Okay so here’s the situation…as if you didn’t have enough to deal with already in this already turbulent and tempest time in your life, you’ve gone and got yourself a date with the girl of your dreams, or at least one who finally said yes to your offer! Chances are, assuming this is your first first date, you won’t have the slightest clue what to do, what to expect and possibly even consider the prospect of cancelling to save face. Well, don’t do it!! Frankly, there is no such thing as a textbook first date and everyone has to go through the learning process at some stage! With that a mind, a few basic considerations can make it far less painful if taken on board: 1 – Be Yourself
An important part of the first date, not to mention the whole of your life in general, is to remember that any act you put on or stories you embellish will eventually come out, much to your detriment. Whoever agreed to go on a date with you wants to spend the time with you, therefore put away the over-confident alter-ego you may be planning on adopting opt for the natural you. Not only will this help in deciphering whether or not you are indeed a good match, it will be so much more relaxing for you. Of course, life is full of little white-lies we all use to our benefit, but be careful where these and real trouble begins! 2 – You’re in it Together!
It is only natural to feel like there has never been a single person in the world who feels quite as nervous as you do right now, but there is…and you’re going on a date with her! Regardless of whether this is the first, second, third or hundredth time she has dated, every single first date is unique and therefore impossible to predict. It can help your preparation and concentration in the end to remember that you are both in the same vote and she is no doubt at least 99.99% as nervous as you are, possibly more. With this in mind, you’ll find there’s no need to hide the nerves which will ultimately relax both of you and make for a hugely more enjoyable date…hopefully the first of many! 3 – Have Fun!!
Obvious as this may seem, one of the key things both sexes seem to completely forget during too many dates is how to have fun. I mean, the reason you’ve both agreed to go on a date is that you both believe it will be a pleasant, enjoyable and yes, ‘fun’ experience, so what’s to gain in taking it so seriously? The truth of the matter is, accidents happen, shirts get stained, wine glasses get smashed and bodies backfire with unfortunate sound effects…but the stiffer and shakier you are, the more chance one or more of these will actually happen! Furthermore, if anything untoward does happen, there’s nothing worse than that overreaction. Let a slight mishap ruin your night and you can guarantee it will be you first and only date, but laugh it off and you’ll not only win favour but have the basis for some wonderful common ground to reminisce about further down the line.

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