IamMissMarvel:


You see!

People like you are the reason women won't speak up about things like this. You don't know me so don't go saying things you don't know. I never grew up broke or poor. My dad provided all I needed and I didn't date even at 19. I was 19 years old when this happened and I wasn't dating anyone.

I grew up with the guy, so he was not a stranger to me.

So shut the latrine you call a mouth and just think.

Think.

Not all women are as greedy as u expect. I work hard to make a living like i was taught. So I'm not the gold digger that did u wrong and turned u into the bitter person u are.

This is exaactly why your parents should have sold you to buy Suya.

JJJC:
A nymphomaniac will never agree she is a sex addict.

actually, most nymphomaniacs do... they tell you "i'm a nymph" and you get turned on... but he tells you "i'm a rapist" and you run dafak outta here man!!!

You know, i have a feeling from observation that the guilty, and not the innocent, are quicker to get legal defence in such a situo like this.

The idea that from damages alone, one can bury a whole trailer of allegations and accusation is so sweetening, that many are taking advantage of it. My landlord have been in such a case cos he allowed anger over common sense.

That aside, il be keeping tabs on this issue, cos this lawyer just proved that Mustapha isnt innocent. Well luckily unluckily, he's admitted there existed something betwixt them, so that's a point on her side.


Wayward life is common with these kinda kids, so il side with her till he concretely proves otherwise.

dinachi:

Shut your rotten crap you call mouth. Where was her mother? if she was a minor, where was her mother?As a minor she is under the care of her mother.This is a very clear matter. Her family thougth the relationship was headed to the Altar. it didnt happen and the evil nymphomaniac went beserk trying to pull the guy down. This is pure rubbish. Foolish men like you are why girls like this spill this kind of story.

You are a big fool. Instead of condemning the man for taking advantage of the girl you are talking rubbish.
She is not a saint and she made wrong choices, but that doesn't give that goat the right to violate her like that. If a kid is asking for knife, will you give that child the knife?

you are a useless son of an unfortunate parent. May sat an male your daughter suffer such fate. In fact, the paedophile will pour hiv infested sperm inside her.
Bastard! !!!!

dinachi:

This is exaactly why your parents should have sold you to buy Suya.

If u have sisters, then I pray they don't have an experience like this. It can happen to any one. Someone you trust, ur friend could end up raping you.

So get mature about this.

Understand where I'm coming from. Not all women who get raped were sluts or gold diggers. Some were too trusting and had their trust abused.

I don't mean to resort to an e fight with u. This is a sensitive matter and i wonder how u don't get it.

ezeagu:
Wouldn't you just sue if someone made such a damning accusation? Oh, right, you're guilty...

Wouldn't you just sue if someone raped you? Oh, right, it's false...

See, it doesn't quite work that way.

dinachi:

He dosen't need to be there, the girl's story stinks to high heavens! Stop working for hoe's they won't pay, they prefer rich governor's sons!

But I think it's best justice takes its natural course than assuming the accused is innocent. What if there's an iota of truth in her claim, would that be washed away?

Let's learn to be neutral in this kind of case and let justice prevail.

If she is found to be lying, then she would face the music and if the accused was found to be guilty of some sorts; sanctions would apply too

Snipes009:
Lol....you are really dumb. So it's only girls from poor homes that runz? Ewele o!!!! And if we tell you to quit living in your mama's basement and see what life is outchea in the real world, you go dey vex. Loyola....lol. Nigga, olosho get levels, class, and they have targets. If you hold ba wella, you fit lamba minister's daughter wey dey runz...

a 17yr old that has the best things of life at her fingertips....? bro, your ignorance stinks. what her guardians paid as tuition for 6yrs in Loyola jesuit is enough to see you through university and set you up with a good business.maybe you thought her parents were selling akara at the road side abi.
A lot of you folks on NL are teenagers, that's why i'm going out of my way to educate you.

You need to see the desperation of some girls this days. They depend on gullibe guys and girls to buy their story. Do you know that Csooy Orjiakor is he accuses Bishop Oyedepo of rape, some of you will believe it? That is why women use rape accusations as their most deadly weapon, because of easily decieved guys like you.

foolish girl

Ugosample:



You are a big fool. Instead of condemning the man for taking advantage of the girl you are talking rubbish.
She is not a saint and she made wrong choices, but that doesn't give that goat the right to violate her like that. If a kid is asking for knife, will you give that child the knife?

you are a useless son of an unfortunate parent. May sat an male your daughter suffer such fate. In fact, the paedophile will pour hiv infested sperm inside her.
Bastard! !!!!

I blame the HIV infected sperm that produced you for giving the world a pathetic compoud fool like you. Your parents should have pounded you and the mortar and solfd you to those native doctors for charms that cure dysentry. You are infinitely silly, and you have ansolutely no sense. A jilted hoe just employed you on nairaland to be her publicist and you agreed. If any adult is around you there, ask him to kill you!

If at 17 ur curfew is 12am.,ur mother failed in ur upbringing.

Mortiple:
Umu agbogho Igbo na emebo kwanu Ndigbo ogenile.

Is that what your concern is? You're an ídîot.

dinachi:

Shut your rotten hole, your contribution stinks. Gosh, what are you even saying? If she is a minor can the mother deny she wasnt aware of the relationship or whatever it was? As recent as 2015 she was still exchanging e-mails with him. Please stop being silly. This girl knows that there are easily decieved people like you and that is why she came up with her story.

Seriously dude, stupidity is unbecoming! Lots of parents Don't know when their teen has had sex cos teens will never confide in naija parents. As per email exchange, do you know if she's looking for closure? How do you try to explain a psychological problem with a logical fix?

IamMissMarvel:


If u have sisters, then I pray they don't have an experience like this. It can happen to any one. Someone you trust, ur friend could end up raping you.

So get mature about this.

Understand where I'm coming from. Not all women who get raped were sluts or gold diggers. Some were too trusting and had their trust abused.

I don't mean to resort to an e fight with u. This is a sensitive matter and i wonder how u don't get it.

So the guy just wanted to rape you just like that? Please take it easy on the lies abeg una.

IamMissMarvel:


If u have sisters, then I pray they don't have an experience like this. It can happen to any one. Someone you trust, ur friend could end up raping you.

So get mature about this.

Understand where I'm coming from. Not all women who get raped were sluts or gold diggers. Some were too trusting and had their trust abused.

I don't mean to resort to an e fight with u. This is a sensitive matter and i wonder how u don't get it.

Hey sister girl, stop replying that thing. It's so obvious that he is sick in the head, a bitter fellow and a ticking time bomb. To them, It's always about money. Most of them do not know the psychological trauma that rape victims go through and they are so ignorant and too daft to use their brains.

dinachi:

I blame the HIV infected sperm that produced you for giving the world a pathetic compoud fool like you. Your parents should have pounded you and the mortar and solfd you to those native doctors for charms that cure dysentry. You are infinitely silly, and you have ansolutely no sense. A jilted hoe just employed you on nairaland to be her publicist and you agreed. If any adult is around you there, ask him to kill you!

Bla bla bla..........

Naturalle:


Seriously dude, stupidity is unbecoming! Lots of parents Don't know when their teen has had sex cos teens will never confide in naija parents. As per email exchange, do you know if she's looking for closure? How do you try to explain a psychological problem with a logical fix?

This is where it becomes clear. You are infinitely silly! So her mother never saw her 17 year old girl going out with a man much older? And yes what kind of closure says I love it when you Bleep me? Gilrs like sugar belly can only decieve gullibel women like you. Get it into your thick skull, sugarbelly or sugar pussy was never raped! She was dumped hard.

Naturalle:


Seriously dude, stupidity is unbecoming! Lots of parents Don't know when their teen has had sex cos teens will never confide in naija parents. As per email exchange, do you know if she's looking for closure? How do you try to explain a psychological problem with a logical fix?

You don't need to reply him. He is a chauvinist and a fool who knows nothing.

Aguntasolo1:


Didn't Yerima marry a thirteen year old? If Yerima was not prosecuted, how would you prosecute Audu whose Sugarbelly was 17 at the time? Even if Sugarbelly was actually RAPED, she wouldn't get justice in Nigeria. You have not been able to convict people who fraudulently enriched themselves even when solid pieces of evidence abound, yet you are sounding confident about a rape case. On a good day, rape is difficult to prove not to talk of ones where there was friendship, then relationship and when the lady in question made written admission such as "I like it when you bleeped me". She doesn't have a solid case. She could legitimately be a victim but her case appears too watery to warrant the sorts of hope being expressed by people.

However, society can shame the Audus but I am not too sure it can go beyond just that.

Having read some of the emails between the two, I feel very disappointed with the girl. I've basically lost all the sympathy I had for her

First, at just 17 years, she was already enjoying sex with a guy she met barely a month previously, despite the fact that she didn't know him well. She was even sucking the guy's d*ck in the name of bj, and she evidently relished the experience. I was ashamed reading that.

Secondly, this girl was ready to get married to a Muslim and dump her Christianity, just because the guy was from an influential home. Even if she was in love, her Christian foundation was very poor, to the point that a relationship mattered more to her than her faith.

Thirdly, she was still in love with him even after moving over to the US, up to one year after their separation, as evidenced by the emails they exchanged. I think she even sent her nude pics while she was in the US.

Like somebody said, she might have been raped but it wasn't the rape that crushed her. She obviously still loved the guy after the rape incidents, if indeed she was actually raped. What I think crushed her was the fact that the guy dumped her, started dating and married another girl. I'm sure it was at the point of jilting her that all these bitterness about him started.

I'm still disappointed with the girl. I assumed her to be a decent girl who was abused continually against her will only to discover that she was enjoying the sexcapades she had with him, and still loved him up to one year after she moved over to the US.

CookieLaVee:
Hey sister girl, stop replying that thing. It's so obvious that he is sick in the head, a bitter fellow and a ticking time bomb. To them, It's always about money. Most of them do not know the psychological trauma that rape victims go through and they are so ignorant and too daft to use their brains.

Transgender dolt, keep working for an american hoe who will never pay! Your entire generation are sick in the head and the rotten hole you came from need you urgently.

slimmy05:
Sugabelly is a cheap slut. She enjoyed the fucking.

You're a very big įdiot for such a comment

Kennydoc:


Having read some of the emails between the two, I feel very disappointed with the girl. I've basically lost all the sympathy I had for her

First, at just 17 years, she was already enjoying sex with a guy she met barely a month previously, despite the fact that she didn't know him well. She was even sucking the guy's d*ck in the name of bj, and she evidently relished the experience. I was ashamed reading that.

Secondly, this girl was ready to get married to a Muslim and dump her Christianity, just because the guy was from an influential home. Even if she was in love, her Christian foundation was very poor, to the point that a relationship mattered more to her than her faith.

Thirdly, she was still in love with him even after moving over to the US, up to one year after their separation, as evidenced by the emails they exchanged. I think she even sent her nude pics while she was in the US.

Like somebody said, she might have been raped but it wasn't the rape that crushed her. She obviously still loved the guy after the rape incidents, if indeed she was actually raped. What I think crushed her was the fact that the guy dumped her, started dating and married another girl. I'm sure it was at the point of jilting her that all these bitterness about him started.

I'm still disappointed with the girl. I assumed her to be a decent girl who was abused continually against her will only to discover that she was enjoying the sexcapades she had with him, and still loved him up to one year after she moved over to the US.

Thanks for being objective.

Ugosample:


You don't need to reply him. He is a chauvinist and a fool who knows nothing.

Sugarbelly evil partner keep ranting and sounding more and more hollow. Your parents should have sold you to buy suya.

Mustapha should be praying. Becos if they jam a female judge in the court. Sorry for him.

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Kennydoc:


You simply know nothing about the law. Even a consensual sexual intercourse by an adult with a 17 year old (who is obviously a minor), is regarded as a rape in the eyes of the law.
Once the Mustapha guy establishes that he had any sexual relationship with the said girl when she was still 17 years old, then he has indicted himself and will go down. It doesn't matter whether she sent him any nude pics or not. Infact, even if she was the one that seduced him, he will still be charged for rape.

As for the nude pics, don't forget that she already mentioned that the Mustapha guy took nude pictures of her, against her will. It was the same pictures he threatened to use against her, which made her live in fear all those years, and refused to report the rape incidents.

I know the girl wouldn't be completely innocent, as some of the reports from the Mustapha guy would indict her, but as long as she was 17 years old then, Mustapha is a goner.

Why do you keep laying emphasis on '17'?? Do you know it's now legal to have sex with a 13 years old in Nigeria??

Be educated then quote me

dinachi:
Sugarbelly evil partner keep ranting and sounding more and more hollow. Your parents should have sold you to buy suya.

Ignore them..they could probably be one of them greedy hoees hanging around rich guys for what they can milk

kosplateau:
Mbah, se te na inara amu ndi abughi ndi Igbo.

You're even more stùpid than I thought.

Kennydoc:


Having read some of the emails between the two, I feel very disappointed with the girl. I've basically lost all the sympathy I had for her

First, at just 17 years, she was already enjoying sex with a guy she met barely a month previously, despite the fact that she didn't know him well. She was even sucking the guy's d*ck in the name of bj, and she evidently relished the experience. I was ashamed reading that.

Secondly, this girl was ready to get married to a Muslim and dump her Christianity, just because the guy was from an influential home. Even if she was in love, her Christian foundation was very poor, to the point that a relationship mattered more to her than her faith.

Thirdly, she was still in love with him even after moving over to the US, up to one year after their separation, as evidenced by the emails they exchanged. I think she even sent her nude pics while she was in the US.

Like somebody said, she might have been raped but it wasn't the rape that crushed her. She obviously still loved the guy after the rape incidents, if indeed she was actually raped. What I think crushed her was the fact that the guy dumped her, started dating and married another girl. I'm sure it was at the point of jilting her that all these bitterness about him started.

I'm still disappointed with the girl. I assumed her to be a decent girl who was abused continually against her will only to discover that she was enjoying the sexcapades she had with him, and still loved him up to one year after she moved over to the US.

Spot on!

Shiiit's bout to go down