She studied medicine and nowshe has finished and she does not want to help her yourger brother stit for waec.

Bros I am afraid. A medical graduate gets paid well enough even in tyouth service to be able to take care of waec.

Be very careful.

But if you are sure that she is not a yahoo girl, please go ahead assuming you are able to do that now with the credit crunch. I paid school fees for my age mate when I was in secondary school and she is now married. I never saw her bra. I am not regreting!

I am sure you KNOW what this age mate truly LOOKS like.

@Poster

I tire for you o. you mean you are tired of sending her 60 pounds?? c'mmon bro, help this babe out. i don't think 60 pounds is too much if she's telling the truth about her situation. You get 2x more than you give.

manmustwac i thot she hadnt finished studying . . . so she's finished and still asking you for money?

O boy it were better you were paying tithe with that money, at least you'd be storing up treasures in heaven.

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Mr friend there is more blessing in giving than receiving, ask yourself the reason behind d giving. Ar u in love? or u ar just being a nice guy.
I think that assist a lot in the advice i will give u.

But know dat u ar not doing anything out of ordinary, God can use anyone the assist another.

All u peeps who say to keep givin cause u get it back x2 can giv me money if u want. I can waste it as good as anybody. i can act like i a woman too. Getn a medical degree in nigeria? wats dat mean isdat like a ju-ju certificate?

whatever philantrophic jesture u wanna display, dont send money to someone u have never seen!!! be good , be nice, send money to help people. but dont send money to someone you have never seen or confirmed from and authentic source about true status and character. it might all be a scam. i have seen this before, live. pls confirm her status and decide what to do.

baron2000:

whatever philantrophic jesture u wanna display, dont send money to someone u have never seen!!! be good , be nice, send money to help people. but dont send money to someone you have never seen or confirmed from and authentic source about true status and character. it might all be a scam. i have seen this before, live. pls confirm her status and decide what to do.

thx alot broda for dat eye opening line , i fink we've had enuf of al dis crap lets face something new plz, just a suggestion tho!!

@poster

You hv done well, a g8 deal at that
Takes only few with heart of gold to do what you hv done.

I can see some pple ranting and raving  and spitting nonsense.

Well,  you are not in anyway obligated to her but rather offered a humanly help despite d fact that you don't even kwn her nor her root.

Be up to it to tell her the truth, ur inability not  to help futher, make it clear and do not shy away from that, (this way u both can still stay friends) a fact she must accept and come to terms with reality.

And for any reason, she has been up for games without ur inclinations, leave it for God, her karma awaits her.

In all, be blessed as even the bible stated that it is more blessed to give than to receive.

There's no crime in being benevolent. However, the true identity of the girl in the picture still need to determine. I suspect a foulplay. Guy, i'll suggest that you determine the true identity of this girl first. With the festival of internet fraud going on all around the World, anything can happen. Just try to call 'her particularly at odd hours when probably no one will possibly arrange for another person to speak for 'her'. Midnight will be appropriate but never tell 'her' of your plan.

I shall tell u what next to do after trying this out. Untill then, Maga na Masquerade o,

@ poster,
just tell her u have being A MUGU all the while,
that u aint sending a dime to her anymore.
u'v got other personal problems to sort out.
if she no fit understand make she go hang herself.
u'v really helped her enuff!

@poster

IF U AV ENUF TO CATER FOR URSELF, PAY ALL THE EXPENSES AND THE REST, I WILL ADVICE U CONTINUE D GOOD JOB, GOD WILL REWARD U BOUNTIFULY, BUT IF U DONT AV DEN LOCK UP,

GIVEN TO THOSE THAT ALREADY HAVE MUCH, AND ARE CAPABLE OF GIVEN U BACK IN 100 FOLDS DOESNT REALY MATTER, BUT GIVEN TO SOMEBODY WITHOUT XPECTIN ANYTIN BACK IS A "DIVINE SEED"

ThiefOfHearts:

I am sure you KNOW what this age mate truly LOOKS like.

Well, if you want to know, she is Pretty but I am not one to take advantage of someone and i maintain a clean sheet record in my neighbourhood. So I am still the guy with good morals

@ the poster,did you say the girl is a med student at UNEC?
I have sources that could confirm that.
What year is she in and what's her full name
Send me an email at babyosisi@hotmail.com and we'll at least find out if she's truly a med student.
I promise you,I'll keep the name confidential.
I think it's very kind of you to help someone expecting nothing in return unlike these efulefu men here calling you mugu who expect sex after buying a 200 recharge card for a girl.

@ poster

most people did not  read your post - all these people are commending for philanthropic work  what  a joke


The poster intentions is sleep with all the girls but unfortunately he has not meet this one at the med school.



God will surely punish you - can you imagine going to christian sites to ruin the life of girls that are seeking Jesus

u should be ashamed of yourself.

blacksta:

@ poster


God will surely punish you

He already did

agabaI23:

Well, if you want to know, she is Pretty but I am not one to take advantage of someone and i maintain a clean sheet record in my neighbourhood. So I am still the guy with good morals

what does this mean?

Investigate and find out her real identity.

hmmmm I smell a rat

have done that for a girl back when i was in Germany.
I sponsored her through ESUT and we never even slept under the same roof.
When i visted Nigeria In 2007, she bought me agbada cloth .
The first gift i ever got from a lady. Good thing is that she is from my village.
She pased through my mums classes during her secondary school days.
She sent my Younger sister 40,000 Five days ago. Just DASH.
She is working with a bank now and she is getting married in october to some guy.
She send mails all the time telling me that there would never be a guy like me.
I told her there are people like me everywhere,
You see i was right. The poster is just like me,
The problem with him now is this :

He is still willing to help the girl out but somehow, the girl asked for the money when the money is either not available or when the guy is not willing to part with that kind of money.

I dont regret ever dong such a thing.

My advice is simpe : If you have the money , send her the money.
If you dont have it, dont pretend to be big guy or something. Tell her you dont have it now. SIMPLE.

IF ANYBODY CALL YOU A MUGU FOR SENDING A GIRL SOME MONEY, tell the person to go to hell. (courtesy of mlla)

I believe that whatever good we do here on earth will somehow teach other people how to do good too.

God bless you Sam milla
Don't mind these men that think a man can only help a girl he sleeps with.
While i was in college in Nigeria,I had gone home on weekend to see my parents and on returning,I forgot my wallet full of money in the taxi cab and never got it back.
I sat in my room crying and there was a knock on my door,it was this guy who I was acquainted with,,a young military officer and I relayed my ordeal to him.
This young man reached into his pocket and gave me some money.
He came by to visit me anytime he was in my town and would take me to lunch and always gave me money and we never ever even as much as held hands
he visited my family home and I also visited his hometown.
You never forget people like that
My husband even knows his name and after all these years, I consider him one of the finest people I ever knew.
I heard he's now in Abuja,married with Children and now a top Military guy.
So I totally understand that people can help others without expecting anything in return.
He was almost like a big brother to me.

blacksta:

@ poster

most people did not read your post - all these people are commending for philanthropic work what a joke


The poster intentions is sleep with all the girls but unfortunately he has meet this one at the med school.



God will surely punish you - can you imagine going to christian sites to ruin the life of girls that are seeking Jesus

u should be ashamed of yourself.

Did I miss anything in his post?

haha!!!!!!!!!. ewo ni ti epe? and u call yrself a xtian, telling somebody "God will punish you" that was too much if you ask me

why are people asking God to punish the guy,what did he do wrong?

Ok guys this is my story, back in the days (about 3 years back) i used to chat a lot in yahoo messenger. I used to meet a lot of Nija babes in the Christian chatroom. I would build a relationship take thier cell numbers then be calling them. Then whenever i visited Nigeria i'd go about my business and have my fun with as many of them as i could b4 coming back to England

Now after a while i decided to stop chatting coz all these babes would keep flashing me to call them and most of dem get baggage. They need money. And me get my own problems here.

Now one babe in particular called Ify. I'd known her 4 about 2 years now, but we have never met in the flesh. When we first met online she told me how her mother was recently poisoned over land dispute and that it was her dad looking after all 7 of them now. It was last year July that i met her online by chance and foundout that her Popsie had passed thru poisoning

So i called her she told me that she was going to lagos to try hustle money to continue her education back in UNEC. But while in lagos she was disturbing me for doh so i sent her a N1500 MTN recharge card, that wasn't enough so i sent her more. I even linked to my friend who employed her to work for his sales company there, but that didn't workout

are u people blind

This guys is a serial womaniser.

ThiefOfHearts:

what does this mean?

Exactly what it means.

agabaI23:

Exactly what it means.

If you werent such a serial flirt, you'd see your response missed the mark. What I was saying is that you helped someone you knew in flesh and blood. This guy is helping someone he has NEVER met, are you aware of how many people are claiming to be male or female on the net? Also what if this money is being used for things completely different? Lucky it's Naija sha and not the West where she's probably a thief and the cops can trace her money source back to this dunce.

blacksta:

are u people blind

This guys is a serial womaniser.

Do you know how many men these same girls are seeing from the chat rooms?
what decent people take the people they meet in chat rooms seriously?
I admit,I missed that part about him catching fun with these girls but I bet you the girls are also in the same business of fun catching.

ThiefOfHearts:

If you werent such a serial flirt, you'd see your response missed the mark. What I was saying is that you helped someone you knew in flesh and blood. This guy is helping someone he has NEVER met, are you aware of how many people are claiming to be male or female on the net? Also what if this money is being used for things completely different? Lucky it's Naija sha and not the West where she's probably a thief and the cops can trace her money source back to this dunce.

He met with her last November.

Serial flirt? Any crown for it?

I'd known her 4 about 2 years now, but we have never met in the flesh.

My friend, if you cant say no to a woman, especially one you havent even met in person, then you my friend are either amongst a small, verry unique group of people whom are destined to spend their whole life in servitude to other or, you are extremely stupid and secretly trying to get into her pants. Her on-line photos on yahoo cristian girls, must have been overtly convincing. But in saying that, there is always an ethical and spiritiual benefit in helping. Be it a boy or a girl, as long as its a fellow human, but you've done enough. So pick up the phone and call her right now!! I have giving you permision to tell her no. If she has any probs with it give her my number. (I insist) 913-555-4237!!!

This una pseudo-charity, it seems it only applys to young women.