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| How Do I Go About It by frankkky: 10:16am On Apr 17, 2009 |
i am in a kind of delicate situation which i dont know how to handle it,it goes like this i have a 2yrs + son(he is going to be 3 by august this year)but my problem isnot him,we have this family friends who has twins,these twins are 6 years but cant make good sentences,they speak very very bad english no one understands them,everbody thinks it is a speech problem or something i personally have tried coaching the twins all to no avail,it is so bad the school they attend are complaining seriously too. now this is my problem the twins spend a lot of time with my son cos both parents are working so my wife helps take care of the twins b4 they come back from work,now the twins way of talking is beginging to affect me in that my son is begining to speak like them(you know how children pick habits)my son is begining not to make sense when he talks to me cos he is beginging to sound just like the twins and it is making my head go gaga. i want to stop the twins from coming to my house but at the same time i dont want to hurt their parents feelings,but at the same time i have to consider my son, now i am really confused.now when my son speaks in public i get ashamed cos he is now sounding like them so i want to stop them b4 more harm is done or what do you guys think |
| Re: How Do I Go About It by Nobody: 10:51am On Apr 17, 2009 |
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| Re: How Do I Go About It by Omolola1(f): 12:28pm On Apr 17, 2009 |
Make ur soon far away from the twins, or else it would become worse. |
| Re: How Do I Go About It by omofola(f): 12:39pm On Apr 17, 2009 |
you have to be very wise in creating a distance between your son and the twins, you are a mother and mothers should always be ready to protect their children in any situation. whichever way you do it, the twins parent will suspect and might feel bad , but you just have to do it nevertheless to protect your son's future. |
| Re: How Do I Go About It by emilyone(f): 12:49pm On Apr 17, 2009 |
a growing up child imitates alot , i'll suggest u put your child in a different school in order to reduce his contact with those other ones before u can then permanently do the separation. |
| Re: How Do I Go About It by collins2: 5:01pm On Apr 17, 2009 |
just as you said this is a real bad situation,you have to use WISDOM it is so sad,trust me if you dont do anything it will affect your son thats for sure |
| Re: How Do I Go About It by richard10: 5:06pm On Apr 17, 2009 |
what!kaikai stop them from coming to your house,this is no time to for sentiments,you are talking about the future of your child o,to hell with feelings |
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