Nobody is really happy they called off a relationship with their partner especially if it was a long one. It may be hard to let go despite everyone around you saying you made the right choice.While you’re still feeling bad from your breakup, it’s easy to question your decision to let go. But there are reasons why you shouldn’t be sad about leaving that relationship that wasn’t good for you.Sierra Horton of Popsugarlists 22 reasons why you made the right choice breaking up:

1.You always feared that they wouldleave you.

2.You had more admiration for other couples than you did yourself and your SO.

3.When you think back on what the relationship was like, the bad memories come up first.

4.Jealousy was a major dynamic between the two of you.

5.They made you feel bad for the things you’re interested in.

6.You didn’t feel like they supported your career goals.

7.You lost friends because of the relationship.

8.There was a constant struggle for superiority; the two of you were never equals.

9.Either of you would divulge that they missed the “old version” of the other.

10.You didn’t feel comfortable around their family, or vice versa.

11.You felt like you had to hide an aspect of who you are to maintain their approval.

12.Either of you had to vie for affection.

13.You or they were constantly worried about what the other was doing when you were apart.

14.Even small conflicts turned into tumultuous arguments.

15.There were double standards — things that one of you could do that the other couldn’t.

16.Either of you were continually threatening to end the relationship.

17.The relationship more often felt draining than it did uplifting.

18.Your friends and family think the two of you are better off apart.

19.You depended more on others for emotional support than you did your significant other.

20.You often found yourself lashing out at your partner, sometimes without really knowing why.

21.Your lives never fully (or easily) melded together.

22.You were more often worried about your future together than you were excited for it.

source:http://www.naijaonpoint.com/lifestyle/22-reasons-to-be-happy-your-relationship-ended.html

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