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I Am In A Dilemma by idontaya: 6:03pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Please guys come to my rescue.... This is centered around two female which i do not want to loose but have to select one to marry. Here goes... I met these ladies around the same period, i asked Labake out and after the initial gra gra she accepted to date me. thing are getting serious now that i had to ask her certain questions... She has been into business for like 6 years and when i asked what was her savings from the biz she said NOTHING. I asked the reason and she said debts and some other excuses. In short she has no savings and told me to my face i am providing all she will be needing in marriage, relocating her shop from one town to where i am and other things even to her sanitary towels! What is annoying me is that have i now offended the gods that i want to marry her and there taking over her liabilities (her body being the only asset)! I do not have a problem meeting these needs but she has to meet up at some point which she cannot do! I just like/love her i dont know why despite these liability. On the other hand, there is Shalewa, who is more than willing to meet my people, she has a job and even a business. She encourages me to be the best and all other positives. The problem here is that i dont have a feeling for her at all, but i dont want to let go. Mind you we have not had sex even with Labake Guys please if you were in my shoes what would you do? Who will you take home to mamma. Cos i want to do that this december and wrap up marriage. But i am in a dilemma for nowQ please advice maturedly |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by Nobody: 6:05pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
watch as this goes to front page . . . |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by dachaste(f): 6:05pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Being a guuy, I'll advice u go for d one u love. Cos u can let her know wot u expect from her. And she'll change Buh d second gal, since U dontt love ha, ur marriage will hardly be peaceful |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by Erukumakanaki: 6:06pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Shalewa loma shey eh eh eh, Shalewa loma shey aahh ahh! ahh! bro its not "How long but How well" |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by teemanbastos(m): 6:07pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Guys please if you were in my shoes what would you do? Tank God i am not in your shoes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by cruzita(f): 6:11pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
bring the two of dem here for tasting sorry testing |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by idontaya: 6:12pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
teemanbastos: e no funny jor..... i need serious advices |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by teemanbastos(m): 6:15pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
idontaya:idontaya.. Go straight to the mountain.. When you finish, when coming down from the mountain.. god may hand you the mrs right in wedding gown |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by chiefolododo(m): 6:23pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
If you need advice, get me schnapps sorry red wine |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by chiefolododo(m): 6:24pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
If you need advice, get me schnapps sorry red wine |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by Nobody: 6:39pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
How are you confused about a woman you don't have feelings for? Anyway people want different things from marriage so you can start by asking yourself what you want from marriage. As per the first chic if you like her you share what you want in a union and if you can't blend you free both of them surely they are not the last women in the world. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by idontaya: 7:14pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
andromida: Thank for the advice..... how I wish I can swap bodies! It is well |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by tpiar: 7:18pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
idontaya: how do they marry/take home to mama where you come from? because december only has two weeks left, and you are saying you want to marry/take home to mama this month but you are yet to decide who. besides that, what is the meaning of this rigmarole you typed? |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by 7footre(m): 7:22pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Ask yourself this, if per adventure something happens, and you are unable to earn, which of the two would be able to take care of your family? Financially emotionally nd otherwise? Which of the two would raise your kids right? Well one man's meat is another's poison. It all boils down to what you want in a wife 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by idontaya: 7:26pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
7footre: I love this.... you're so on point |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by 7footre(m): 7:36pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
idontaya: 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma by idontaya: 8:04pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Oya na more advice plsssss |
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