Ok I want to ask something on here, cos this has really been bothering me.
My ex girlfriend cheated. And decided to keep me and some other guy. Along the line, the guy called me to find out that me and the girl are still together. Now she broke up with me and went ahead to continue with the guy.
I did so many things for her, did her school admissions things for her, buy her phones take her out for shopping do a lot of things for her that even made my sisters angry with me but thank God they understood and forgave me.
The story is so long as this girl continues for several years,just to please this guy she even blocked me on whatsapp,facebook and several other social networking sites.
I cried everyday and I was always calling the mother to narrate everything and beg to help talk to her, she told her mother not to mind me,just to please the guy she travelled for 3 weeks to this guy's village... while I was here working out things for her.
Following everything, I decided to forget everything I have done for her. And move on with my life. I gave her space for sometime and I got to hear that she broke up with that guy on her birthday. And that the girl doesn't take her seriously again.
The space continued. Now guess what she did? She started to add me back again, she added me back to one of her Facebook addresses she doesn't really use. I pretended I didn't see it. I over looked it,following several weeks after the prolonged silence from my side, she decided to add me back with her main Facebook. I still stood my grounds like I didn't see it. So she went to the extent of clicking like to everything I write online. I just pretended I didn't see it.
Question is, she said I should get out of her life,i agreed and left and since mid august I haven't called her. But why is she adding me back to all her Facebook addresses and using different ID 's to talk to me on Facebook. Please fellaz,i need help and advices here.

you can hang in there until her guy comes back or she gets a new one.

Why do you even care why? Block her and get her out of your sight or she will use you again. Don't be a mumu. Sorry for being so blunt but I really think you need it.

Hehehehe

tpiah11:
you can hang in there until her guy comes back or she gets a new one.

Your advise is as useless as you. I see it that you don't read simple English. Look at your reply and look at the thing I wrote. They are 2 different things.

Mindfulness:
Why do you even care why? Block her and get her out of your sight or she will use you again. Don't be a mumu. Sorry for being so blunt but I really think you need it.

Yes I don't have her in sight again. I don't talk to her as I write to you. I said I haven't talked to her for 2 months now.

My dear, that girl is emotionally instable and it's not good at all in a rlship. ...ignore her likes and rest just as you have been doing... gosh!! Was she expecting to eat her cake and have it Trust me, if you fall for her again, she will still leave you when the other guy come around or when she sees another guy she love.... good luck

gimakon:


Yes I don't have her in sight again. I don't talk to her as I write to you. I said I haven't talked to her for 2 months now.

Remove her from your Facebook list, whatsapp and whatever other social networks you are active on and NEVER EVER place more importance on anyone than yourself.

gimakon:


Your advise is as useless as you. I see it that you don't read simple English. Look at your reply and look at the thing I wrote. They are 2 different things.

She actually made a lot of sense this time around.

pet4ril:
My dear, that girl is emotionally instable and it's not good at all in a rlship. ...ignore her likes and rest just as you have been doing... gosh!! Was she expecting to eat her cake and have it Trust me, if you fall for her again, she will still leave you when the other guy come around or when she sees another guy she love.... good luck

She is actually very stable in her selfishness. And yes, she was expecting to eat her cake and have it. She was a perfect match for him - she put her needs FIRST and he agreed to it. I am afraid he will do it again.

You should really face your front! Move on...

gimakon:

my post is as useless as me. I see it that I don't read simple English. Look at my reply and look at the thing I wrote. They are 2 different things.

ok, sorry for posting on your miserable thread, continue in your misery.

tpiah11:


ok, sorry for posting on your miserable thread, continue in your misery.

How Stupyd you are. Like you haven't ever been in a predicament before. I pray that things even worse than this would come to you one day. Every one on here is giving me advices one way or the very other. Your own is to come here to contribute rubbish to people. Shows you have never contributed any useful thing in the lives of people who even have you as their friend, I pity them, because friends like you,are the ones who can backstab them later because of issues like money,woman or the lot. No reasonable advice has ever come from you,take time to waste mb only to make predicament of people a laughing matter, may God use your own problems as laughing matter to people as you are this senseless,and looking for people to make fun of,you will not only be made fun of,they will make a laughing stalk out of you. As you like Evil,it won't ever depart from your eyes,so will your problems. slowpoke.

Mindfulness:


She is actually very stable in her selfishness. And yes, she was expecting to eat her cake and have it. She was a perfect match for him - she put her needs FIRST and he agreed to it. I am afraid he will do it again.

Read and follow and understand. This girl I do not talk to her again. We bade ourselves bye bye. She is the one coming after me now,adding me back everywhere. I deleted her number and everything she started the adding by herself again,and she comes at me with several Id's some of which I block and never talk to her with. It really gave me a tough time thinking that I had to come on here to post what's heavy in my chest, that made that dog to start commenting rubbish,looking for people to make fun of and jeer at who calls his hopeless self tpiah11. You have good command of English, you really should read VERY WELL. I didnt talk sex here, I only stated some issue I had some years back and what I took as action and what's happening now, so if you giving advices you now know where to give advice. Thank you

Buddy...dnt show her ur brake light..even if you accept her..she'll use you as an alternative

you love her..she likes you..she'll still leave you for the 1 she loves



#cheers

gimakon:


How Stupyd you are. Like you haven't ever been in a predicament before. I pray that things even worse than this would come to you one day. Every one on here is giving me advices one way or the very other. Your own is to come here to contribute rubbish to people. Shows you have never contributed any useful thing in the lives of people who even have you as their friend, I pity them, because friends like you,are the ones who can backstab them later because of issues like money,woman or the lot. No reasonable advice has ever come from you,take time to waste mb only to make predicament of people a laughing matter, may God use your own problems as laughing matter to people as you are this senseless,and looking for people to make fun of,you will not only be made fun of,they will make a laughing stalk out of you. As you like Evil,it won't ever depart from your eyes,so will your problems. slowpoke.

Son,you are way out of board with your typo bursts. chill already!Everyone is entitled to his/her typinion. Pick the ones you want and leave the ones you don't want to.Life is easy.

gimakon:


Read and follow and understand. This girl I do not talk to her again. We bade ourselves bye bye. She is the one coming after me now,adding me back everywhere. I deleted her number and everything she started the adding by herself again,and she comes at me with several Id's some of which I block and never talk to her with. It really gave me a tough time thinking that I had to come on here to post what's heavy in my chest, that made that dog to start commenting rubbish,looking for people to make fun of and jeer at who calls his hopeless self tpiah11. You have good command of English, you really should read VERY WELL. I didnt talk sex here, I only stated some issue I had some years back and what I took as action and what's happening now, so if you giving advices you now know where to give advice. Thank you

Ok, keep avoiding her. She does all of this because she thinks she can and because she misses all the gifts you showered on her.