I created a thread two weeks ago which hit front page about my girlfriend making a ridiculous statement concerning guys better than me chasing her during an argument we had. the issue is that she had since apologised and I have accepted her back but I an finding it hard to forget those hurtful words she said. I haven't contacted since last week and haven't been picking her calls because anytime I hear her voice, the words just keeping playing back.
Even though I love her deeply but No matter how hard I try, I just can't forget those words and am afraid it will spell the end of our relationship. what can I do?

I guess uve not actually forgiven her....give urself some time to heal cos am sure u were really hurt with whatever she said to you. Am sure u'd come around. Its hard to forgive and forget at the same time tho

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Asito:
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Smh. is not your fault. Am sure u have never been in a relationship

it's not easy man but if u really love her, make up ur mind to forget...ladies by nature ve verbal power..deh don't usually mean wat deh say wen angry..understanding dis will help u as a man..its dier nature above virtue... Love her more, show her more care..help her to be a better person and u ll c d best of her..

olasmith10:
it's not easy man but if u really love her, make up ur mind to forget...ladies by nature ve verbal power..deh don't usually mean wat deh say wen angry..understanding dis will help u as a man..its dier nature above virtue... Love her more, show her more care..help her to be a better person and u ll c d best of her..

this isn't Hollywood Bro

alexistaiwo:
this isn't Hollywood Bro

OK..Follow ur mind!

phayvoursky:
BROTHER!!!

MAN UP AND FORGET HER. GO GET A LADY THAT WILL APPRECIATE YOU NO MATTER WHAT CIRCUMSTANCE.

okay

I read that post u created. ..
now op, I think u guys should give each other some time, at least a month. During this period, try and break all forms of communication and seeing yourselves, if u actually miss her and want to be with her, you'll realise it, if not, u can let her go.

Idydarling:
I read that post u created. ..
now op, I think u guys should give each other some time, at least a month. During this period, try and break all forms of communication and seeing yourselves, if u actually miss her and want to be with her, you'll realise it, if not, u can let her go.

good idea. I think I will go with your suggestion

Idydarling:
I read that post u created. ..
now op, I think u guys should give each other some time, at least a month. During this period, try and break all forms of communication and seeing yourselves, if u actually miss her and want to be with her, you'll realise it, if not, u can let her go.

OP has already said what will happen... It's the beginning of the end.

I sorry for the babe in question.

Men has their ego at stake and a wise woman should never go near his ego in an attempt to fire back.

A man's ego is very important to him even more than whoever he is dating. Comparing the op to other guys is a possible link to cheat on him if she hasn't even started secretly .

alexistaiwo:
I created a thread two weeks ago which hit front page about my girlfriend making a ridiculous statement concerning guys better than me chasing her during an argument we had. the issue is that she had since apologised and I have accepted her back but I an finding it hard to forget those hurtful words she said. I haven't contacted since last week and haven't been picking her calls because anytime I hear her voice, the words just keeping playing back.
Even though I love her deeply but No matter how hard I try, I just can't forget those words and am afraid it will spell the end of our relationship. what can I do?

Dude seriously you need to chill out, women will say anything just to get to you, My mother has said some words that cut so deep that someone could commit suicide luckily am someone who ignore women's words , even my ex said something that hurt me when I was just trying to find out how her day went. What I do normally when such happens is to either smoke weed or do my work. Why do you think most men zone out when women are talking if you take 90% of what they say seriously you'd prob commit suicide just let it go. Also you need to stop catching feelings over mere words.

seen!