I am seeking opinion on what makes a girl feel loved and cared for? I believe that there are so many ways to make a girl feel loved.

Yeah,u can show her Love on daily bases, Can u do something like this! Call her and asked her if she has eaten as at the time u called if yes what type of meal and hope she got fed well, Later in the day text her and ask her to take her bath and sleep, Never 4get about texting very early in the morning to say gud morning and late at night to say sweet dreams, Give her surprise visit with a take-away Lunch parkage and drive off immediately u gave it to her, Call her line and the next thing she hears is I Love You! and u hung off do it as much as five times make sure she hears you say that, Always ask her the situation of things around her, Mind you money is not everything though it keeps a relationship going so you give her some money for her make up,
Will get back to you more on this,

Word of advice, Do things naturally, dont go outta your way to impress her and make her feel loved and cared for if u dont wanna spoil things. Bottomline is she will either value the lil things u do or she'll leave u when another person comes along

@Rawlings, all the things you said in your reply, I have done. As a matter of fact I do more than that, but the thing is that I feel its about competition, trying to equal her friends. So whatever I do, she nags and that makes me feel as if its all about who will be more classy. By the way, she works too and earns more than me. So this keeps me into a state of dilemma what actually I am I doing wrong. Thats why I sent this post to see other guys or females opinion.

maybe there is something rong u have to check it off

Could be that you're not compatible, the relationship's not working. Quit!