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What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 7:28pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
hello guys...I was watching a program on TV about weddings and d groom is Igbo nd d bride Yoruba.... so I began to think do pple still do intertribal marriage in Nigeria and dose it work...... my mind began to race into alot of challenges such marriage brings most especially d 2 tribes in d picture here.... with all d tribal e-war I see on ds forum especially among dose 2 tribes it makes me wonder if dey still marry dem selves d Yoruba bride even confessed are dad was against d marriage at first... so I nid 2 hear ur view concerning it...especially from dose whu are in it or products of it... P.S:I AM NOT A TRIBALIST... I NID UR ADVICE COS WITH D WAY AM GOING I JUST AV DS SOFT SPOT FOR RESPONSIBLE IGBO GIRLS... TO BE HONEST MOST OF DEM I JST LOVE DERE EYES... I AM A YORUBA BOY.... ND I LOVE D POSITVE TRAITS OF IGBOS ALOT ...THANKS...BEFORE SOME YORUBA PPLE WLD COME FOR MY HEAD PLSS NOTE AM PROUD OF BEING YORUBA ND I MEAN VERY PROUD ND ALSO I LOVE YORUBA WOMEN ALSO... THANKS ONCE AGAIN cc:lalasticlala ...farano .... 1 Like |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 7:39pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
There has to be a lot of mutual understanding for an inter tribal marriage to blossom. There's something unique about two people from different cultures. |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by itstpia8: 7:39pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
why are you folks always in people's faces? If you are not convinced about your choices whose fault is that? Mine? 1 Like |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by ednut1(m): 7:40pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Sorry bro this is not 1965. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by BrianRoss: 7:41pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
its works na, if d two love birds are really in love with each other and are compatible and understand dem selfs. My own will b interconutry |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 7:43pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
itstpia8:plsss ow dose ds correlate wit d post... |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 7:44pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
There isn't anything wrong with inter tribal marriage. Two people from different cultures can marry each other as far as they love each other, can communicate effectively and share a mutual understanding. |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 7:44pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Understanding, tolerance, patience and love are key to intertribal marriages. 1 Like |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by wilybebsy(m): 7:45pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Don't believe the shit u read here on NL cuz in real life it doesn't exist.. |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by itstpia8: 7:46pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
elkonS: who are you folks blaming for your choices? If I choose to do something, I dont keep whining about it all the time, are you not ok with your choice or what? |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 7:53pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
itstpia8:I have not chosen anything now abi ema gba mi.... did u read d post at all |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by DICE234(m): 8:08pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
you can find love anywhere. and in true love you both appear to be in your own world oblivious of other people meanwhile i believe that all women are pretty without makeup, but with the right makeup they can be pretty powerful. are you a makeup artist? can you apply the right makeup for all occassions? why not click on my signature to register your services? Sabiboy... someone somewhere needs your services 1 Like |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 8:16pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Well, It's goo. And i personally would engage in it if I have d chance to. Interracial marriages on the other hand may be quite rocky. |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 8:28pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
enieme:dats it oo. ...its dat rocky part dat scares me ......some products of such marriages are always in a fix in which of d tribe to recognised with.... I guess such parents av a lot of work to do |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 8:30pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Miadad:tolerance and patience I think dose 2 words are key for me.. .dey will need a lot of it |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 8:30pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
elkonS:it'd not even about the children facing problems of which tribe to align with. It's aboutbthe couple themselves dealing with cultural differences. |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 8:33pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
enieme:hmmm very true.. .and I also think dey nid to strike a balance for their kids and also limit d influence of in laws in d marriage |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 8:35pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
elkonS:but all in all. It can work and in fact it has worked for some. |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 8:38pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
enieme:very true .. |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by achinaboy(m): 9:36pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
I wonder why culture should be a problem in an intertribal marriages,, if you the man is married to a lady from any culture, automatically,she belongs to your culture,she could teach the kids a little of her own culture, at the end of the day,both the kids and the woman,belongs to the man's. thas all |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 10:16pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
achinaboy:hmnmmmm ....eye opening ....now I get it ... thas all...lolzz |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by rittyben(f): 10:38pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Do Yoruba BOY/MEN marry outside their tribe? But i prefer them to the Igbos. A Yoruba guy hardly string you alone or give you hope of marrying you. But an Igbo guy can string along only for you to see his wedding card from a friend, while you are still in a relationship with him. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by titosantana(m): 10:39pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
The tribal war thrive on the Internet especially on this forum, it's not like that in reality. Personally, I don't want to know where you come from so far you possessed the qualities I desire in a woman. 1 Like |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by AfroKnight: 10:42pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
elkonS: Lol. You don't know madam Tpia. Welcome to Nairaland. |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by titosantana(m): 10:43pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
rittyben: Yes they do. I know a Muslim Yoruba man that married an Igbo Christian woman. They have 3 children for each other today. I admire them! |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by titosantana(m): 10:46pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
rittyben: You people should stop generalizing, ok? |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by Cutehector(m): 11:10pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
The problem is not the groom marryin the bride frm another tribe.. The problem is parents approval.. They be like, i dnt want my son or daughter marryn from this tribe or that tribe... Then slowly, a rift sets in |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 11:35pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
rittyben:firstly thanks for ur comments ma'am.... secondly a big YES Yoruba men marry outside their tribe.... I no numerous examples.... thirdly I don't think d action of one person shld b used to judge a group of pple its called hasty generalisation..I understand wat u very well wat u mean in connection to ibo men... but plss don't generalize they are not all saints in Yoruba too...I guess u talking from experience tho lastly where are u from gan *winks *? |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 11:38pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Cutehector:exactly dats even b4 d marriage ..u can Imagine after marriage ...it becomes shebi I warned u ds and dat ... dose are d stuffs dat .make it scary... and trust me it takes serious love to keep dem going 1 Like |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 11:40pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
AfroKnight:I see lol...e b like she get skon skon for head |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by igboboy3(m): 11:44pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
In real life, inter-tribal and inter-religious marriages don't work for the lower class unless, there is money which covers many sins |
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by itstpia8: 12:00am On Dec 05, 2015 |
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