Hey nlanders
This is an Open discussion between the male and female folks

Please have you ever trusted someone so much
and all they could do was to make you regret ever
knowing them,

if you do, drop your views here!

Oh yes, definitely, it happens. You love someone so much, You believe they would never do anything to hurt you and seems too good to be true and then you find out the unthinkables . It would definitely hurt, you wish you had never met them.

Yes hun, I think most people have!

Even though I do not trust anyone including my immediate fam 100%, just abusing that 70% of trust I have in people is enough for me to dash that person away! I mean come on, I only trust you 70% and you're still dumb enough to abuse it. lol  

What about you @ 190  

@secretz
I have really had a terrible experience dealing with someone
who i was starting 2 like already, she dissapointed me
bigtym, and now i have 2 stat all over again,i really trusted her so much
but she fooled me all along

sobs and sobs

why are people this WICKED

@topic
if someone tells me that he/she trust me so much
i would never dissapoint such person, never
anyway i hate the saying such is life, cos such shouldnt be how
life is really meant 2 be!

@ 190,


Don't cry, dry your eyes,

@Secretz
Thank u my dear
Nairaland is wicked
sending me someone who jst broke my hart

sobs and sobs louder

i feel u ooo. I recently trusted/loved someone with everything i had, and he let me down in a way i never thought humanly possible . Its so hard to trust again, and feel like it can never happen again, but it will. I'm slowly learning that myself Hugs!!

@ 190

NDO, PELE, PE, DO

I don't trust so deeply coz anythin can happen.

@chanbabs
i know ure the one that caused all these problems here
ure the same person i have the same trust issue wit,
ure rubbbie and alexbabe, stop changin ur IDs
u dissapointed me and i wish u woteva u wish urself

signs off

@190
pele oooooooooooo
alexbabe has really dealt with you
ehyaaaaaaaaaaaa sorry

pele oooooooooooo
alexbabe has really dealt with you
ehyaaaaaaaaaaaa sorry

You don JAM AYAMANTAGA!! GBOSA!!!

Guy just chiLL!! Shine your Eyes!

Well, i guess almost errone has gone through that phase. S*it happens meeen, we just have to take it as one of those things in life, the good things is that it makes us stronger. So if one next A-Hole comes and betrays that "trust" its all good cos we're now stronger people. God dey sha    ---- and always remember ---- KARMA IS A BIOTCH, its gonna come back and bite those betrayers!  

@190 , i'm sorry, i think u have mistaken me with someone else. I havent been online here in months, and have never changed my name. So, please know who your accusing, before you make false accusations.

THE TRUTH IS THAT GIRLS ARE NOT TO BE TRUSTED.

THE BEST THING IS TO HAVE ATLEAST THREE TO SEVEN GIRLS AT A TIME COS THEY MAY DISAPPIONT U AT ANY TIME.

I HAVE SAID MY MIND

Who said that is only girls that are not trust worthy, I trust piple and they ve all been paying me back in bad coin,

Give person money out of trust, u won't get the monay back again, love someone and trust the person, still it ani't work

@ik-moore2
i think you are wrong there
not all girls are not to be trusted
having 7gfs
i think you will only be creating trouble for urself

@190
PROBLEMS ARE OPPORTUNITIES FOR CORRECTION

I've never trusted any lady, and I will never do. But I'll never show it to her.

~ What's Trust? ~ Lemme check my dikshunari ~

@post
Thanks alot,
I have heard ya
she dissapointed me
all the same i wish her the best
anywhere she is
@least i can never trust a yoruba lady ever again!
@chanbabs
sorry dearie
just that she still stalks my post
and everytin and she registers wit numerous IDS
And felt u were her, Nairaland has really tot me a bad lesson
I WISH HER THE BEST WITH HER LIFE,
@LEST SHE HAS TOT ME A BITTER LESSON

Nigga don't start none of that ethnic discrimination crap again.

@C2H5OH
u wont understand
this is my 1st close encounter wit a yoruba lady
and she messed up bigtyme
i never knew anytin abt her,
but was clouded in zone 5 by love
i cant go in2 details but i nearly ran insane100000kmph cos of her


i can never trust a yoruba again
never eva

@least i have learnt my lesson now
thanks partly 2 nland

~ Yeah! Try anoda tribe! U tribalist ~

@Czarskit
Abeg dey ur own oooh
i didnt ask 4 no view 4rm u
abeg just dey ur own lane ooh

lol @ 190. You had me ready to give up on 9ja's all together, for the past week i've been dealing with all the craziest 9ja men to ever set foot in Canada. ha ha ha ha but i'm cool now, all is forgiven .

Its very immature to change ids like that!!wowow glad u got out when u did

I wish u the best!!

Hugs

Trust is the foundation of all relationship. If you can't trust your partner, it can weaken every single facet in the relationship. Communication becomes more difficult, because you start to doubt if he is tellin you the truth about anything.

@sista Jay
dat was very postive of u!

chanbabs:

for the past week i've been dealing with all the craziest 9ja men to ever set foot in Canada. ha ha ha ha but i'm cool now, all is forgiven .

Yea but that's because you a white girl ma. Them dudes only see you as a potential source for paper.

Acctually, i'm mixed.

No one has been trying to use me for papers. I know that game too well. Many of my friends (black included) have been used. The crayzies I dealt with already have their papers, and some are already citizens too,

School,Back In Dayz. . .
I once trusted my best friend(A Lady) but she ended up betraying the trust by implicating me to get off a Panel Case,She got Off and I got an extra.
We are cool now but no longer best of friends.