Am married, she is married, she is my cousin.
Any time i visit them, she wants me to kiss her.
Deep kissing i mean. i did it once just to please her but she wants more.
I am very disappointed with myself. Now its a secret i must keep or do i tell my wifey?
She calls me everyday. Now i dont pick her calls.

Say what? No! Either you put an end to it, or put up with it. Telling your woman will probably shatter her. Remember, what she do not know sometimes wont hurt.

Let's face it, you wanted to kiss her too. If not, you wouldn't have allowed it in the first place. Just put an end to it, or go all the way!

By the way, in some cultures, cousins are allowed to date lol.

Gadols:

Am married, she is married, she is my cousin.
Any time i visit them, she wants me to kiss her.
Deep kissing i mean. i did it once just to please her but she wants more.
I am very disappointed with myself. Now its a secret i must keep or do i tell my wifey?
She calls me everyday. Now i dont pick her calls.

Like you said She's your cousin --- do you think it's right Go figure!!
u better sello-tape ya mouth and stay away from her before she puts u into some REAL DEEP TROUBLE
A word is enough for da wise.

^^ Cousins are allowed to date in some cultures. I believe first cousins are allowed to marry in India.

ElRazur:

^^ Cousins are allowed to date in some cultures. I believe first cousins are allowed to marry in India.

Ummm , ok, i'm nigerian and not indian -- Biblically, as far as i know, it aint right, and i thank God there isnt such in my culture.

You should have never started what you could not finish.

Oh well, as dae said, go and cello tape your mout'.

To be quite frank, i never wanted to do it.
She sends me romantic texts that are embarrasing to me.
This lady has 4 kids o. I just dont feel anything for her.
Not anything relating to romance to say the least.
She held me one day while i went visiting. b4 i knew it she planted a kiss
on my lips, then she rushed me, her tongue already in my mouth. We kissed for like 10 sec.
I felt so bad it happened but my cousin just dont care. Can u imagine my cousin telling me
she has to hear my voice b4 she sleeps? sometimes i wonder why things like this happen.
i wonder how many go through issues like this.

"Leviticus 18 lists the forbidden relationships and cousins are not forbidden nor is cousin marriage forbidden anywhere else in the Bible"

Got this quote of a christian website , not standing by it though, I believe the cousin thing is more based on modern morals and the belief that it can lead to birth defects.

That said

Poster- stay away from your cousin avoid her like the plague if she can not control herself , she is on the path to destruction, you dont have to join her on it . Go and sin no more

Gadols:

To be quite frank, i never wanted to do it.
She sends me romantic texts that are embarrasing to me.
This lady has 4 kids o. I just dont feel anything for her.
Not anything relating to romance to say the least.
She held me one day while i went visiting. b4 i knew it she planted a kiss
on my lips, then she rushed me, her tongue already in my mouth. We kissed for like 10 sec.
I felt so bad it happened but my cousin just dont care. Can u imagine my cousin telling me
she has to hear my voice b4 she sleeps? sometimes i wonder why things like this happen.
i wonder how many go through issues like this.

Of course u cant feel anything for her -- were you hoping you'll feel something for her, even if you did, would u be doing "it" with her? c'mmon that aint right - besides, you both have your own families, if a grown azz woman like that is too retarded to realize that she is putting her family at risk - you should be the one to initiate the reality check, anyways, my own kobo that i have for u is to stay away from her as much as u can oh, if not -- the ending might not be palatable oh! ehen.

Big brozz try and finish this mission possible ,kissing her once implies u can do better.just be very careful

@ tigbenga
am with you

the poster can do more

Looks like many of us are in this type of condition.
How worrisome love can be.

hmmmm really?
9ja men.

tjgbenga:

Big brozz try and finish this mission possible ,kissing her once implies u can do better.just be very careful

dani1luv:

@ OP
Dont try to say NO. . . Or you are Dead Shit. .You said EarLier that shes your couSiN. . cousiN

How did you guys got to that extent

Just continue with the cheat, . (as far as there is no sexual intercourse)

To tell you the fact OP . . . 85% of Nigerian men Cheat.

oluwafemi113:

@ tigbenga
am with you

the poster can do more

am appalled by the kind of advice given to the poster by these clowns
@dani1luv: where did u get ur stupid stats from?
if u clowns have nothing to say, my advice is
lets be serious here

@op
she's your cousin & thats incest
ur married & should be faithfull to your wife cos am sure u wont want her to do same

Na woah oh. wonders shall never end

She set me up last sunday.feighning sickness. got there only to find out she was hale and hearty. I am really surprised by the extent of her love for me. I dont even feel it. We even look alike in the first place. whats d meaning of this? Do i just cut off completely from her? She was on her knees begging for my love. Her husband is not in town. He is a Dr doing a course in Lagos.
Am really scared.

You started it so finnish it.

Gadols:

She set me up last sunday.feighning sickness. got there only to find out she was hale and hearty. I am really surprised by the extent of her love for me. I dont even feel it. We even look alike in the first place. whats d meaning of this? Do i just cut off completely from her? She was on her knees begging for my love. Her husband is not in town. He is a Dr doing a course in Lagos.
Am really scared.

Am sorry but I have to ask. . .

[size=15pt]ARE YOU INSANE[/size]

Your so called cousin is seeking your permission ['on her knees begin for my love'] to destroy the lives of no less than four people - yours, hers and your spouses. . .and of course your children, and you are wondering [/i]if you should just 'cut off completely' [i]_{no, cut off partially, yeye}

You said you don't luv her, so what the F**K is stopping you from giving her a powerful, unambiguous, never-to-be-forgotten, get-thee-behind-me type rejection the next time she makes her demon inspired advances??

LIKE REALLY?

Gadols:

Am married, she is married, she is my cousin.
Any time i visit them, she wants me to kiss her.
Deep kissing i mean. i did it once just to please her but she wants more.
I am very disappointed with myself. Now its a secret i must keep or do i tell my wifey?
She calls me everyday. Now i dont pick her calls.

This is funny
Are u sure. . .u guys r cousins??
Must u go and visit her?

Is she really your cousin or your Nigerian version of a cousin?

sounds like the guy has issues with not finding her attractive, and less of it is about she being his cousin