Guys pls be fair to yourself, you are unemployed,barely have money to buy recharge cards/data most of your calls are free calls in the middle of the night or the recently mtn free calls.And perhaps with that she accepted you although you cannot buy her shoes,nakelace, or recharge her phone,if she ask you recharge card,its either 100 or 200 that you will send her.....if you are like that or close to that pls save yourself dont complain if she cheats on you.

Am not saying that she did the right thing,but she couldnt resist it.

its there live

Before I answer your question let me ask you an honest question Is the guy her father and meant to start buying all those petty things you mentioned?.
Yes,it is good to buy fancy things and suprise 1ce gf once in a while but when the money is not dhr and thngs are hard do you expect the guy to steal?or because others are buying it so the guy too has to go into ritual making to buy those petty things for her?. Let me tell you the fervent truth we are all born broke and unemployed but 1 thng I knw 4 sure it is jst a mata of tym, besides being unemployed does not mean 1 is diseased. So,if any lady should cheat on her guy because he is broke/unemployed she should also have it at the back of her mind that she is not fit to get married to guy and can never stand trying tyms.But wait o o, what if the so called rich guy she is using as a spare tyre should also become unemployed/broke will she also cheat on that one too and start luking 4 any rich dude. Anyway rlshp is not about a guy doing all the spending and d lady doing all the eating but both party working together to achieve sumthng meaningful tomorrow.
Being broke/unemployed is just 4 a while what matters is the future

When we have no or less cash...the places we go r limited...like u rightly said...gals r likely to cheat cus we cnt foot their basic bills...bt then d table turns...we hammer, we go places, c more ladies with killer shapes...and of course, we have d cash...dnt blame we guys too...cus we will cheat...

everyone is trying to have some fun....

Is the sole reason of being in a relationship for financial gain? What is wrong with us? There are times I get ashamed of being a woman and this is definitely one of them.

Hannysmilez:
Is the sole reason of being in a relationship for financial gain? What is wrong with us? There are times I get ashamed of being a woman and this is definitely one of them.

lol me yayi zapi haka

Fulaboy:
lol me yayi zapi haka

Walahi,mutanin nan na bata min rai. Kamar ba su da wayo

Y not if not yes? Som ladies once a guy ask dem out, I don even understand hw dey tink. Buh dey kinnda take it dat d guy is adopting em or somtin. Am not against charity gifts ooh. Buh it shuldnt become a birthright or somtin

Hannysmilez:
Walahi,mutanin nan na bata min rai. Kamar ba su da wayo

Thats is nairaland to you! just laugh it off and leave

Any lady that priorities money over commitment is only misplacing her priority. Money in a relationship is very important. As long as the guy is serious and dedicated to making life better why not stick with him. I had nothing when my agreed to marry me. Since the birth of our son, it's been very good for us in every way.

Hannysmilez:
Is the sole reason of being in a relationship for financial gain? What is wrong with us? There are times I get ashamed of being a woman and this is definitely one of them.

Are you saying that you never accept gift from a guy?

the most important thing I need from a guy is happiness not money.

kstadaura:

Are you saying that you never accept gift from a guy?

I'm saying that his gifts do not decide if I'm staying in the relationship or not

janengozi:
the most important thing I need from a guy is happiness not money.

How can you get the happiness without money? am not saying that money is happiness but if you have money you have 50% of happiness....

Hannysmilez:
I'm saying that his gifts do not decide if I'm staying in the relationship or not

you should have said only his gift dont decide if u are staying in the relationship.......suppose you stay with him for more than six month or more than a year and you havent benefited from him financially,pls tell me what you would have done..