7 depressing reasons some women taught dey will never find ''#LOVE''

1. They’re Hurting: It doesn’t take a
genius IQ to know that giving up
on love is often a reaction to
feeling deeply hurt and
disenchanted. It’s the women who
have invested the most in a failed
relationship who’ve got their
fingers most badly burnt. Not
falling in love again is a way of
protecting themselves in the
future.

2.[/b]They Confuse The Issue: Falling in
love is not the problem. The real
issue is falling in love with the
wrong guy. It’s all about missing
the warning signs, not seeing the
red flags, not hearing the warning
bells, whistles and sirens. Giving
up on love is a way of saying, “I
don’t believe there’s another way
of doing this thing called love, so
the only option I have is to wash
my hands of it.”
[b]3. They Lack Awareness: Women
who fall for a “bad boy” tend to
do so more than once. When a
relationship goes wrong, first you
need time to lick your wounds.
Then it’s time to look at the
patterns like the kind of man
you’re attracted to, the way you
act in a relationship, the
expectations and dreams that you
bring to the table, what you turn a
blind eye to, and much more. Blind
love is often stup*d Love. It pays
to have a clear sight about
yourself and your prospective
partner before you dive into the
romance.
4. They Take It Too Personally: Of
course you can learn something
from failed relationships, but too
many women learn the misguided
lesson that they’re less attractive
and worthy human beings than
the women who’ve managed to
find a lasting relationship. A far
more useful lesson is that failure
means they’re simply doing
something wrong. That really isn’t
a disaster because you can always
learn how to change a behavior.
5. They Give Up Too Soon: No baby
ever got up onto its little wobbly
legs, took one faltering step, fell
on its face and said, “That’s it, I’m
done. I’m through with walking!”
Some people are naturally better
at creating good relationships
than others. But any woman can
master the art of having a great
relationship. You may have to fall
on your face once or twice. That’s
normal. It’s all part of the learning
experience. But if you keep
“falling on your face”, get some
help to figure out how you can
change that.
6. They Send Out The Wrong
Message: That “I hate all men”
message is actually putting you at
risk. There’s a special kind of man
who will approach the woman
sporting the big “Stay “Away”
banner. That man is the Hunter. He
piques his vanity and ma$$ages
his rather large ego to win over
the woman who’s sworn off men.
For him, it’s all about the thrill of
the chase. You’re flattered that
he’s going to such effort to woo
you, but beware. Once he’s caught
up with you, he’ll soon get bored
and move on. The chase is his
thing — not cozy domesticity.
7. They Think THEY Will Never Want
Love Again: Women who give up
on love do so — for a while —
because they love too much and
want a partner so much. That
yearning isn’t going to go away.
Whatever they say now, they’re
not going to enter a nunnery, and
they’ll want search for love again.
They can silence that yearning for
a while, but it will come back even
stronger than before. Instead,
they need to ask themselves, Since
love is so important to me, how
can I do things differently next
time? What’s the most powerful
thing I can do to change the way I
‘do’ relationships so I find the love
I truly want next time?
The yearning for love is a normal,
powerful human drive. When we try to
suppress it, it only comes back stronger.
The polls may say what they please, but
the reality is that the vast majority of
women need to feel loved. Giving up on
love won’t make you happy, and it
won’t work. Taking a sabbatical from
love while you become the woman who
can captivate and keep her perfect
partner makes a lot more sense. You
don’t have to give up on something
simply because you don’t know the best
way to do it. It makes much more sense
to learn the simple skill that will turn
your love life around.

Whr is my whip...
I want to flog this op

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Favparis:
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hahaha...babe u funny o. And my guy abeg no flog me na my fone cos am

Kingpinukecy:
hahaha...babe u funny o. And my guy abeg no flog me na my fone cos am