Etruth:
(This message is mainly for unmarried people like myself,
who are trying to navigate the waters of singlehood and
still stay chaste).
“Eketi, you don’t get it. I’m actually offering to take away
your virginity for free. Men aren’t marrying virgins
anymore o. So I’m doing you a favour. Your husband will
thank me. You see my babe, she wasn’t a virgin when we
met. We men don’t have the energy for you women’s
disvirgining drama. See, if you die now without “doing”
it’s ants that’ll eat it in the grave o!”
I was 16 years old when this 28 year old man offered to
“help me” get rid of my hymen.
When I was ten years old, I thought I knew all about sex.
You see, that’s when my mother gave me a detailed sex
education; the difference between the penis and the
vagina and what happens when the two come together in
copulation. She was a biology teacher, so she also drew
diagrams.
As she talked, all I wanted was for the ground to open up
and swallow me. Embarrassed. Mortified. Discomfited.
But the woman no look my face; she just dey talk dey go.
Unlike some of my friends whose mothers told them
they’d get pregnant just by being touched by a man, I
didn’t have the benefit of such ignorance. Mum said that
as a Christian, my body is the temple of the Holy Spirt
and it’d be a wonderful thing for me to honour God with
my body. One way of doing so was not to have
premarital sex. She also said it’d be a “gift” for my
husband.
Along the line, I grew up and decided I wasn’t going to be
chaste because of what Mum said or for a man. I was
going to do it for me, and because I love Jesus. I would
wait till marriage.
When I was 13 and four of my mates got together and
decided to have sex as their birthday presents to
themselves. When they did, they began to act like they
were superior to me. But I paid them no mind.
When the world went crazy and being a virgin became
very unfashionable, to the point where some people
verbally abused me for being one, and tried to shame me
into having sex, I held on. “Sufferhead. The last Nigerian
virgn,” they'd say. “You don’t know what you’re missing!”
“If you start having sex early, you won’t have pains during
childbirth.” Through the lies, I held on.
Sex no get expiry date. Being chaste is nothing to be
ashamed of.
When I saw the havoc and the high cost of premarital sex
in many lives around me, I held on. When some people
would openly boast about their body counts and yet tell
me to shut up, that my virginity should be a private
matter, I held on.
Some even felt that by being a virgin, I was judging them
who weren’t—I still don’t see the logic nor understand
the connection sha. We dey waka different roads. How
my car come take jam ya car?
Today, I am 29 years old and I am still waiting.
Let me be honest: waiting is darn hard and I am neither
Superwoman nor a saint. In fact, it took me years to
learn that virginity is useless without sexual purity. I
found out the hard way, that watching porn, making out,
and doing every-every, without actual penetration only
made me an addict and a fraud. My walk to sexual purity
was a long and hard one. But through Christ, I made it.
There have been times when konji has nearly killed me.
Ayayai! Those times eh, I’ll be like pussycat, looking for
somebody to do gum-body with.
There are times when I tell myself, “Which kain suffer be
dis sef? Who dey send you work? All these running,
praying, playing PS4 and FIFA to distract yourself and
baffing cold water—will not help you. Find somborri and
do de sontin!”
I’ve had several arguments with Baba God—“Papa, did
you really mean pre-marital sex is a sin? Maybe these
people misinterpreted what you said—you know, lost in
translation kinda thing. Are you sure? Ehen? But what if I
do it only once—eezit still bad? Youdonmeanit! Ok nah.”
I’ve seen up close, the kind of intimate bond that sex can
bring in a marriage. I know that it's a beautiful thing.
That’s why I'm waiting for that special man, who will
match this special woman, move for move, thrust for
thrust. No uncertainties, no comparisons.
I am waiting for that man, who knows that this woman
has almost 30 years of bottled up passion to unleash and
is ready to receive it all. And when that time
come…..hehehehehhe….God help him!
And even if that special man never comes along, I'd still
wait.
I wait because I love Baba God and this temple of his
deserves honour.
#IHaveWaited
#ICanWaitStill
#WhatAboutYou

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I'm proud of you Eketi. My prayer for you is that God Almghty will glorify you for choosing to honour Him and obeying his wisdom in the face of mockery, difficulties and 'more enticing' options.. Phillipians 2:15 -"That ye may be blameless and harmless,the SONS OF GOD, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world. Good morning Lalasticlala, rocktation, farano. Kindly move to headquarters pls.

Lol I was amused with d "virginity is useless without sexual purity"


And to admit it, its d hard truth u knw.. Many peoplr are deceivn demselves dat they r virgins while dey watch porn, selfservice, even practice oral sexx! Too bad.


Its even betta dey had the real sex dan be holy hypocrites! Yes! I said dat.

Lord hav mercy on us all.. Including me!

Etruth:
I'm proud of you Eketi. My prayer for you is that God Almghty will glorify you for choosing to honour Him and obeying his wisdom in the face of mockery, difficulties and 'more enticing' options.. Phillipians 2:15 -"That ye may be blameless and harmless,the SONS OF GOD, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world. Good morning Lalasticlala, rocktation, farano. Kindly move to headquarters pls.

Still hard to believe this guy is no more, though I don't know him personally. RIP MAN!!!

life is so cruel rip etructh

The live and times of ETRUTH

Rest in Peace

Death !!
Rip man

E surely neva knew death was near em d day e created this thread..#








This won't be my last post Lord'

I have no idea who you were.
but it's been an honour commenting with you on NL.
#We'llRememberTheName
#Farewell

Why does bad things happen to good people..Going thru his posts he sounds like a good and perfect gentle man..What a world of mystery..RIP man!! God rest your soul..

Rest in Peace Etruth.I pray that Our Precious Lord JESUS will lead you home.#Takecare on the other side#

Rip bro! May God forgive every one of your sins... I don't know u Though, but u shall be remembered

rest in peace man..dnt knw buh goin through his post made me sad

Rest well bro!

Rest in the bosom of our Savior Etruth. And when that time comes, may we meet and celebrate in the joys of paradise.

Your life was cut short by Dangote's truck, giving the ground the opportunity to take in and bury your dream

I hope your work will take you to that beautifyl place

RIP in peace guy.

omg! the OP's dead? u guys confirmed it?

RIP Etruth never knew you but when i viewed your profile i saw you were a gentle soul. rest peacefully in the blossom of the Lord

Etruth:
I'm proud of you Eketi. My prayer for you is that God Almghty will glorify you for choosing to honour Him and obeying his wisdom in the face of mockery, difficulties and 'more enticing' options.. Phillipians 2:15 -"That ye may be blameless and harmless,the SONS OF GOD, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world. Good morning Lalasticlala, rocktation, farano. Kindly move to headquarters pls.

For Memory sake.. Lalasticala and co. should do the needful by putting dis on front page..
Atleast someone can be saved through Etruths last epistle.

Lets also pray that the Good Lord will touch the hearts of our leaders to provide us save and good roads to avert such accidents that lead to Etruths death.

Lala do d needful

#RIPEthruth

still can't biliv dz.. God pls save us from dz dangote truck and untimely death.. May the souls of all the faithful departed tru the mercy of God rest in peace. Amen.. my greetings to everyone in heaven cos i know you r dere