What are the traits of someone who is “trustworthy”? More
specifically, what are the traits of a woman who is trustworthy?
Here are a few of the traits that are most commonly thought of…
- A woman who has your best interest in mind.
- A woman who truly loves you.
- A woman who will not cheat on you.
- A woman who appreciates you for just being who you are.
But while these are great “ultimate goals”, they are not actually the
foundational traits that comprise a “trustworthy” woman.
To fully be able to recognize and attract a trustworthy woman, you
must first learn what “foundational traits” to look for. Unfortunately
most people (men & women) end up looking for their “ultimate goal”
when it comes to this subject and not the “foundational traits” that
comprise someone who is trustworthy.
Here is the problem with that… Most people (about 90% of us) see
what we want to believe when it comes to a dating partner or
potential mate. We do not actually see what “truly is” most of the time.
That is because we are focused on the ultimate goal, and not the
foundational traits.
It is easy to say, “She is just so sweet, and constantly tells me how
much she loves me. I know she would never cheat.”
Well, unfortunately sweetness is not one of the foundational traits to a
trustworthy woman necessarily. She could very easily be just as
sweet to every other male she comes across that sparks her interest!
Therefore, you must know these foundational traits which comprise a
trustworthy woman….
1. Does she respect you? Respect consists of many different
aspects… Does she honor your presence? Does she speak
highly of you? Does she always expect to be “first and
foremost” or is she genuinely concerned about your well-being
and your desires?
2. Has she cheated or done non-trustworthy acts in past
relationships? Learn about her history! Cheating, falsifying
information, stealing, etc. are all habitual traits. Done once, they
will be done a thousand times.
3. Does she honor and respect other people’s relationships? Does
she support, promote or protect her friends when they cheat or
act unfairly to their partners? If she does, then she will clearly
not respect your relationship with her and will quickly follow in
the footsteps of her friends!
4. Is she stable? Does she change her mind quickly and is she
impulsive? Does she make decisions “in the moment” without
clearly thinking through them? Men sometimes find “impulsive”,
sporadic women fun and adventurous… and they can be, but
they can also use those same traits to make negative
decisions.
5. Is she “vindictive”? Will she justify acting rudely to you or not
respecting you after a fight or general argument? Does she
seek revenge in volatile situations?
6. Does she make excuses for her wrongful actions? Does she
always have a justification and thinks that nothing can ever be
her own, personal fault?
Here are some basic rules of thumb to remember…
- Stealing and lying are habitual traits. Done once, they will be done a
thousand times.
- Learning about her past relationships is good. Though it may be
somewhat uncomfortable for you to listen, it may allow you to
discover a lot of information “between the lines” of her stories.
- Time. To truly learn about someone and be able to pick up on
potentially negative traits, you need time. It goes back to the saying
that “love is blind”. Don’t rush into a relationship, or worse yet,
marriage. Take it slowly and utilize as much time as possible.
- Be open to “negatives”. No one is perfect. Everyone has
weaknesses and faults. Some just have far more detrimental ones
than others. Don’t get the “she’s perfect” mentality into your head.
That will make you blind to negatives. Instead, secretly and quietly
look for her faults and negative traits. If you can clearly define them,
and are okay with them, then you have found a great woman!
- Watch for impulsive actions that are done “in the moment”. Most
decisions to cheat are done impulsively without thought for future
consequences.

Ehen.... ok nah

To get the right woman is like printing your own money. Aal is well

Op, if all these things you mention are real.. Then my ex is as good as nothing cos she's a victim of all those you just mentioned from no1 to that no6..


(1) She lack respect, she doesn't respect me at all..


(2) She cheated her ex several times, according to her ex cos I don't know.. But she told me that it's not cheating cos they broke up then.. I don't know if she cheated on me too cos I didn't focus on that.. But I know one guy she always talk about him, telling me how much she admire and respect that guy and would've love to date him.. Imagine that!


(3) I don't know if she honor or respect other people's relationship cos we never talked about that before..


(4) Yes, she always make decisions without thinking, and every misunderstanding to her is end of the relationship.. Not knowing that every misunderstanding brings understanding..


(5) Yes, she's vindictive.. She always like to revenge on people that hurt her.. Her own revenge on me whenever I said something bad to her is all kind of insults in this world like God punish you, bastard, monster, wicked and heartless soul, everything bad..


(6) Yes, she always try to make excuses anytime she's wrong.. She never accept that she's ever wrong and she finds it very difficult to say sorry or even to forgive.. I'm always the bad person and she's always a perfect girl.. She's never forget at all and she's a sadist too..

trustworthy woman /girl?! hahahahahhahahahahaahahaha OK I hear you, well I trust my girl BUT I won't be surprised of anything she does in the future... hahahahaha trust a female my nuts hahhaa