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Safe Online Relationships by itsIYKE(m): 2:50pm On Oct 22, 2015
How do you and can you love someone you have never been in the same room with, kissed or felt their skin against your skin? The answer is yes, you can fall in love or what you believe to be in love with someone you speak to frequently on the phone and talk to on your computer screen. However, this love you feel, or the attachment is to whomever is responding back, and what you must remember is that person is only as real as their story and responses are.
According to recent posts by dating websites, approximately 15 to 20% of all online relationships lead to marriage. Marriage experts agree that there are a few benefits with online dating that far outweigh traditional dating. For example, many people find it easier to be more vulnerable with their emotions online, and the courtship’s can last longer for couples that talk online. Experts agree that having intimacy and sex before you know the person well can damage the relationship.  Depending on when the meet up happens, these couples may actually know one another on a more intimate level than people who date face to face. The biggest concern is that people who are dating online have an easier time being deceptive.  It’s easy to fool someone if you are never face to face with them. Leading them on or scamming them is also more likely as they only know what you tell them or what they see via a possible Skype.  Relationships that don’t progress to an eventual meet up are not normal. Humans want to see the person they believe they love, they want to touch them, and they want to connect physically with them. In fact, resisting a meet up after months of talking daily would be a sign that there is something amiss with the person you met online. For example, problems with commitment, abandonment or fear of being vulnerable would stand out as likely with this group.
love. The scam experts recommend the following red flags. Taking caution is my best advice, and question oddities.
1.The online dater wants to call you personal pet names too soon. They begin calling you honey, baby, love; the list goes on and on.
2.They encourage you to leave the dating or social network site you are currently on and communicate instant messaging or some other site.
3.They send you too many photos too soon, using their child, their dog or other personal touches. 4.They also want more photos of you (BE CAREFUL).
5.They want your address immediately and back it up by saying they want to send you flowers or court you in an “old fashioned manner.”
6.They give you numerous excuses of why they cannot meet you in person.
Things always come up that need to be dealt with immediately. This is where they will begin needing money or some other assistance from you. They are slick about the timing with this and usually wait until you are “hooked.”
If you are wise enough to catch them, they continue to lie by telling you that although they weren’t in love with you, through the process of getting to know you they have completely fallen in love with you. Do not believe this.
Re: Safe Online Relationships by Nobody: 2:53pm On Oct 22, 2015
Okay. key points pls undecided
Re: Safe Online Relationships by itsIYKE(m): 3:10pm On Oct 22, 2015
Diddyydiva:
Okay. key points pls undecided
read over and over until you see one......wait are you not the girl from the other thread
Re: Safe Online Relationships by Nobody: 4:02pm On Oct 22, 2015
itsIYKE:
read over and over until you see one......wait are you not the girl from the other thread
Wait,go to the other thread, read over and over until you are sure its me.
Re: Safe Online Relationships by itsIYKE(m): 4:07pm On Oct 22, 2015
Diddyydiva:
Wait,go to the other thread, read over and over until you are sure its me.
the ghost of m past shall not hunt me ijn!!!
Re: Safe Online Relationships by Nobody: 4:13pm On Oct 22, 2015
itsIYKE:
the ghost of m past shall not hunt me ijn!!!
grin grin IRANU grin grin
Re: Safe Online Relationships by itsIYKE(m): 4:16pm On Oct 22, 2015
Diddyydiva:
grin grin IRANU grin grin
stop following me around please......biko
Re: Safe Online Relationships by Nobody: 4:28pm On Oct 22, 2015
itsIYKE:
stop following me around please......biko
And what make you think you have what it takes for me to stalk you undecided. I Comment on threads randomly, so stop feeling fly boy. you aren't worth me stalking undecided
Re: Safe Online Relationships by Nobody: 4:34pm On Oct 22, 2015
This is what you get when you are friendly with nl boys undecided . Arrant nonsense.
Re: Safe Online Relationships by itsIYKE(m): 4:38pm On Oct 22, 2015
Diddyydiva:
And what make you think you have what it takes for me to stalk you undecided. I Comment on threads randomly, so stop feeling fly boy. you aren't worth me stalking undecided
you didn't make any sense there..but I hope it means you won't qoute me again anywhere....biko ma
Re: Safe Online Relationships by itsIYKE(m): 4:41pm On Oct 22, 2015
Diddyydiva:
This is what you get when you are friendly with nl boys undecided . Arrant nonsense.
lol....mis friendly...please make this moniker scarce from now on.....you are not a bit friendly by the way
Re: Safe Online Relationships by Nobody: 4:43pm On Oct 22, 2015
itsIYKE:
lol....mis friendly...please make this moniker scarce from now on.....you are not a bit friendly by the way
Just fvck off undecided
Re: Safe Online Relationships by itsIYKE(m): 4:45pm On Oct 22, 2015
Diddyydiva:
Just fvck off undecided
I cast any marine spirit programmed into you any follow follow spirit has been caste into the pit of abyss...you are now free ijn!!

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hmmmm / The Impostor With The Moniker ''nobody'' / Romeo And Juliet. VS Modern Day Guys.

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