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What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 7:28pm On Dec 04, 2015
hello guys...I was watching a program on TV about weddings and d groom is Igbo nd d bride Yoruba....
so I began to think do pple still do intertribal marriage in Nigeria and dose it work......

my mind began to race into alot of challenges such marriage brings most especially d 2 tribes in d picture here....
with all d tribal e-war I see on ds forum especially among dose 2 tribes it makes me wonder if dey still marry dem selves d Yoruba bride even confessed are dad was against d marriage at first... so I nid 2 hear ur view concerning it...especially from dose whu are in it or products of it...

P.S:I AM NOT A TRIBALIST... I NID UR ADVICE COS WITH D WAY AM GOING I JUST AV DS SOFT SPOT FOR RESPONSIBLE IGBO GIRLS... TO BE HONEST MOST OF DEM I JST LOVE DERE EYES... I AM A YORUBA BOY.... ND I LOVE D POSITVE TRAITS OF IGBOS ALOT ...THANKS...BEFORE SOME YORUBA PPLE WLD COME FOR MY HEAD PLSS NOTE AM PROUD OF BEING YORUBA ND I MEAN VERY PROUD ND ALSO I LOVE YORUBA WOMEN ALSO... THANKS ONCE AGAIN

cc:lalasticlala ...farano ....

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Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 7:39pm On Dec 04, 2015
There has to be a lot of mutual understanding for an inter tribal marriage to blossom.
There's something unique about two people from different cultures.
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by itstpia8: 7:39pm On Dec 04, 2015
why are you folks always in people's faces?

If you are not convinced about your choices whose fault is that?


Mine?

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Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by ednut1(m): 7:40pm On Dec 04, 2015
Sorry bro this is not 1965.

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Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by BrianRoss: 7:41pm On Dec 04, 2015
its works na, if d two love birds are really in love with each other and are compatible and understand dem selfs.


My own will b interconutry wink
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 7:43pm On Dec 04, 2015
itstpia8:
why are you folks always in people's faces?

If you are not convinced about your choices whose fault is that?


Mine?
plsss ow dose ds correlate wit d post...
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 7:44pm On Dec 04, 2015
There isn't anything wrong with inter tribal marriage. Two people from different cultures can marry each other as far as they love each other, can communicate effectively and share a mutual understanding.
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 7:44pm On Dec 04, 2015
Understanding, tolerance, patience and love are key to intertribal marriages.

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Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by wilybebsy(m): 7:45pm On Dec 04, 2015
Don't believe the shit u read here on NL cuz in real life it doesn't exist..
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by itstpia8: 7:46pm On Dec 04, 2015
elkonS:

plsss ow dose ds correlate wit d post...

who are you folks blaming for your choices?

If I choose to do something, I dont keep whining about it all the time, are you not ok with your choice or what?
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 7:53pm On Dec 04, 2015
itstpia8:


who are you folks blaming for your choices?

If I choose to do something, I dont keep whining about it all the time, are you not ok with your choice or what?
I have not chosen anything now abi ema gba mi.... did u read d post at all
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by DICE234(m): 8:08pm On Dec 04, 2015
you can find love anywhere. and in true love you both appear to be in your own world oblivious of other people

meanwhile

i believe that all women are pretty without makeup, but with the right makeup they can be pretty powerful. are you a makeup artist? can you apply the right makeup for all occassions? why not click on my signature to register your services? Sabiboy... someone somewhere needs your services

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Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 8:16pm On Dec 04, 2015
Well, It's goo. And i personally would engage in it if I have d chance to.
Interracial marriages on the other hand may be quite rocky.
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 8:28pm On Dec 04, 2015
enieme:
Well, It's goo. And i personally would engage in it if I have d chance to.
Interracial marriages on the other hand may be quite rocky.
dats it oo. ...its dat rocky part dat scares me ......some products of such marriages are always in a fix in which of d tribe to recognised with.... I guess such parents av a lot of work to do
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 8:30pm On Dec 04, 2015
Miadad:
Understanding, tolerance, patience and love are key to intertribal marriages.
tolerance and patience I think dose 2 words are key for me.. .dey will need a lot of it
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 8:30pm On Dec 04, 2015
elkonS:

dats it oo. ...its dat rocky part dat scares me ......some products of such marriages are always in a fix in which of d tribe to recognised with.... I guess such parents av a lot of work to do
it'd not even about the children facing problems of which tribe to align with. It's aboutbthe couple themselves dealing with cultural differences.
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 8:33pm On Dec 04, 2015
enieme:

it'd not even about the children facing problems of which tribe to align with. It's aboutbthe couple themselves dealing with cultural differences.
hmmm very true.. .and I also think dey nid to strike a balance for their kids and also limit d influence of in laws in d marriage
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 8:35pm On Dec 04, 2015
elkonS:

hmmm very true.. .and I also think dey nid to strike a balance for their kids and also limit d influence of in laws in d marriage
but all in all. It can work and in fact it has worked for some.
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 8:38pm On Dec 04, 2015
enieme:
but all in all. It can work and in fact it has worked for some.
very true ..
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by achinaboy(m): 9:36pm On Dec 04, 2015
I wonder why culture should be a problem in an intertribal marriages,, if you the man is married to a lady from any culture, automatically,she belongs to your culture,she could teach the kids a little of her own culture, at the end of the day,both the kids and the woman,belongs to the man's. thas all
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 10:16pm On Dec 04, 2015
achinaboy:
I wonder why culture should be a problem in an intertribal marriages,, if you the man is married to a lady from any culture, automatically,she belongs to your culture,she could teach the kids a little of her own culture, at the end of the day,both the kids and the woman,belongs to the man's. thas all
hmnmmmm ....eye opening ....now I get it ...
thas all...lolzz
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by rittyben(f): 10:38pm On Dec 04, 2015
Do Yoruba BOY/MEN marry outside their tribe?

But i prefer them to the Igbos. A Yoruba guy hardly string you alone or give you hope of marrying you.
But an Igbo guy can string along only for you to see his wedding card from a friend, while you are still in a relationship with him.

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Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by titosantana(m): 10:39pm On Dec 04, 2015
The tribal war thrive on the Internet especially on this forum, it's not like that in reality.





Personally, I don't want to know where you come from so far you possessed the qualities I desire in a woman.

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Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by AfroKnight: 10:42pm On Dec 04, 2015
elkonS:

I have not chosen anything now abi ema gba mi.... did u read d post at all

Lol. You don't know madam Tpia. Welcome to Nairaland. cheesy cheesy
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by titosantana(m): 10:43pm On Dec 04, 2015
rittyben:
Do Yoruba BOY/MEN marry outside their tribe?

Yes they do. I know a Muslim Yoruba man that married an Igbo Christian woman. They have 3 children for each other today. I admire them!
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by titosantana(m): 10:46pm On Dec 04, 2015
rittyben:
Do Yoruba BOY/MEN marry outside their tribe?

But i prefer them to the Igbos. A Yoruba guy hardly string you alone or give you hope of marrying you.
But an Igbo guy can string along only for you to see his wedding card from a friend, while you are still in a relationship with him.

You people should stop generalizing, ok?
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by Cutehector(m): 11:10pm On Dec 04, 2015
The problem is not the groom marryin the bride frm another tribe.. The problem is parents approval.. They be like, i dnt want my son or daughter marryn from this tribe or that tribe... Then slowly, a rift sets in
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 11:35pm On Dec 04, 2015
rittyben:
Do Yoruba BOY/MEN marry outside their tribe?

But i prefer them to the Igbos. A Yoruba guy hardly string you alone or give you hope of marrying you.
But an Igbo guy can string along only for you to see his wedding card from a friend, while you are still in a relationship with him.
firstly thanks for ur comments ma'am.... secondly a big YES Yoruba men marry outside their tribe.... I no numerous examples.... thirdly I don't think d action of one person shld b used to judge a group of pple its called hasty generalisation..I understand wat u very well wat u mean in connection to ibo men... but plss don't generalize they are not all saints in Yoruba too...I guess u talking from experience tho
lastly where are u from gan *winks *?
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 11:38pm On Dec 04, 2015
Cutehector:
The problem is not the groom marryin the bride frm another tribe.. The problem is parents approval.. They be like, i dnt want my son or daughter marryn from this tribe or that tribe... Then slowly, a rift sets in
exactly dats even b4 d marriage ..u can Imagine after marriage ...it becomes shebi I warned u ds and dat ...
dose are d stuffs dat .make it scary... and trust me it takes serious love to keep dem going

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Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by elkonS: 11:40pm On Dec 04, 2015
AfroKnight:

Lol. You don't know madam Tpia. Welcome to Nairaland. cheesy cheesy
I see lol...e b like she get skon skon for head
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by igboboy3(m): 11:44pm On Dec 04, 2015
In real life, inter-tribal and inter-religious marriages don't work for the lower class

unless, there is money which covers many sins
Re: What Is Ur Take On Inter-tribal Marriage by itstpia8: 12:00am On Dec 05, 2015
elkonS:

I see lol...e b like I get skon skon for head

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