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What A Man Needs Most From A Woman Is Not Sex! by Emasel(m): 9:46am On Sep 25, 2015
Sex is an important element in marriage and until
there is sexual intercourse between a husband
and a wife, the marriage is not yet spiritually
recognised. This shows how important sex is in
marriage.

When you look at how agressive men are towards
sex you may think that what a man needs from a
woman is sex. Of course, if he has not married
you yet or he does not really intend to marry you
what he will need from you is nothing above your
body. But if he really intends to marry you or if
you guys are already married sex is never what he
needs from you - maybe let me say it better;
"WHAT A MAN NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS
NOT SEX."

Many young girls think because they are sexually
active and experience they will easily be married
and have their husbands loving them. And when
a man approaches for marriage they think the
greatest asset they have to show the man is sex.
Others also think once they are giving out their
bodies it means they are giving out the best for
which reason they will be chosen above all.
There is this young girl who is very beautiful and
sexually active. Due to that she thought sex is all
that matters to a man. Ironically, she struggled
for long before finally getting married. Her sexual
dexterity could not win her the heart of a man
until out of the blue and reason beyong
imagination a very handsome good man married
her. The wedding was grand and her tears were
now gone. Unfortunately only a year after the
wedding the marriage fell on rocks. Within five
years three different men came her way but none
could stay.

The problem was simple. She thought sex was all
that matters so she would never submit. But
submission is what men need, not sex. It is time
for our young ladies to know that when a man is
ready to marry he will not look out for a woman
who will satisfy his sex drive but a woman who
will submit herself to him. Excuse my language,
"every woman has vagina but not every woman
has humility." So when you are a humble woman,
you are an expensive jewelry. And a man of
integrity will fear to lose you.

What does the Holy Bible say, "Wives, submit yourselves to your
husbands as you do to the Lord. For the Husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church,his body, of which he is the Saviour.Now as the Church submits to Christ,so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything." Ephesians 5: 22-24.
The reason is that a man's true love
goes out only for a woman who is submissive.
Your beauty cannot make another woman ugly
but your humility can let him love you above all
other women.

Sadly, many young ladies in our days call
submission "Control." And you will hear them
say in tiny romantic voices, "As for me I don't
want any man to control me oh." If you don't
want to submit don't think of marriage because
no man in his right sense will offer his love to a
woman whose heart is higher than his height, no
matter how short he may be!

When a woman bows her knee before a man, the
man will automatically bow his heart before her
love, and love her sincerely. There are, of course,
recalcitrant men who will not value women of
humility but I tell you that every true man does
not need sex, but submission. It is submission
that truly makes you a romantic wife. So be the
African queen you want to be but when it comes
to dealing with your husband, play the role of a
humble maid. Don't forget that it is the spirit of
humility that has caused many maids to hijack
their mistresses' husbands. Be your man's queen
and be his maid also.

I wish you all the best as you submit in your
relationship and marriage. May God bless you
with good marriage, my dear sisters.


By: B.I.C. Abeiku Okai

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Re: What A Man Needs Most From A Woman Is Not Sex! by Femsyn(m): 10:12am On Sep 25, 2015
Nice write-up. Couldn't have said it any better. This is the same reason, virgins think their state of celibacy will give them all they desire. Like you rightly said, every woman has a vagina, tight or loose (someday, soon, a virgin's vagina won't be as tight as it used to be), but very few has the spirit of submissiveness.

N.B: Chastity is awesome and I preach it, but hey, it doesn't end there.

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Re: What A Man Needs Most From A Woman Is Not Sex! by Nobody: 10:13am On Sep 25, 2015
some feminist will not like D's...bt d truth will remain bitter... preach it op

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Re: What A Man Needs Most From A Woman Is Not Sex! by cc150615(f): 10:55am On Sep 25, 2015
Watching this space
Re: What A Man Needs Most From A Woman Is Not Sex! by SAMBARRY: 11:25am On Sep 25, 2015
Nonsense grin
Re: What A Man Needs Most From A Woman Is Not Sex! by lilmax(m): 12:31pm On Sep 25, 2015
Nice, only married women can get the message
Re: What A Man Needs Most From A Woman Is Not Sex! by 48noble(m): 12:53pm On Sep 25, 2015
Long live d humble woman of my life.



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Re: What A Man Needs Most From A Woman Is Not Sex! by Nobody: 3:43pm On Sep 25, 2015
Nice one Emmanuel

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Re: What A Man Needs Most From A Woman Is Not Sex! by Pidggin(f): 5:54pm On Sep 25, 2015
What happened to the companionship and helpmate theory which God brought to us?

Husbands love your wife, if you do you wouldn't need to worry about submission, most ladies will submit to a man who loves and cares.
Re: What A Man Needs Most From A Woman Is Not Sex! by Emasel(m): 8:24pm On Sep 25, 2015
Pidggin:
What happened to the companionship and helpmate theory which God brought to us?
Husbands love your wife, if you do you wouldn't need to worry about submission, most ladies will submit to a man who loves and cares.

The Bible addresses "Love and Submission" perfectly in Ephesians 5: 22-31. Men are instructed to Love their wives, and women are instructed to submit.

22 wives submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.
23 For the
husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the
head of the church, his body, of which he is the
Savior.
24 Now as the church submits to Christ,
so also wives should submit to their husbands in
everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ
loved the church and gave himself up for her
26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the
washing with water through the word, 27 and to
present her to himself as a radiant church,
without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but
holy and blameless. 28 In this same way,
husbands ought to love their wives as their own
bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.

29 After all, no one ever hated their own body,
but they feed and care for their body, just as
Christ does the church --- 30 for we are members
of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave
his father and mother and be united to his wife,
and the two will become one flesh.”
Re: What A Man Needs Most From A Woman Is Not Sex! by Stillfire: 8:40pm On Sep 25, 2015
Another nonsense. grin grin
Give your man se.x and watch him become your houseboy. grin
When you notice your man is doing too much gra gra for you, catch him, lock the door and make sure no single spermatozoa remains in his tank.
Which energy will he have to be making noise in the house or screaming feminist, feminist online? grin
Re: What A Man Needs Most From A Woman Is Not Sex! by Emasel(m): 8:56pm On Sep 25, 2015
Stillfire:
Another nonsense. grin grin
Give your man se.x and watch him become your houseboy. grin
When you notice your man is doing too much gra gra for you, catch him, lock the door and make sure no single spermatozoa remains in his tank.
Which energy will he have to be making noise in the house or screaming feminist, feminist online? grin

It takes more than just great sex, to keep a man faithful and loyal

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