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| Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Mark554: 3:24am On Sep 26, 2015 |
Hello Romancelanders, Think I've got a problem that I'll like to share. It goes like this... Relationship stuffs is one thing I'm yet to understand fully. During my sec sch days, I was was everything lady would die for and I thought it was always going be like this. ******Fast forwards to the present state. Right now, life is boring cos I feel I haven't really experienced love and I feel intimated and sad whenever I see a guy and a lady making out. I wonder why I don't get to enjoy such stuffs. I've been told I can get any girl cos I'm quite handsome but it's just overrated cos it's not a criteria for getting a gf. I feel isolated and lost in this world cos of relationship issues. Sex? Not about sex but I think of it and shake it off cos I don't want a relationship that's all about sex. I want one that will make me feel loved. You see your supposed ex with her bf and get sad. QUESTIONS.... HOW DO I TOAST A LADY? I really suck in this aspect and I'll like to learn from you guys. Assist a bro... 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Nobody: 3:58am On Sep 26, 2015 |
One sentence. Love yourself, and others will love you. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by kehinde1588(m): 5:11am On Sep 26, 2015 |
There is nothing hard in getting a g.f bro just b kind to everyone and be urself surely a girl will come that will love everything about u and try to b bold,girls love guys that her bold..u looking for a sincere and loyal g.f without sex? oboi she go later dey go get sex somewhere else. |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Cutehector(m): 5:59am On Sep 26, 2015 |
U seem desperate.. Pls be patient... |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by englishmart(m): 6:05am On Sep 26, 2015 |
if you are mature enough to have a gf, you will find it much easier. when I was 18/19, I faced similar challenge. but now, I've grown older, na ladies dey disturb me ghon self 2 Likes |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by joviegghead: 7:16am On Sep 26, 2015 |
Since u're handsome,1 problem don comot,cuz,good looks increases ur chances .. Be confident..smile.. Take good care of ya self,i mean,physically.ur hair,clothes,odour etc.. Make attempts to start conversations..get contacts..follow up.. Etc. Abeg guyz,help this dude..oh finally,when u see that girl u like,tell her ur mind,tell her how u feel. But make sure,she's worth it. Not like some mumu girls that will start doing shakara or playing hard to get just because u've expressed how u feel.. Pls note: never tell a girl u met recently:'i love you'. Why? Cuz u can't,dumbass.it's too soon. The best word is: 'i like you'.u can add 'really'. 'I love you' comes later.. Just be smart,bold,confident,smooth and tactful. 2 Likes |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by strykr: 7:46am On Sep 26, 2015 |
O. P, stop thinking of getting a gf too much. Since it's love u want, why not focus on other things, keep an open mind and let the love find you. P. S The love might not have sufficient technology to find u by d way. That's ur problem.  1 Like |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Mark554: 11:00am On Sep 26, 2015 |
kehinde1588:My kindness is one of the things that hindered relationship stuffs then. Boldness? I don't have it. |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Mark554: 11:04am On Sep 26, 2015 |
joviegghead: I don't meet girls on a regular basis to start with. Hair, perfume, clothes are intact. I don't think girls fancy such stuffs these days. Even touts get very beautiful gfs while good boys are dying somewhere. |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Mark554: 11:06am On Sep 26, 2015 |
englishmart:I'm mature enough but my social life is zero. |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by ivyT(f): 3:14pm On Sep 26, 2015 |
kehinde1588: Not all females my dear,same applies to guys |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Nobody: 4:18pm On Sep 26, 2015 |
Having a girlfriend is really easy. Just know your level tbh. The level you want and the level you deserve. Make sure they coincide. Try not to be too shy. 2 Likes |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by EnigmaticEnigma(m): 4:33pm On Sep 26, 2015 |
MrsPhyno: What if I want you  Are you on my level  |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by CivilzedTyger(m): 4:40pm On Sep 26, 2015 |
lyf is all tym but am lyk u 2 sha nd itz because i no fyn |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Nobody: 4:42pm On Sep 26, 2015 |
MrsPhyno: oya O love doctor well done eh |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by HawksDude(m): 5:11pm On Sep 26, 2015 |
If you're presentable and in Lagos, I could be your wing-man and get the babe you need. It'll cost you sha  |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Nobody: 5:12pm On Sep 26, 2015 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:I'm a gal of many talents what can I say 2 Likes |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by dredmatthew234(m): 5:14pm On Sep 26, 2015 |
i understand my brothp problem here ... shyness but obviously ladies nowadays flows normally irrespective of how you asked them out, fot real best way to start a relationship is from friendship and later just confess to her u want the both of to be more than friends ...simple! most ladies nowadays are mature enough to understand thsr statement |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Mark554: 10:01pm On Sep 26, 2015 |
dredmatthew234: Hehehe.... I didn't want to mention the word shyness Approachingthem for friendship is a problem or should I go where they're buying stuffs and I'll then offer to pay for the stuffs? |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Mark554: 10:02pm On Sep 26, 2015 |
It has come to a stage where I'm really desperate to have a gf even if it's a mad woman  |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Cherlene(f): 10:13pm On Sep 26, 2015 |
Mark554: Greetings Naawwh, view the IMAGES attached BELOW. Cherlene 1 Share
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| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by hottest111: 10:19pm On Sep 26, 2015 |
bro, getting a gf is not hard na... were do u reside |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by sauceTDA(m): 10:55pm On Sep 26, 2015 |
Op..i think you need fixing , you dnt need anyone to make you feel complete.. Focus more on urself.., in skill or whatever you are into. And stop crying over not having a girlfriend. *nuff said |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Mark554: 11:01pm On Sep 26, 2015 |
Cherlene:Thanks ma'am but this current World doesn't think in that direction really. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by jamex93(m): 6:08am On Sep 27, 2015 |
just like ur self for who u r and try to b good in wat u do ladies will come I tell u don't feel bad about anything just be ur self and like ur self it works I tell u 1 Like |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by kehinde1588(m): 6:44am On Sep 27, 2015 |
ivyT:very hard to see that kinda girl even the ones that claim to b saints will still go for bad guy that give them sex.Girls of nowadays are not shy of confronting their guys on sex |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Cherlene(f): 12:02pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Mark554: Read the following: Don't worry about other people's OPINION of you. God never told you to IMPRESS people, only to LOVE THEM. You are not what others think YOU ARE. You are what God knows YOU ARE. The more you love YOUR DECISIONS, the LESS you need others to LOVE THEM. Happy Sunday Cherlene |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Mark554: 1:06pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Cherlene:Hmmmmm...Thank you ma'am. I'll start appreciating myself more then cos I've spent alot of time pleasing others at the expense of my happiness. I really appreciate the words. 1 Like |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Cherlene(f): 1:10pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Mark554: Awww, thank God. You are welcome  Cherlene |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by ritababe(f): 10:42pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Cherlene: thumb up |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by Cherlene(f): 4:37am On Oct 10, 2015 |
| Re: Getting A Gf Seems To Be Really Hard by MrsChima(f): 5:28am On Oct 10, 2015 |
So you want a girlfriend because you are tired of jacking off abi? Lonely world huh? |
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