some consider all ladies as whores of which we
still have the rare and good ones like mhizkel,
prettythicksme, redgem, aminat508, midehi,
adeh39 and others.

5. Habit of alcoholism and smoking
For a guy that consume too much alcohol and
smoke probably in the bid to control his anger is
not a man. Such guys cannot become
responsible husbands to their wives because they
can use children’s school fee and other budgetary
money to drink and smoke.

6. Wrong lifestyle
Some guys rock and roll with the wrong peer
groups who have influence them to have
shameful lifestyles like yahoo yahoo occupation,
rape gangs and area touts.

7. Careless attitude
The way some guys behave can be likened to a
voracious animal. They dump and change ladies
like sanitary pads as they care less about their
emotion by suggesting abortion for any sex
journey that becomes foetus.

8. Poor financial planning
Some guys blow money like trumpet without
thinking about future investment. They spend
their money on vague things like phones,
prostitutes, etc. Such guys will eventually become
an irresponsible husband.

9. Bad listening habit: most guys have this habit
and it results in ineffective communication, which
usually have an adverse impact on the
productivity of the individual and their
relationships. Poor listening definitely make a
huge, negative impact on team morale and
productivity. This situation usually results in
conflicts and misunderstandings among partners ,
and it creates a negative environment.

10. Lack of Self control : some guys lack the
ability to control their emotions, behavior, and
desires. Guys should constantly be striving
towards self-control and discipline, because these
are foundations of integrity. One thing they need
to understand about self-control is that it is not
as much about saying no to certain fleshly
desires, lusts
and cravings but more about living and abundant
life free from addiction regret and shame.

11. Interrupting a conversation: guys are good at
Interrupting a conversation with improper body
language or inappropriate words and this has a
negative impact on their relationships. My bf does
this a lot and it annoys me… I’ve told him
severally yet, he can’t stop it.

12. Dirty: some guys are so dirty that if they
should pass you, oh my God! you won’t be able
to breathe for hours and most of them term it
sexy…. Imagine animal odour is now sexy ta…go
and sleep it’s a turn off to we ladies.. We love
guys that are neat, guys that organizes their
home.
13. Bragging : some guys brag a lot eg MrCork I
have no problem with a guy having money.
However, I do have a problem when you decide to
treat women like gold-diggers whose eyes are
bound to widen at the mention of “Bugatti”. Yes,
we like money, just like you men, but that doesn’t
mean you should also shout it…. Brags are a turn
off for me

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Mzdivacious:
lol,im a mess atm...normally its instagram,nairaland n twitter in that order
when im fully active,id inform u,maybe even add u on bbm

That'll be great... I just hope i've fixed my phone by that time