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5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by RexKexMilann: 7:09am On Nov 29, 2015

Firstly, I want you to know that the list in this article doesn’t provide concise knowledge regarding you taking a woman on a first date or how she would react to you. It is essential you bear in mind that she’s probably sleeping with another man especially if you’re not providing excellent service in the bedroom More so, these signs are mostly based on how comfortable the girl in question is with you and can not be used to judge a girl you hardly know or have been on just a few dates with.


Furthermore, if you are the jealous type (or appear to be so), chances are she won’t be comfortable with sharing her innermost secrets with you as she is not sure what your reactions would be like of you find out that she’s been with someone else. In this way, her actions can be attributed to your behaviour rather than her love for another man’s penis.


Anyways, it all depends on whether you care enough about her and the relationship. If you’re not looking for a long term relationship or you just want to score her and move on. This might sound harsh but that is the reality of the times we find ourselves in even as there are numerous options available in the pool of dating Added with a level of acceptance of female promiscuity especially by certain feminists then you can see why it is justified to know the truth about who else she’s sleeping with.

Have it at the back of your mind that some women are manipulative and astounding liars. Sometimes they do things just to throw you off and at other times, they are caught up within themselves and those signs may give a wrong impression.


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The Phone Is Face Down:



If you find out that her phone is placed far down whenever you’re with her, she’s probably hooking up with another dude. Why do you think a lady would have her phone face down whenever she’s with you? She’s obviously hiding something and what do you think she’d want to hide from the man she’s dating? Of course it’s an instant messaging notification, text message or call from a guy she’s with.



2.

She Checks, But Does Not Respond To Certain Texts:



Almost all girls engage in some form of teasing on their phones with their friends. They enjoy sending messages to each other and replying instantly.

Notice when you’re with her, how she smiles and responds to her girlfriends messages. Now think of when she gets a notification and fails to respond to it It’s obviously a guy. This sign is a bit tricky given the fact that girls will have lots of guys calling and texting them and as such difficult to assess. But if she’s always checking her messages and fails to respond to them, she’s probably doing so cause it’s from a person she doesn’t want you to know about.



3.

Denying you the honeypot:



Most girls won’t want you to give them cunnilingus when it’s less than a day that another guys penis was in there. Of course, there are times when they are just not in the mood for it or they’ve not had their baths in hours or she feels her period is almost here. Despite how conniving women may be, they have a subtle respect for their regular guys and wouldn’t want his mouth where another guy’s stick has been.

Also, when she suddenly starts giving you unexpected blowjobs which she previously didn’t, know that she feels guilty that she’s doing same to some other guy. If she refuses you sex at times, it could be she just recently made out with someone else on the same day. It’s most important to get girls to be free and open with you and I guarantee that you’d be shocked at what you discover. Some of them have no problems sleeping with more than one guy on the same day or making out with other girls as much as they do with you.



4.

Her “Friend” Is neither male or female:



When she starts telling you about a friend that she has plans with without explicitly stating if it’s a man or woman, chances are the so called friend is a dude This one is self- explanatory. Girls that are more deceptive in nature would rather completely withhold information from you than lying about who the friend is.



5.

The Surprise Shave:



If you have had surprise sex with her and perhaps a couple of times when she wasn’t shaved and you discover her to be randomly shaved all of a sudden she is probably looking forward to sex from someone else.

This is even more true if she’s shaved on a day she’s not expected to see you.

Lastly, remember these signs are not perfect and they do not completely tell if she’s with someone else but are definitely things you should be on the lookout for Nowadays, it is best to think she’s sleeping with some other guy until the time you’re proven wrong.


#Cpd & #Edtd.

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by Nobody: 7:10am On Nov 29, 2015
With your points, it still does not mean she's cheating on you. Since when did shaving equal cheating?

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by Nobody: 7:13am On Nov 29, 2015
Me, ma gf can't try that
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by Laveda(f): 7:15am On Nov 29, 2015
Like I should have a timetable of when to shave cause I have a boyfriend? undecided
Absolutely Nonsense!!!

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by RexKexMilann: 7:20am On Nov 29, 2015
dat5starguy:
With your points, it still does not mean she's cheating on you. Since when did shaving equal cheating?
"Re-read" the Last Paragraph cheesy.
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by Nobody: 7:22am On Nov 29, 2015
What has shaving got to do with cheating undecided

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by greatness22(m): 7:23am On Nov 29, 2015
Op, try something positive to write abt ladies....Why can't u guys talk abt the positive side of 9ja girls? Am sorry to say, we dnt have respect for women in 9ja, which is very bad.

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by gabinogem(m): 7:24am On Nov 29, 2015
dat5starguy:
With your points, it still does not mean she's cheating on you. Since when did shaving equal cheating?
a lady once told me that whenever she shaves it makes her feel honey, thus increases her sexual drive... and I believe her.
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by RexKexMilann: 7:31am On Nov 29, 2015
greatness22:
Op, try something positive to write abt ladies....Why can't u guys talk abt the positive side of 9ja girls? Am sorry to say, we dnt have respect for women in 9ja, which is very bad.
Respect? grin.

Bro, I don't disrespect Nigerian Lassess, Was just stating the Obvious.
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by Richardonald(m): 7:40am On Nov 29, 2015
Op funny,nowadays with all those signs u list there,if she strayed u won't know..soo i don't have time 4 those signs,since guys too they cheat,no be only to Bleep i want her 4,na she i won marry.. Only I know how 2 checkd on my wifey 2 be..dont knw yet
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by greatness22(m): 7:41am On Nov 29, 2015
RexKexMilann:
Respect? grin.

Bro, I don't disrespect Nigerian Lassess, Was just stating the Obvious.
Stating the obvious?? Hmm! Happy sunday bro, make i baff, i wan go Church nw, wil b bck later.

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by kasley44(m): 7:51am On Nov 29, 2015
op, girls don hurt u tire! be ur own boss, check my signature
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by naijaboiy: 8:07am On Nov 29, 2015
I concur. angry

Sometimes when she refuses to kiss you it's because she has sucked the dick of another guy and swallowed his cùm. sad

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by djeezy(m): 8:13am On Nov 29, 2015
Smh
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by RexKexMilann: 8:14am On Nov 29, 2015
naijaboiy:
I concur. angry

Sometimes when she refuses to kiss you it's because she has sucked the dick of another guy and swallowed his cùm. sad
LOL.


I Subconciously know say you go Concur ... Better Person.
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by RexKexMilann: 8:17am On Nov 29, 2015
djeezy:
Smh
Your girl Doesn't cheat on You bro? undecided.


Congrats cheesy.
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by djeezy(m): 8:22am On Nov 29, 2015
RexKexMilann:
Your girl Doesn't cheat on You bro? undecided.


Congrats cheesy.
I don't know whether she's cheating or not but she doesn't deny me sex. I always get it and am okay with that.

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by ALISMILE(m): 10:56am On Nov 29, 2015
Eve0000:
What has shaving got to do with cheating undecided
women like to look clean wen they want to meet a knw guy?

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by mercielizzie(f): 1:02pm On Nov 29, 2015
Some people's brain eyaff decayed.

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by 6fit(f): 1:19pm On Nov 29, 2015
gabinogem:
a lady once told me that whenever she shaves it makes her feel honey, thus increases her sexual drive... and I believe her.

same here
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by Nobody: 1:24pm On Nov 29, 2015
Are guys running outta ideas

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by Nobody: 1:31pm On Nov 29, 2015
Shoroniyen undecided

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by Nobody: 1:40pm On Nov 29, 2015
greatness22:
Op, try something positive to write abt ladies....Why can't u guys talk abt the positive side of 9ja girls? Am sorry to say, we dnt have respect for women in 9ja, which is very bad.
You are the first guy I will meet on NL with respect 4 women. Not those animals that calls women 'hoes' or bitches'. I respect u 4 dis comment bro

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by obiorathesubtle: 1:47pm On Nov 29, 2015
undecided really?

You can't be serious! shocked

Wow!shocked

Are you kidding!shocked

Don't say that!shocked

O my god I can't believe this!shocked

Goodness me! You don't mean it?shocked

Vote Chief Olusegun Obasanjo for President, 1999! For transparency and change!

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by hatux: 1:49pm On Nov 29, 2015
Lol cheesy... This got me ROTFL
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by Qualer: 1:54pm On Nov 29, 2015
Eve0000:
What has shaving got to do with cheating undecided


YOU LEAVE YOUR OWN LIKE SAMBISA?? shocked
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by Qualer: 1:56pm On Nov 29, 2015
6fit:


same here

can we book appointment for tomorrow? please shave this night, abeg grin
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by Nobody: 1:58pm On Nov 29, 2015
Qualer:



YOU LEAVE YOUR OWN LIKE SAMBISA?? shocked
now you wanna twist the whole talk abi,BTW what do u know about sambisa? Have u been there undecided
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by Qualer: 2:03pm On Nov 29, 2015
Eve0000:
now you wanna twist the whole talk abi,BTW what do u know about sambisa? Have u been there undecided

twist ke? i dey build house for sambisa at the moment, land don cheap well well for dia! cheesy i dey clear bush at present before laying blocks.
you nko, hope your punny no dey like sambisa o, try clear bush small so i go fit come lay 'block' well well without obstruction grin grin
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by Nobody: 2:05pm On Nov 29, 2015
Qualer:


twist ke? i dey build house for sambisa at the moment, land don cheap well well for dia! cheesy i dey clear bush at present before laying blocks.
you nko, hope your punny no dey like sambisa o, try clear bush small so i go fit come lay 'block' well well without obstruction grin grin
i think you are high on oshogbo weed grin
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With. by greatness22(m): 2:06pm On Nov 29, 2015
Abbykem:
You are the first guy I will meet on NL with respect 4 women. Not those animals that calls women 'hoes' or bitches'. I respect u 4 dis comment bro
Thanks Miss Kem, but i stil believe sum dude out there have respect for ladies. Maximum respect to u nd all the NL ladies.

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