van der jo:

@poster,
its hard but it takes time,you ran back to him cuz the one u really luv is no more,it isn't fair girlie

Sweet T:

@poster.

Did you cheat on him?? If so you can forget about the trust thing. Most men cant handle being betrayed, he will throw it in your face soon or later. He may be able to forgive but i gurantee you he won't forget.

Sweet T:

@Poster

Now that i read your post i got a clear picture. Quit playing games and get real. You will lose at the end of the day. make a stand and stick to it. This is one of the reasons why some men treat girls like rags. Hide and seek game.

bluespice:

in as much as this was kinda confusing,
ill simply answer the question posed as the topic . . .

u can only get a person to trust u again after u prove urself to such a person and if the person is willing to trust u or even give u a second chance

one that can never belive u can be trusted irrespective of whatever u do, will never trust u
its the sad truth dearie

C2H5OH:

With your two timing ass.  You will end up becoming a fork buddy.  They know you aren't wife material.

omotf:

I think you should go with EYES SHADOW'S advice, allow this guy to go; start a new life,if he really need you he will come back sincerely but with the look of things coupled with Ur explanation i think he comes back to revenge for the pain you once cause him so you need to go first before he ask you to stop coming to him.

sexybabes:
Hi Guyz,
I don't know where to start but let me just get straight to the point. I met this guy last year when I was in separation with the guy I dating for 2years then, talk about bad timing. So I told him that I'm in a long distance relationship(which I was), I never mention the break up because i still loved the guy(long dist bf) I was with then. So after 2months we together he became so jealous and start checking my every move including checking my fone. I got back with the guy(long dist bf) I was dating before I met him and if he sees a call or an sms from him(long dist bf), he would go crazy as if he didn't know about this other guy(long dist bf). I even had to lie to him and say I broke-up with the other guy(long distance bf). So this other night the guy(long dist bf) I was dating before him called me around 3am and kept calling about 4times. He went mad and left me after that. I told him how sorry I was for picking the call at that time. He was angry in a way that it was like I was cheating on him or something which I wasn't cause I told him that I had a boyfriend 1st time and he said he doesn't mind. Even though the reason why I dated him was because I was angry at the boyfriend(long dist bf) I was with at the time  but I developed strong feelings for him and fell deeply in-love with him.

So now its been more than 3months since this happened and I even broke-up(4 real dis time) with the guy he left me for(its strange cause the reason he left was that he believed that I will never break up with this other guy(long dist bf) cause 1. I was with him for long time, 2. I loved him(long dist bf) more than i love him). And to be honest I wasn't gonna break my 2year r/s bcz of a 4months r/s but things worked out on their own, I found out the bf(long dist bf) i didn't want to dump was busy cheating on me wit a bunch of ladies. So me and the guy in question, we were still in-contact as friends. 3weeks back we met and he told me that he still loves me and all this time has not been easy for him so we decided to try again but take things slowly. But now its like things are too slow and its driving me crazy. I hardly see him or sometimes he will not call for the whole 2 days. He told me that he is still trying to find a way to trust me again cause I lied to him, and he don't wanna get hurt again and I understand that. But now how do I make him trust me again?  I really want things to work this time.

C2H5OH:
With your two timing ass. You will end up becoming a fork buddy. They know you aren't wife material.

socpred:
Unfortunately, it is much easier to destroy trust than to earn it! However, trust can only be earned, so you have to earn it by being trustworthy and faithful. Might take some time, but I doubt that there would be a more effective way to earn the trust.
So, just be yourself (your trustworthy self, that is) and let things work themselves out while you do your own little part to ensure that you don't screw things up.

Youngpo413:




you are saying the truth...she is a real bitchhh looking for a faithful guy