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Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by jayzblack(m): 9:00am On Nov 18, 2015
Oga it's al ur fault stop al dis cock and bul story. I could remember when i was in sec. school one of our male handsome teacher only gives attention, praises to ladies only. to the extent he began having private lesson wit them. B4 the schol authority could notice wat has bin going on he was already dating one of them secretly. Ur so much close to her...Dat means ur 32 is always open @her sight, if nt she wil nt have the courage to confront u...and say such tin..I gues she does' nt respect u any more. my advice 4 u is just give ha the cucumba and leave the schol dats al

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Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by Nobody: 9:07am On Nov 18, 2015
leobenz:
Bro the best tin that u can do for ur self is to FLEE, dnt even think of giving her some piece of advice, that she is still in secondary skul and bla bla bla, ignore all that and run for ur life cus they re just destiny killers cus if u dnt do so u'll soon start takn her biology private class. Report her to the approprate authority. I talk from xperience bro.
You're going too far and is totally uncalled-for.

The high school girl falling in love with her teacher is not a bad thing at all. She might have noticed something in him that got her attracted towards you.

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Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by Nobody: 9:13am On Nov 18, 2015
splashyii:




You are joking right?
I resemble basket mouth?

if a male student reports a female(senior) student to him, how would he handle it?
Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by ameezy(m): 9:16am On Nov 18, 2015
obum88:
Simple, give her the cucumber
grin
obum88:
Simple, give her the cucumber
kikikikik ediot

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Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by zikmarty: 9:33am On Nov 18, 2015
that's how one secondary school idiot(ss1) was stalking my gf sometime ago...like what's wrong with nowadays kids,what happened to the read your book gospel we've been preaching

baby boys,once that stuff between their legs start growing,they'll think they've come of age and can share same meal with their elders. idiots cheesy
Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by Nobody: 9:38am On Nov 18, 2015
vague:
may your daughter's teacher give her cucumber 10times a day. shout amen!


Nawa!

Why is your life so mean?

Can't you take a joke?

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Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by Frankicent(m): 9:40am On Nov 18, 2015
Margauxluv:
Lol aii Gdam
Gdam?
Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by mathewmozay: 9:44am On Nov 18, 2015
My own advice for you is that, call her in your own personal phone and talk to her in a way she will understand it, advice her to be a good decent girl and also tell her that she should try to be like you. Secondary school is nothing in nigeria for now that she should not spoil herself. Tell her that she should endure. May God help you to do that. Read this scripture Galatian 19 :1 to the last verse.
Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by shegerun: 9:54am On Nov 18, 2015
Graduate my foot! You don't know the difference between being and been.
Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by biteck(m): 10:16am On Nov 18, 2015
Reporting her or quitting the job is the not the right move.

I had similar experience when I taught in a grils' secondary school before I left for national service.

Mine was like a game among the girls.They wanted to know who could win my attention.

What you should do is to call her and make her know that she has a bright future ahead of her which she must not scuttle through poor management of her emotions.

Make her know you are there as her teacher and guardian to ensure that she becomes the most that she could ever be academically and not to engage in romantic exploits with her.She should reserve that for the right time.

Also make sure you don't give her preferential treatment. After speaking sense into her head,if she persist, then speak to her in the company of a mature teacher and warn her sternly.

I had to literary embarrass one of the girls that was harrasing me during my computer Practical session before her mates although that didn't dissuade her.

Good luck.

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Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by ayfola007: 10:30am On Nov 18, 2015
Guy do u need to be told d right thing? from wat u said u simply want to get her laid bt u want ppl to push u. Dnt blame it on anyone wen it goes wrong.
Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by BlueScholar(m): 10:39am On Nov 18, 2015
Swissheart:
There is no point reporting her to the school management because any child who has got the nerves to come out straight to the teacher demanding for an affair must have grown enough balls.Talk to her maturely and as a teacher.If there is a good teacher who won't blow it open,let him/her know because desperation can go bad.You can also peacefully search for another school.



@op....I really hope you aren't representing yourself as a 'what's up' guy ........pls earn your respect.



Now this is what I call a 'Mature Advice' all you need to do na to turn into a Pastor or Mallam cheesy
She won't let go easily but all u need to do is to persist. You don't need to report or quit, you're an adult for Godsake
Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by schumastic(m): 11:21am On Nov 18, 2015
Margauxluv:


tongue tongue
Ask me
Buh really I don't fnk hve crushed on ma teacher or lecturer.
Bk den ma teachers r all advanced men n women.


Good for u
Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by hardychris(m): 12:00pm On Nov 18, 2015
Talk to her but if she refuses then ignore her, afterall she can't rape you.
Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by ajimo54(m): 1:07pm On Nov 18, 2015
She is a teenager, talk to her about her feelings. Respect her feelings and ask her if she really wants to do this? if yes, then what abt u? Do u love her? If yes, then date her. Groom her. Sex is not the only thing she wants. You have enticed her with ur Physics intellect. Help her to pass. Make sure she is not left alone. You can make or mar the girl. But if you really want to date her, you need to resign from the school otherwise, things may get out of hand.

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Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by SHOCK7(m): 1:39pm On Nov 18, 2015
Laolu97:
Reporting ha to d management might affect ha self esteem and also quitin d job is a bad idea also.Y dont u talk some senses to ha and allow ha to understand dat it cant be possible but if u wish,u fit sample ha sha o.(d outcome might just be dangerous!) grin
u giving contradictory comments!
Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by Nobody: 1:58pm On Nov 18, 2015
Oyedey4u:






Before you misbehave, i know you are as young as I am, think of the worst possible thing that could happen if you yield to that temptation...



I know she must be as young as your junior sister, what will happen to you if somone did that to your sister...



Think of the school you graduated from, the girls or ladies, matured ones that you sat together to receive lectures together,



think of the wonderful dream of who your wife or your future home should be....



put this girl into the picture and how she will shatter every of this things......

(even if she didn't shatter anything)



Think of some days later in life when your son will be telling you how girls were making advances to her.

Think of what you will tell him from your experience of how you didn't yield... Or will you be proud to tell him that you yielded to that temptation....




Look above and below this post you will see the most POPULAR ADVICE of people is that you should yield....

I will liken that to COWARDICE, following the popular...
The unpopular opinion like the ones I post avove is the Best and COURAGEous for a young man like you and me...

Besides, before you say the devil push you, never have a meeting with her in private, warn her publicly in the midst of her class and friends,

deliberately punish her on account of any slight mistake or non comportment by her.... teACH her SENSE.

Humiliate her for what she has decided to do... Dont you Be a WEAKLING

you can speak to a school counsellor who can take her up but if the advise is like the popular ones, Be prepared to battle her and the non-sense in her head.

And finally, i believe no religion teaches yielding to temptation or commiting fornication with a teenager (i suppose).... Infact, it's against the #LAW to do so.....

So as a Christian (that I am, and a young man also, I will) made life and school difficult for her for any of her antics, I will Punish her sore.... For looking at me anyhow (seductively), disturbing my phone line and so on....

Punishment Idea..... Report her as disturbing you (whenever she calls), report to your immediate bosses, and inform them of your decisions to punish her, just purchase a 60 leaves notebook and a pen, write neatly on one line a sentence, that I will not disturb the phoneline of my teacher for whatever reason again, then give her 24hrs to duplicate that on all lines of the book from A-Z (cover to cover)... Take permission from the right authority for her to be excused from all classed of the day, nd give her exactly 24 hrs to return the book...

That will erase a bit of the nonsense she has learnt from those Ghanian movies...

NOTE: This is my opinion, You can follow it if you feel it is worth it.

God bless you

Good advice minus d punishment part. she is just a teenager and every teenager has a crush. the only thing is that she was too bold to let it out. advice her, caution her and maybe report her to her mother so she can handle her properly.

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Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by Petitol(m): 1:59pm On Nov 18, 2015
No long tin
Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by SHOCK7(m): 11:45pm On Nov 18, 2015
PunkyVeer:
How you guys say it here? She wants you to "mark her present" grin Or however that term goes.
As a female I expected more sensible comment 4rom u!
Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by Frankicent(m): 1:18am On Nov 19, 2015
Margauxluv:

Lol aii
Gdam
Hey, want to know if your name
Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by Nobody: 6:33am On Nov 19, 2015
SHOCK7:

As a female I expected more sensible comment 4rom u!

Do I sound like I give a Bleep about your expectations? I don't. How about that

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Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by Nobody: 6:54am On Nov 19, 2015
PunkyVeer:


Do I sound like I give a Bleep about your expectations? I don't. How about that

The F-word dear. Always Use the F-word wink
Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by SHOCK7(m): 11:25am On Nov 19, 2015
PunkyVeer:


Do I sound like I give a Bleep about your expectations? I don't. How about that
Dis just shows 'ur level of immaturity!
Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by Nobody: 11:27am On Nov 19, 2015
SHOCK7:

Dis just shows 'ur level of immaturity!

Ok.

Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by billyG(m): 9:56am On Nov 22, 2015
jaydee8:
and ur mumcy still dey alive?
Pfuuck u! & yur MDFMum!

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