osedvgirl:
because they want to kpiansiiiii


i dey joke o

PapiDShipCapt:

ur signature tho, but u no spoil reach me

osedvgirl:

if only you know

ladyF:
I really don't know too. Maybe the fear of being alone? Love? Ayam yet to find out. Single life is so good, no responsibilities, I don't know why people are rushing.

lol the poster below me sha. ... u don't need marriage to kpiansh na

PapiDShipCapt:

tell me the least

osedvgirl:

rolling

PapiDShipCapt:

and the most

ladyF:
I really don't know too. Maybe the fear of being alone? Love? Ayam yet to find out. Single life is so good, no responsibilities, I don't know why people are rushing.

lol the poster below me sha. ... u don't need marriage to kpiansh na

rev14vs11:
As i voyage this fleeting world on the sweet chariot of celebacy,i sometimes ask out of curiosity,"why exactly do people get married?".i aways hear different reasons but i'm not satisfied.what's your take
mods pls leave this thread in religion section.

emrain:
Marriage is for women.... Gotta carry them along.

tyuhd:

Men and Women will always give reasons for walking the aisle.We hear reasons like,"We're in love","My parents demand I produce a spouse","I'm clocking 35", "I need a child","I just need a companion,whom i can always confide in" Etc But We always discover Most Men and Women never honestly admit the truth--that the Main or chief reason for getting married is to satisfy sexual needs.simple!
I was talking to a Young Lady recently and I Pretended I was a bit curious wanting to know more--Something I already know,"What was your main reasons for marrying him?" I asked.and all she said was,"I'm in love with Him".well, I wasn't comfortable with her reply so I pressed further,"Yes! I know you're in love.but is that the Main reason for getting married?".I was trying to get her admit truth and again all she said was,"Don't bother me! I've already told you,we're in love".
These are the kinds of excuses people raise whenever we ask question that talks about their Spiritual Pedigree..We'll all agree--Marriage is the most rigid and restricted union created by God Almighty and Man by nature being narcissistic and self centered will always whimp out;if there isn't a solid anvil that drives home the nails.Have you ever asked yourself some question like,"Why will a Young Man spend a lifetime savings for a wedding event? Willingly take the responsibility of say four,five or even six people?".I can hear one NL'der saying,"Yes of course! He loves his Bride".Will you stop kidding me! and again has it occured to you,"Will a Young woman willingly change surname for husband's.get pregnant for Him,with all the discomfort and inconvenience that daily meets her as a wife among many other challenges such as "Submission to Husband's authority" etc.
You see @op Man by nature isn't that nice and self denying.He always looks out for his interest first.He never takes any course of action without first asking,"Will this profit me?and in what way?" and obviously a union as restrictive as marriage only tells you the obvious.We hear different reasons people get married but they're all SECONDARY REASONS.Age,societal pressure,love among many others isn't enough reasons people get married.Men and Women will always give excuses to getting Married.but the root cause which Many,If not all,are unwilling to admit is--To enjoy Sexual relations within the confines of God's ordained means--Marriage.Simple!
But @op I envy you sha.May the Lord keep you serving Him to the end even while denying self looking forward to that glorious day of recompense
LIFE WITHOUT SEX IS ACTUALLY SWEETER THAN YOU THINK.JUST TRUST GOD!

Summary:God uses Sex to bring selfish Man to the institution of Marriage and not some flimsy reasons people garner here and there.God is indeed great!

rev14vs11:
As i voyage this fleeting world on the sweet chariot of celebacy,i sometimes ask out of curiosity,"why exactly do people get married?".i aways hear different reasons but i'm not satisfied.what's your take
mods pls leave this thread in religion section.

tyuhd:

Men and Women will always give reasons for walking the aisle.We hear reasons like,"We're in love","My parents demand I produce a spouse","I'm clocking 35", "I need a child","I just need a companion,whom i can always confide in" Etc But We always discover Most Men and Women never honestly admit the truth--that the Main or chief reason for getting married is to satisfy sexual needs.simple!
I was talking to a Young Lady recently and I Pretended I was a bit curious wanting to know more--Something I already know,"What was your main reasons for marrying him?" I asked.and all she said was,"I'm in love with Him".well, I wasn't comfortable with her reply so I pressed further,"Yes! I know you're in love.but is that the Main reason for getting married?".I was trying to get her admit truth and again all she said was,"Don't bother me! I've already told you,we're in love".
These are the kinds of excuses people raise whenever we ask question that talks about their Spiritual Pedigree..We'll all agree--Marriage is the most rigid and restricted union created by God Almighty and Man by nature being narcissistic and self centered will always whimp out;if there isn't a solid anvil that drives home the nails.Have you ever asked yourself some question like,"Why will a Young Man spend a lifetime savings for a wedding event? Willingly take the responsibility of say four,five or even six people?".I can hear one NL'der saying,"Yes of course! He loves his Bride".Will you stop kidding me! and again has it occured to you,"Will a Young woman willingly change surname for husband's.get pregnant for Him,with all the discomfort and inconvenience that daily meets her as a wife among many other challenges such as "Submission to Husband's authority" etc.
You see @op Man by nature isn't that nice and self denying.He always looks out for his interest first.He never takes any course of action without first asking,"Will this profit me?and in what way?" and obviously a union as restrictive as marriage only tells you the obvious.We hear different reasons people get married but they're all SECONDARY REASONS.Age,societal pressure,love among many others isn't enough reasons people get married.Men and Women will always give excuses to getting Married.but the root cause which Many,If not all,are unwilling to admit is--To enjoy Sexual relations within the confines of God's ordained means--Marriage.Simple!
But @op I envy you sha.May the Lord keep you serving Him to the end even while denying self looking forward to that glorious day of recompense
LIFE WITHOUT SEX IS ACTUALLY SWEETER THAN YOU THINK.JUST TRUST GOD!

Summary:God uses Sex to bring selfish Man to the institution of Marriage and not some flimsy reasons people garner here and there.God is indeed great!

rev14vs11:

Brilliant piece!God keep us from the snare of sexual urge

vooks:


What is celebacy?

rev14vs11:

Says who?Though women were created for men see 1COR 11:9.Nevertheless,marriage was made for both.

rev14vs11:

Strictly speaking,I mean,in a christain context,celebacy is the a pious act,where a christain forsakes certain pleasure chiefly sex to serve and worship Christ Jesus with as few distraction as possible

emrain:


Men were created for who? And who made marriage for who? Is that person married?

vooks:


It is CELIBACY

How would you exercise piety if somebody had been celibate?

tyuhd:

LIFE WITHOUT SEX IS ACTUALLY SWEETER THAN YOU THINK.JUST TRUST GOD!

rev14vs11:

@emrain from your objection you're tending towards agnostism or atheism.I don't have to quote the NT to support what I've written.it will suffice to read Gen 1 and 2 where God almighty told adam,"I'll make a helper..." to know Women were made for Men.
God created Man for his own glory as He (Man) reflects the express image of God Eze 1,1Cor 11:7 While the woman was created for the man.She finds her joy and satisfacton as she submit to Him.as to your question,"is that person married" pardon me! But these is blasphemy.do u really believe in God.

BobUg28:
People get married for different reasons but I think the major reason why we do that is to fulfil the societal obligation, born children and get a help mate.

rev14vs11:

It may seem people get married for different reason but ultimately it certainly boils down to sexual relations.

Men and Women will always give reasons for walking the aisle.We hear reasons like,"We're in love","My parents demand I produce a spouse","I'm clocking 35", "I need a child","I just need a companion,whom i can always confide in" Etc But We always discover Most Men and Women never honestly admit the truth--that the Main or chief reason for getting married is to satisfy sexual needs.simple!
I was talking to a Young Lady recently and I Pretended I was a bit curious wanting to know more--Something I already know,"What was your main reasons for marrying him?" I asked.and all she said was,"I'm in love with Him".well, I wasn't comfortable with her reply so I pressed further,"Yes! I know you're in love.but is that the Main reason for getting married?".I was trying to get her admit truth and again all she said was,"Don't bother me! I've already told you,we're in love".
These are the kinds of excuses people raise whenever we ask question that talks about their Spiritual Pedigree..We'll all agree--Marriage is the most rigid and restricted union created by God Almighty and Man by nature being narcissistic and self centered will always whimp out;if there isn't a solid anvil that drives home the nails.Have you ever asked yourself some question like,"Why will a Young Man spend a lifetime savings for a wedding event? Willingly take the responsibility of say four,five or even six people?".I can hear one NL'der saying,"Yes of course! He loves his Bride".Will you stop kidding me! and again has it occured to you,"Will a Young woman willingly change surname for husband's.get pregnant for Him,with all the discomfort and inconvenience that daily meets her as a wife among many other challenges such as "Submission to Husband's authority" etc.
You see @op Man by nature isn't that nice and self denying.He always looks out for his interest first.He never takes any course of action without first asking,"Will this profit me?and in what way?" and obviously a union as restrictive as marriage only tells you the obvious.We hear different reasons people get married but they're all SECONDARY REASONS.Age,societal pressure,love among many others isn't enough reasons people get married.Men and Women will always give excuses to getting Married.but the root cause which Many,If not all,are unwilling to admit is--To enjoy Sexual relations within the confines of God's ordained means--Marriage.Simple!
But @op I envy you sha.May the Lord keep you serving Him to the end even while denying self looking forward to that glorious day of recompense
LIFE WITHOUT SEX IS ACTUALLY SWEETER THAN YOU THINK.JUST TRUST GOD!

Summary:God uses Sex to bring selfish Man to the institution of Marriage and not some flimsy reasons people garner here and there.God is indeed great!