Guys, I need some advice from my gud people here.
There is this girl I want to be wit so dearly because I know I love her, but the situation then was that she was already in a very serious relationship with her Ex then, I tried everything possible to express my love and Gud intention to her but it was just like fetching water in to a basket so I didn't give up but was patient.. Fast forward they broke up and after so many trouble she say Yes to me but ever since we av bn together Her Ex calls everyday more than once, saying He just want to check on her and other stuffs, She too sometimes use their pic mixed picture as wall paper and every time I object to dis things she will say don't worry, don't u trust me. Am getting frustrated.
Could it be that they still love each other?
Are they both playing me or they can't just get over each other?

wordbank:
Wait until dem use u open branch office

chai

I don't know about you, but all I know is that I do call my ex whenever I fell like having It

You're a rebound. Know your place. Never knowingly get involved with someone that just left a relationship if you expect to be taken seriously. She has not even taken time off to process everything that went down with her ex but jumped straight onto your lap. That's a red flag. She could be using you as a band aid or just to get the other dude jealous, for reasons known to her. Either way, you're still a tool.

You'll soon be dumped. Trust me

I just posted something similar.....by and large they r still in love. Take my word for it......they can't get over themselves,it happens

So be wise. Don't send her away....just love her from a distance. As in don't put all ur mind to it.....u may just be a pond in there chess game.

PunkyVeer:
You're a rebound. Know your place. Never knowingly get involved with someone that just left a relationship if you expect to be taken seriously. She has not even taken time off to process everything that went down with her ex but jumped straight onto your lap. That's a red flag. She could be using you as a band aid or just to get the other dude jealous, for reasons known to her. Either way, you're still a tool.

U mean it!!! she didn't just left d relationship its more than eight month now... But what am I suppose to do

She's only using you to fill up the space of a boyfriend for now. Trust me, she's still in love with her ex and the sooner you realize that, the better for you. What to do? "send her back to were she belongs and get over her, if not , you'll still be the side dude always.

9ousky:

U mean it!!! she didn't just left d relationship its more than eight month now... But what am I suppose to do

Ok cool. Tell me, how long after the break up, did you two hookup?

To me it sounds like she still has the hots for the other guy. Sorry to break it to you. I wouldn't be surprised if they reconcile soon & leave you gobsmacked.

She too sometimes use their pic mixed picture as wall paper and every time I object to dis things she will say don't worry, don't u trust me

[/quote]She too sometimes use their pic mixed picture as wall paper [quote]

Dude, you know she still loves her ex. Quit living in denial, would you?

I suggest u giv ha a little break. Let her senses reboot. If she wants u, she'll com bck. If not she fly to her ex immediately

Normal shiiit with ex's....
Always trying to destroy the relationship, acting like they are just caring....


When my babe and I tracked...!

Ex use to call like die...at first I "melod"

After it became serious I just cleard her str8...
"Showty, do something about these fucccking calls else"


She had to clear the ex ..

We need to keep off ouir ex's when we are in a new "package". For things to be well....




But sincerely, if you mami doesn't love her ex. She would not pixmix dia pictures and still use it as wallpaper....


You my friend is in deep soup...

That is why I always tell my niggassss...
1. Don't ever make a girl breakup with her gee for you.

2. Never rush into a lady that just broke up..(Except you just want her for fuckinggg)

Not that I rushed to her... she clearly stated they broke some month before I came and she didn't say Yes immediately it took almost like 3 to 4 month.

He wants to fvck her pvssy once more, u know old wine tastes good

Love doctor. I may be needing some counselling from you. When can I have an appointment with you Miss?

PunkyVeer:


Ok cool. Tell me, how long after the break up, did you two hookup?

To me it sounds like she still has the hots for the other guy. Sorry to break it to you. I wouldn't be surprised if they reconcile soon & leave you gobsmacked.

Candyrain:
Love doctor. I may be needing some counselling from you. When can I have an appointment with you Miss?

Lol, please don't call me that. You know I'm always here to lend an ear to you any time

9ousky:
Guys, I need some advice from my gud people here.
There is this girl I want to be wit so dearly because I know I love her, but the situation then was that she was already in a very serious relationship with her Ex then, I tried everything possible to express my love and Gud intention to her but it was just like fetching water in to a basket so I didn't give up but was patient.. Fast forward they broke up and after so many trouble she say Yes to me but ever since we av bn together Her Ex calls everyday more than once, saying He just want to check on her and other stuffs, She too sometimes use their pic mixed picture as wall paper and every time I object to dis things she will say don't worry, don't u trust me. Am getting frustrated.
Could it be that they still love each other?
Are they both playing me or they can't just get over each other?

is she a serving corps member?

luchy34:
is she a serving corps member?

lmao, u wont understand y i laughed at ur question. NYSC has destroyed many relationship, typing 4rm experience

PunkyVeer:


Lol, please don't call me that. You know I'm always here to lend an ear to you any time

Lovedoctor
Another smack upside the head coming
Wait for it..........

BUTCHCASSIDY:


Lovedoctor
Another smack upside the head coming
Wait for it..........

..you giving ha a hug and she is kissing ha ex,wu z obviously behind you..got it?

You no get ex start calling her too. This one of the reason I am an advocate of having more than one partner, if that is the case you will not be here to open this thread

godoluwa:
lmao, u wont understand y i laughed at ur question. NYSC has destroyed many relationship, typing 4rm experience

Bro... Lemme not be a harbinger but they still have an emotion connect...
See when anyone has a break up they should be total disconnect from each other or else instances like this are bound to occur... She will keep telling you to trust her till she won't know when they will start seeing secretly ... So bro if she truly loves you tell her disconnect since the boy broke up they can still come back...if she refuses ask her what she is still doing with him make her see reasons I can't type too much