Pls don't mind my English let me hit the nail on the head...
There was this new Pastor that was transfered to my church, So the church has an official car for the Pastor but unfortunately the pastor cannot Drive. So In need of driver tutor, the outgoing Pastor recommended me to him because I use to drive the church bus... ##fast forward ## Gradually I became so close to the Pastor's Daughter during the driving learning stuff... whose name was Patricia.. Patricia is a beautiful damsel, fair, tall and a senior teenager 19 yrs old to be precise.. Sry 4got to introduce ma self.... Am a 25 year old Graduate of Mechanical Eng'g and currently working with one of the biggest Manufacturing firm in the country. I have been monitoring the gal until March this year when I secured my current job and about to relocate that I opened my mouth to express to her how I felt about her and she responded positively, so we started dating.. just last month I bought her an expensive phone and for her sister also... her problem is this : If I dint call her, she hardly calls or text me. She's not as exposed and lively as I want (trust orthodox pastors daughters), when ever i said "i luv u" she will respond with either thank u or ehemmm...She never tells me she luvs me on phone wen I call ,only when chatting or wen the spirit leads her to text me...pls does she truly luvs me?? or is it DAT she's still young and need time ..pls wat do I do??

Brb!!

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@ ladiesmirror

Lmao @her saying thank you or Ehemmm when you tell her you love her.
Wikid!!!
Personally, I use such lines when I don't dig the person saying it, that doesn't mean she's not into you sha...

Yeah!! Just like you said she's not that exposed so cut her some slack, you knew about this before you started dating her, why the complains?
Take a chill pill, she'd be more outspoken with time.


But be careful sha, we teenagers still have this hormone raging moments so she might come up with some ridiculous childish acts
You should be able to deal with those cos that's what you signed in for..

And lastly, be sure your intentions for her are pure. If not, the thunder wey go fire you still dey do press up

Oga, you are wasting your time. You don't need a pastor to tell you she's not into u. Its more like you're forcing yourself on her. Keep chopping her kpomo for the main time while find your future wife somewhere else. By the way, never EVER tell a girl "I love you" first, never!

Christian love.

HawksDude:
Oga, you are wasting your time. Keep chopping her kpomi and find your future wife somewhere else.

I don't think he's chopping ohh...
Op are u chopping kpomo

Take ur finger n start sucking...... Mumu zero!

Wow.....an elder is confused on teenage pros.......d guys below.....would b of assistance

N u r still bearing ladiesmirror?

HawksDude:
Oga, you are wasting your time. Keep chopping her kpomo for the main while find your future wife somewhere else. You don't need a pastor to tell you she's not into u. Its more like you're forcing yourself on her. By the way, never EVER tell a girl "I love you" first, never!

On point rule in relationship kick off.....Never tell a gal I LOVE U.....Never

U say u love her and says ehmmmmm,yet she and her sis collected d expensive fone u bought for them......perhaps she thinks u are paying ur tithe through the favour u do for her...mtchewwwwwuuuuuu

Grinch:
Take ur finger n start sucking...... Mumu zero!

ah Bros... why the insult

jworos:
I don't think he's chopping ohh... Op are u chopping kpomo

never even held her hands

If ur story is true, the girl is "omo get inside" she is nt exposed like the normal street girls.

With dat kind of behaviour, there is a high propensity dat she is a virgin. It's like she hs nvr dated any guy, u r her 1st luv. M sure she still calls u UNCLE. By the time u gv her the phallus, she will call u by ur name.

Be patient with her, as time goes on, she will get used to u.

Sha dn't use and dump her. From all indications, she is highly innocent atm.
If u cannot marry her, dn't fvck her.

jworos:
I don't think he's chopping ohh...
Op are u chopping kpomo

If op is not chopping kpomo and he spending and going on a phone buying spree, I think he should change his name to ''scammer'smirror''

Oboi if you think say you get strong head...oya go HEAD-BUTT dangote cement!

Op you must be a virgin oo?? 25yrs to 19! Mehn tell d pastor 2 pray 4 her so she can love u naaa

You need to exercis patiences with her, and also try to educate her by introducing her to some matured romantic novel to help build her up. But if she give u the Toto make sure say u knack am well.

Hahahahahahahahah @ the biggest manufacturing company..

Nah today I just know say that Mosquito coil company at Ojodu Berger nah the biggest manufacturing company.

Abeg OP when una introduce Otapiapia to the mighty company I go like submit my CV..


U work in a mighty company yet chase mute galz..

sweetboiy:
Oboi if you think say you get strong head...oya go HEAD-BUTT dangote cement!

meaning

ladiesmirror:



meaning

sorry, wrong thread

menix:
Hahahahahahahahah @ the biggest manufacturing company..

Nah today I just know say that Mosquito coil company at Ojodu Berger nah the biggest manufacturing company.

Abeg OP when una introduce Otapiapia to the mighty company I go like submit my CV..


U work in a mighty company yet chase mute galz..

pls read the post again.....One of the Biggest.....

sweetboiy:
sorry, wrong thread

meaning?

ladiesmirror:


meaning?

Uche face your work ooo..

sweetboiy:
Uche face your work ooo..

Amadi... I won't face my work.....

Use your tongue to count your teeth. You'll know if she loves you. You'll know what to do.

^^ wicked comments!!!

1: the girl is just 19
2: she's just getting to know love
3: you don't expect her to be all romantic and loving because she's a pastors daughter and she's living a Godly and religious life as her bible preached.
4: OP go find your mate

you started dating without informing her parents?

Luckygurl:


Brb!!

#modified
@ ladiesmirror

Lmao @her saying thank you or Ehemmm when you tell her you love her.
Wikid!!!
Personally, I use such lines when I don't dig the person saying it, that doesn't mean she's not into you sha...

Yeah!! Just like you said she's not that exposed so cut her some slack, you knew about this before you started dating her, why the complains?
Take a chill pill, she'd be more outspoken with time.


But be careful sha, we teenagers still have this hormone raging moments so she might come up with some ridiculous childish acts
You should be able to deal with those cos that's what you signed in for..

And lastly, be sure your intentions for her are pure. If not, the thunder wey go fire you still dey do press up

So na girls like u use my heart tk play ludo that year abi.....
Anyways my advice for op
Just try buski the gal forget love just buski so that u no go regret anything

Leave the young chap alone; she is still very Young, Naive, and ignorant on romance issues; I don't think it's about her age here; its rather her exposure (cus there are 19yr Olds well exposed).. I'll guess she's not in school or about to get admitted... Unless u wanna gamble it n wait for her; but personally I donot think it's worth it.
(Most likely her idea is; once she gets close to a man, she'll get pregnant).

I know these, cus I was in a similar situation.

Believe me bro; its not worth it @ all; just let her pass

ladiesmirror:



ah Bros... why the insult

Am showing u brotherly love man.....cos u are belittling ur self.... Get ur monkey ass out there n b a man! Peace.

mumu don buy am phone