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Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by GHoJes: 4:38pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Diplomaticbeing:Apologies for misunderstanding you earlier on. You are welcome. |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Nobody: 4:42pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
From the way you've described your relationship with this woman I don't think you should proceed. You have no emotional connection with her also you don't have any special affection for her in as much as you have tried to develop it. You might have to let this go. You don't have to settle for a babymama either eventually you will find a woman better suitable to you. 3 Likes |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Diplomaticbeing(m): 4:52pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
andromida: Your opinions are worthwhile. Thanks for your efforts. |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Nobody: 5:15pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Diplomaticbeing: This guy just likes big grammar 2 Likes |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Diplomaticbeing(m): 5:23pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
fem29: As you no come gree to teach me well well how I go fit use simpler words, na wetin I go come do na. I go like learn from you. Deal? |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by masties2(f): 5:28pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
LadyFiona: |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Nobody: 6:39pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Diplomaticbeing: Lolzzz, u never ready. It's very easy. Instead of saying something like she went to purchase some eggs, say she went to buy eggs . |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Diplomaticbeing(m): 6:43pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
fem29: Now you are talking. But me I come wonder how person wey understand the meaning of "buy" no go fit understand what "purchase" mean too. All the same I don take your advice. Thanks. |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by ogeoflyf(f): 7:04pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Diplomaticbeing: I wish |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Pidggin(f): 7:13pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
After reading your post I have come to the conclusion that you do not love her, and as such you should look for someone that meets your qualification of a good wife. Call her, sit her down and tell her how you feel about her. |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Nobody: 8:24pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
XYD2:Not to disparage your contribution tho but I was discussing an issue with a church member today. It was about another church member whom the husband too had at some time boasted he married her a virgin. Obviously the lady has the appearance of an "SU" and all but I am yet to meet a woman so bitter in my life. This woman is a "good" christian and God fearing so to speak but trust me she is very ill mannered and bad tempered. Always picking up needless fights. Grapevine sources even has it that the husband is already fed up with her nasty behaviour. The essence of my polemics is to remind you not to fall into that "God fearing" woman scam. A lot of them just go about with the appearance but are deeply rotten inside by christain standards. And contary to your naive assertion a potential wife has to be caring, friendly, respectful, resourceful and lastly you as man must be attracted to her physically I mean you must find her sesxy Forget all the speaking in tongues cos you will not be speaking in tongues while sleeping with her otherwise you will find it difficult to maintain an err.ection around her while your d..ick will be jumping up when you encounter other women leading to adultery. Am sorry if the last paragraph was a bit raw but trust me it could have been worse considering the need to be explanatory so as to drive home the point. Beware brothers. Beware . Thanks. 3 Likes |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Diplomaticbeing(m): 8:44pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Pidggin: Thanks for your observation. However, it seems like you and I shares contrary views of what a sustainable relationship love is in it's entirety. To me, my relationship love is earned not given, and to sustain it one must maintain and renew it almost every other day. I think this explains why one can fall in and out of love. For example, the best way to preserve the freshness of a cooked soup is by freezing it, with this method such soup can stay fresh and retain it's taste even after a week, while the alternative means of preserving a soup is through rewarming it on fire after each cut (those who lives/have lived without electricity and will understand this point clearly) which is the analog means can still preserve the same cooked soup but surely after a day or two it will lose it's freshness and taste. As far as relationship love is concerned, I don't just love someone without reasons (my own love is not blind), but I do fall in love with one when the right attributes are there. Maybe I have a skewed view of what this relationship love of a thing is all about. 1 Like |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Diplomaticbeing(m): 8:46pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
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Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Pidggin(f): 9:20pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Diplomaticbeing: @Bolded says it all. I still think you should tell her these things. I don't see how we can help you in this case as you seem to know exactly what you want. Maybe you can exercise more patience, don't let anyone pressure you, be on the look out for your ideal lady and hopefully you will find her. |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by focus7: 2:32am On Nov 16, 2015 |
Op my honest opinion about you is that you are too self overestimating, too principled and rigid. Dealing with ladies though you need to be firm but also flexible in order to be able to accommodate their excessiveness, manage them and mentor them. When a man is too principled and too rigid he can't enjoy the best from his woman. 5 Likes |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by seankay(m): 6:54pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Jeloma:Lol b like say he just write GRE |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by pickabeau1: 6:58pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Diplomaticbeing: Forget It The greatest of her sins is ingratitude People like this will push u to steal or drink
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Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by 5minsmadness: 7:08pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Migraine inducing thread |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Fkforyou(m): 9:12pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
LadyFiona: E don do!!!....Wetin self, una just like to dey complicate matter for people....lol. |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Nobody: 10:04pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Guitarlife:Advise taken and your point well understood. I wasn't referring to someone having the fear of God as being religious, far from it. But bro, have you not seen a caring, respected and loving woman/ man that would still cheat or change later in life? For that brother in particular, there must have been some signs, no way someone can cover his/ her character and you wouldn't see some traces just like what OP noticed. Marriage is not an easy situation thou, but how will you love someone when you don't love and respect God first. |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Nobody: 6:53pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Diplomaticbeing: I'm here |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Diplomaticbeing(m): 7:03pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Eyekandi: Dear, I wasn't unaware about your presence here before I requested to have a private discussion with you. Well, if there's no option to reach you privately, then there will be no need for us to further conversation. |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Nobody: 10:04pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Diplomaticbeing: |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Vikky014(f): 11:12pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Diplomaticbeing:Law graduate right |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Vikky014(f): 11:16pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
You don't have a problem at all. Guys with women hassles don't go about blowing hot grammar like this.hahahahahaha |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Diplomaticbeing(m): 2:53am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Eyekandi: OK! No problem. You know, we disagree to agree. Kindly do the needful. |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Diplomaticbeing(m): 2:58am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Vikky014: LOL... Me I be "Vikky014" graduate! I hope you de fine ni. |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Vikky014(f): 6:17am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Diplomaticbeing:lol |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Vikky014(f): 6:17am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Diplomaticbeing:lol |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Nobody: 7:17am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Diplomaticbeing: |
Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Diplomaticbeing(m): 7:34am On Dec 18, 2015 |
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Re: I Need The Opinions Of Sane And Mature Men And Women Here. Please! by Diplomaticbeing(m): 7:35am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Eyekandi: OK. |
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