A lot of the time, ladies are the ones guilty of making themselves impossible to marry. But there are certain cases where its the guy that is at fault.

1. Shyness/Cowardice: Shy guys often chase off their babes with their shyness, which at times may be confused as cowardice. You have been in a friendship/ relationship with a babe for three years, you like her, she likes you, both of you have been rolling since on that static. Ask her out, na lie, propose to her, na war, wetin do you?! The babe will then take you as a friend and will be taken by another man. Then you go dey complain of friendzoning.

2. Lack of purpose: These is for all the lazy men in the house; Grow up! You are not under your mother's care anymore! Many guys don't default on this step, they are hard working and purposeful, yet some boys ( not guys) lazy around going from one party to the other, never thinking of starting something but always waiting for Dangote to call them ( dey on long thing). Even if you are still unemployed, find something engaging like a training to go for or volunteer services. Worst thing is for you to start working at Mr Biggs but start doing something instead of just staying at home expecting your parents to pick the bills. Any serious babe will find another guy unless in rare occasions.

3. Sticking to your parent's apron: these are for the 'mama' boys. Be a man and take your actions. One of the biggest issues before and within a marriage is a mother's influence on either of the couple. Many a mother will want to contribute to the ongoings of a marriage; especially if the child is the last child/ only child. Why this may not necessary be bad, many mums cannot distinguish between just making an opinion and making a rule in a marriage. So its left for the couple (especially the man) to take decisions devoid of that influence. Unfortunately for these set of people, they are usually tied to their mother's opinion and then she starts acting like an overbearing Queen Mother, deciding everything that goes on in the house. Many wise babes will kindly visit their prospective husbands' house and then leave the guy for someone who makes his own decisions.

4. Being unnecessarily wicked to your family/ relatives: this is the opposite of the immediate previous group. They treat their family members like complete trash, always downgrading them. Many serious babes avoid these kind of guys because things may change during marriage and they will want to avoid stories that touch.

5. Add your own

(Wise babes will know the true purpose of this thread).

#Noted

Thinking that women are too plenty, meanwhile, the issue is that you don't easily find your soulmate in pool of plenty women.

hmm

6. Lack of commitment guy: Guys like this are not shy, they just want to live a couple's life without put that ring on the babe. The babe will live in there, wash, cook and do everything (including the sex) and yet will remain 'in a relationship' for years when the dude has everything to make a marriage work (i.e they are comfortable and successful). Serious and mature babes recognize this at once and flee!
7. The dude that is too committed to his work: we all know this set of dudes; 8-10 pm guys. Working like there is no tomorrow, they always find it hard to find time for their babes. Before they know it, a sharper guy has taken her to the altar.

OP nwanne idi sharp idi vely vely correct

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IamLEGEND, Farano, Rocktation, Mzlisabelle

And u know dis becos.....

Tell that to my ex

I came here to see if I've lost my future wife

No hyavunt.

me na "lack of commitment" guy I be sha.....
I dey shiver anytime I imagine say I go marry...

IamLEGEND1:
me na "lack of commitment" guy I be sha.....

I dey shiver anytime I imagine say I go marry...

If you are sure of the babe, don't be scared.

rapmike:

If you are sure of the babe, don't be scared.

No way bro, I'm never going to stick around to even find out.....
#OpertionHit&Run

IamLEGEND1:

No way bro, I'm never going to stick around to even find out.....
#OpertionHit&Run

Haba! Maybe I go include your kind.