The issue is, it's very challenging to start up a family. And by the time a man succeeds to build one, it's always one challene and the other. So how one be encouaged to start one?

starting up a family is not for the chicken hearted

dnt know what you mean by "encouraging someone to start up a family" however, i do know that before one takes on the huge responsibility of starting their own family, they have to be financially, and emotionally responsible for the bumps ahead. There has to be a good communication and planing between the parties involved, cant just wake up one morning and decide to start a family (though some still do and learn the hard way). plan how many kids you both want to have, who will be doing what etc. just like starting up and building a strong business, starting up a family requires good planning, communication skills and patience etc. sometimes very hard to build and maintain but not impossible

LIFE is full of challenges, starting a family is just a step within this life!